Very First Time Husband Feelings

Thanks for your share. Would you like explain it a little more? What did you do? What were the most humiliating moments and the hottest ones too? Anything they said?
Humiliating was seeing another cock please her. Also seeing her truly get pleased and hearing sounds like never before. This is one aspect of life that I know I just don’t compare to or can compete with.
It was all humiliating but yet also so hot.the two humiliating parts for sure was him cumming in her and after as they stood up and made out his cock was so wet looking and cum was dripping down her legs.
 
Humiliating was seeing another cock please her. Also seeing her truly get pleased and hearing sounds like never before. This is one aspect of life that I know I just don’t compare to or can compete with.
It was all humiliating but yet also so hot.the two humiliating parts for sure was him cumming in her and after as they stood up and made out his cock was so wet looking and cum was dripping down her legs.
Thanks! Mixed feelings. Did you speak about it, day after? Did she make any comments?
 
Humiliating was seeing another cock please her. Also seeing her truly get pleased and hearing sounds like never before. This is one aspect of life that I know I just don’t compare to or can compete with.
It was all humiliating but yet also so hot.the two humiliating parts for sure was him cumming in her and after as they stood up and made out his cock was so wet looking and cum was dripping down her legs.
this is something i dont quite get, or understand.

we got into this with eyes wide open. and set our expectations. and the top of that was 'pleasure'. pure unadulterated pleasure. so all i felt when i watch get fucked by much bigger cocks than mine, was pure satisfaction. so i am perhaps a tad puzzled with the humiliation that you feel. please do not misunderstand me, there is no malice intended. but you wanted this to happen yes?

dan
 
This happened several years ago so, some of the memories are a bit fuzzy. I will try to tell it as accurately as I can.

The first time I saw my wife fuck another guy - and only time thus far - was when we met with another couple to swap wives in the same hotel room.

The first meet up was just for coffee and my wife didn’t feel like he was her type physically. A little smaller in stature than myself. She prefers bigger “husky” types but, was willing to try.

When we met them to play, we went for dinner first. The wife told us she loved sucking cock and told me how great she was at making guys cum with her mouth. She looked at me and added “…and, I swallow”. My wife never did this for me so I was pretty excited by what I heard.

When his wife went to the bathroom, he explained he was just doing this as a favor to her. It wasn’t his idea but his wife wanted to try swinging. That was a little disappointing to hear.

As my wife and I drove to the hotel after dinner, she was pretty bummed about the husband’s comment. As much as I liked what the wife said, I was concerned how this would go.

We got to the room and the ladies went to get ready….put on pretty lingerie. They came out, looking sexy and we agreed to start with our own partners then transition once we were warmed up.

The start was fun but then the ladies changed beds and it got very interesting.

As I was playing with the wife, I was trying to see what was happening on the other bed. I remember seeing the husband’s naked body from behind, laying on his side. My wife was on the other side of him so I didn’t really see her. I wondered what was happening.

On my bed, the wife was showing me her blow job technique. I laid back and enjoyed her sucking my cock, trying to watch my wife in action.

After some play, my wife asked the husband “Time to suit up?” He said yes and grabbed a condom. This was getting very hot!

He rolled the condom on then approached my wife…she was laying on her back with her legs spread. The moment he put his cock in her pussy, I exploded in his wife’s mouth.

It was probably the biggest cum shot I had ever released. She swallowed it all and coughed! She said “Wow! How much do you cum?”

The truth was, seeing another cock in my wife’s pussy is what did it! The blowjob was good but seeing my wife get fucked was mind-blowing.

After shooting my load I was mesmerized watching the husband fuck my wife. I felt awkward…I should have been playing with his wife more but the scene of this guy pounding away on my wife in missionary…then from behind…then missionary again…it was the greatest porn I had ever witnessed.

The wife tried to suck me back to life so we could fuck but, my eyes were on the other bed.

When it was over and we were driving home, my wife’s account of the details was scorching hot.

Because she heard the other wife’s offer to swallow me, she offered that to the husband. She never does that for me! 🔥 The husband said no - he wanted to cum in her pussy.

She told me, when they were playing, how close he came to putting his cock in her pussy bareback..we agreed we would not do that but that would have been amazingly hot!

She also said that is cock is longer than mine. I am thicker but his longer cock hit places I never had and it made her tingle! She loved fucking him.

His lukewarm attitude also changed. As it turned out, he absolutely loved what my wife did for him! He loved fucking her. They were a great sexual match!

The next day, when we talked, my wife told me how much she enjoyed fucking him and she was very interested in doing it again. I was worried, nervous, jelaous…but eventually my hard cock told me that I liked this more than I feared it. We fucked three times that day, re-living the experience.

His wife was jealous of how much fun her husband had with my wife and didn’t want to meet again. I felt guilty; I was focused on my wife’s pleasure and probably didn’t give his wife the experience she wanted. The fact is, I liked watching my wife more than I liked playing with his wife.

A few weeks later, the husband texted my wife asking if I would be OK the two of them meeting to fuck again. At first I was concerned, then we discussed it - she reassured me that it is just sex and there is no chance I would lose her. At that point, I was in!

The sexting between the two of them was 🔥! At one point, she took a picture of her tits and sent it to him. He went to the bathroom at work to jack off.

My wife later discovered that his wife was not aware of his plan so she broke it off - they never did meet up. She didn’t want to ruin a marriage.

We still think about that night a lot. I would love to see my wife fuck him again or even send her out to fuck him so she can tell me about it after. Talking about him does add fire to our sex life.

Maybe one day, we will reconnect with them. I would love to fuck his wife properly and give my wife a chance to experience that long cock again.
 
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I didn't watch them, it was her first time,so I knew I had one chance to make her come out of it with no regrets,for her to feel it was all about her,that it was truly a gift that I'd given her.
It was also important to show her the very next morning that nothing had changed between us,so I just gave her a hug to show her we were still rock solid. Shed had her cake and eaten it ,I played a blinder lol.

This had to feel right for her because for me this couldn't be a one off,I wanted the first guy to fuck her to be perfect, because it felt like an addiction,I already knew I had to do everything I could to get her to want to spread her legs for many more strangers.

I'm being honest here,and as bad as I makes me sound,I don't feel the need to sugar cost it on here...

I made it all about my wife , I made it sound to her like I wanted to give her such a great gift.
But I manipulated her into it,I said and did all the right things in order to get her to let a complete stranger fuck her.
Yes,I enjoyed knowing she was loving it as I listened to him making love to her,but I was getting what I wanted.

I was listening to perfect loyal wife of 19 years being almost deflowered by a complete stranger,id manipulated her into being an easy fuck and nothing more than a cum bucket for a complete stranger.

I knew she meant nothing to him as I listened to him fucking her so hard in our marital bed.
I had to visualize her with her arms around him, imagining her wedding ring digging into his back as her married cunt was being used and taken.

Looking back,I guess I got off on knowing he was enjoying knowing her pathetic husband had been ordered to stay in the other room, knowing he was the Alfa male , he'd made my wife his,her cunt belonged to him ,with me having to wank myself off listening to him completing his conquest and pumping his baby making seed deep inside my wife.

I knew what I was doing all along,I knew she was just an easy fuck for him,a bit of fun.
I knew he'd feel oh so proud of himself when he left in the morning,walking to his car with a big grin on his face, his balls drained,and my wife's cunt juices all over his spent cock .

It even turned me on knowing how many of his mates he'd tell,how he'd used and fucked my wife oh so hard , how good her married cunt felt,and what a great fuck she was.

In the morning,my wife just came into me,she hugged me tight and wouldn't let go.
She was full of guilt, this was her way of reconnecting I guess,fearful of how I'd be,

I just stood there holding my wife,celebrating the fact that she'd just been fucked bareback by a complete stranger.
She felt sexier,dirtier , naughtier ,and I couldn't get it out of my thoughts that new cock had been inside her ,and that she had another man's baby making seed very much alive inside her.

I knew at that very moment that id never want to stop sharing her.
Great to hear such an honest answer.
 
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This happened several years ago so, some of the memories are a bit fuzzy. I will try to tell it as accurately as I can.

The first time I saw my wife fuck another guy - and only time thus far - was when we met with another couple to swap wives in the same hotel room.

We met them for coffee first and my wife didn’t feel like he was her type physically. A little smaller in stature than myself. She prefers bigger “husky” types but, was willing to try.

When we met them to play, we went for dinner first. The wife told us she loved sucking cock and told me how great she was at making guys cum with her mouth. She looked at me and added “…and, I swallow”. My wife never did this for me so I was pretty excited by what I heard.

When his wife went to the bathroom, he explained he was just doing this as a favor to her. It wasn’t his idea but his wife wanted to try swinging. That was a little disappointing to hear.

As my wife and I drove to the hotel after dinner, she was pretty bummed about the husband’s comment. As much as I liked what the wife said, I was concerned how this would go.

We got to the room and the ladies went to get ready….put on pretty lingerie. They came out, looking sexy and we agreed to start with our own partners then transition once we were warmed up.

The start was fun but then the ladies changed beds and it got very interesting.

As I was playing with the wife, I was trying to see what was happening on the other bed. I remember seeing the husband’s naked body from behind, laying on his side. My wife was on the other side of him so I didn’t really see her. I wondered what was happening.

On my bed, the wife was showing me her blow job technique. I laid back and enjoyed her sucking my cock, trying to watch my wife in action.

After some play, my wife asked the husband “Time to suit up?” He said yes and grabbed a condom. This was getting very hot!

He rolled the condom on then approached my wife…she was laying on her back with her legs spread. The moment he put his cock in her pussy, I exploded in his wife’s mouth.

It was probably the biggest cum shot I had ever released. She swallowed it all and coughed! She said “Wow! How much do you cum?”

The truth was, seeing another cock in my wife’s pussy is what did it! The blowjob was good but seeing my wife get fucked was mind-blowing.

After shooting my load I was mesmerized watching the husband fuck my wife. I felt awkward…I should have been playing with his wife more but the scene of this guy pounding away on my wife in missionary…then from behind…then missionary again…it was the greatest porn I had ever witnessed.

The wife tried to suck me back to life so we could fuck but, my eyes were on the other bed.

When it was over and we were driving home, my wife’s account of the details was scorching hot.

As she heard the other wife’s offer to swallow me, she offered that to the husband. She never does that for me! 🔥 The husband said no - he wanted to cum in her pussy.

She told me, when they were playing, how close he came to putting his cock in her pussy bareback..we agreed we would not do that but that would have been amazingly hot!

She also said that is cock is longer than mine. I am thicker but his longer cock hit places I never had and it made her tingle! She loved fucking him.

His lukewarm attitude also changed. He loved fucking my wife. As it turned out, he absolutely loved what my wife did for him! They were a great sexual match!

The next day, when we talked, my wife told me how much she enjoyed fucking him and she was very interested in doing it again. I was worried, nervous, jelaous…but eventually my hard cock told me that I liked this more than I feared it. We fucked three times that day, re-living the experience.

His wife got jealous of how much fun her husband had with my wife and didn’t want to meet again. I felt guilty; I was focused on my wife’s pleasure and probably didn’t give his wife the experience she wanted. The fact is, I liked watching my wife more than I liked playing with his wife.

A few weeks later, the husband texted my wife asking if I would be OK the two of them meeting to fuck again. At first I was concerned, then we discussed it and I was all-in.

The sexting between the two of them was 🔥! At one point, she took a picture if her tits and sent it to him. He went to the bathroom at work to jack off.

My wife later discovered that his wife was not aware of his plan so she broke it off - they never did meet up. She didn’t want to ruin a marriage.

We still think about that night a lot. I would love to see my wife fuck him again or even send her out to fuck him so she can tell me about it after. Talking about him does add fire to our sex life.

Maybe one day, we will reconnect with them. I would love to fuck his wife properly and give my wife a chance to experience that long cock again.
Fantastic story, 👍
 
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This morning, I was feeling a bit “frisky” so I slid my way down and licked my wife’s pussy until she came. I was rock-hard so I knelt up and lined my hard dick up against her pussy and she said:
“What do you think that YOU’RE doing? Don’t you remember the new rules? You can’t enter me unless I’ve just been filled by someone else.”
“Come on” I protested. “You just came.”
“And I appreciate that” she said. “And if YOU want to cum, you can certainly jerk yourself off… and you can even do it all over my pretty pussy… but you can’t put it inside and you must lick me clean after.”

(Yes, I then did all of that and yes, she seems to be sticking to her new rules)

I did ask her when she plans to see her new BF again. She said “so… you want me to see him again soon?”

I nodded yes. “I do… specially if that’s the only way for me to get some myself.”

I’m sure that’s what she was going for. My encouragement.
I'm sorry but if my wife was ever to say something like that to me that I can't have her until she has had sex with another man I would tell her then she can't have sex with me until I had been with another woman,
I know she wouldn't want that and would give in to me if she was to think that I would come second to another man then I might just think of an open marriage if she was getting what she wanted then I would be getting what I wanted and who knows were that would lead,
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Was she cheating on you, on your back?
Yes, I had no idea about her infidelity. I naively believed that she wouldn't be incapable of doing something like that. That's why her cheating was so unexpected. I remained in ignorance for years and it was only after an argument that she confessed her infidelity to me, and she did it not to be honest with me, but to hurt me.
 
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For me it was something I had wanted for many years. When my wife eventually gave in to experiencing her first sexual experience with a black guy with a much larger penis than my own. It was a mixture of elation, nervousness, but totally amazing seeing his black cock parting her pink pussy lips. Watching as his bulbous cock head stretching her vaginal hole slowly sinking deeper into her cunt . Hearing her moaning and having her first ever vaginal orgasm.telling him ooh your cock feels sooo good ooh fuck me harder oooh fuck your cum deep in my whore cunt oooh yeees fuck fuck it’s soo hard fuck it , show my husband what his cock can’t do ooo
I became totally in awe of both his cock and his sexual prowess as he fucked her .
 
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I'm sorry but if my wife was ever to say something like that to me that I can't have her until she has had sex with another man I would tell her then she can't have sex with me until I had been with another woman,
I know she wouldn't want that and would give in to me if she was to think that I would come second to another man then I might just think of an open marriage if she was getting what she wanted then I would be getting what I wanted and who knows were that would lead,
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Who’s to say that I’m not getting exactly what I want? To each their own….
 
Thank you all for the wonderful comments. Almost every experience ended positively! I hope my husband can have the same experience in the future.
Every experience is unique and I know ours will be different. But I hope that we will both enjoy it together. I hope it just takes time for it to happen.
 
Thank you all for the wonderful comments. Almost every experience ended positively! I hope my husband can have the same experience in the future.
Every experience is unique and I know ours will be different. But I hope that we will both enjoy it together. I hope it just takes time for it to happen.
I am sure that you will have a wonderful experience full of mixed emotions. It is like a roller coaster, while you wait in line there is a disturbing anticipation, when you go up you feel fear - you have doubts and you want to get off but it is too late - when you get to the fall you feel that adrenaline takes control and you let yourself go, your senses intensify and you perceive every detail in slow motion and when the ride comes to an end you feel relief and the contradictory desire to live the experience again. I hope that you soon have the opportunity to experience it.
 
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It was a long time ago but the emotions are almost just as strong. Hearing her cum was worse than seeing his fat dick inside her. I was humbled but seeing her with him and her having the orgasms she had, she orgasmed as soon as he started a rhythm, about 60 seconds. Never saw that before, I knew I would never be able to make her orgasm like he did but she seemed so happy. She spent a good bit of time in the following days trying to explain or figure out. She told me looking at his cock and watching it get hard was very exciting for her. Suddenly anticipating how it was going to feel when he pushed in her and wanting to mask her reaction but couldn’t.
Needless to say they kept this going almost 2 years.
 
Yes, I had no idea about her infidelity. I naively believed that she wouldn't be incapable of doing something like that. That's why her cheating was so unexpected. I remained in ignorance for years and it was only after an argument that she confessed her infidelity to me, and she did it not to be honest with me, but to hurt me.
How exactly she told that to you?
 
How exactly she told that to you?
We had a very strong argument about something else and she told me that she felt like cheating on me. I told her that she wouldn't be capable of doing it, that it wasn't her nature and then I saw the sarcasm in her eyes and thought "oh no", so I asked her if she had ever been unfaithful -with the naive idea that she had betrayed an ex-boyfriend- and that was when she told me that she had been unfaithful to me. I was in shock. I asked her with whom and she initially refused to tell me with whom, but when I insisted she confessed that it had been with her doctor. I couldn't believe it, I felt that she was saying it just to hurt me, but it wasn't like that, my wife was not as chaste as I thought. Not only had she been capable of being unfaithful to me, but also of hiding it for years. That disappointed me and showed me what a bad judge of character I am. But in the midst of my pain I can't deny that it excited me to imagine her having sex with someone else.
 
We had a very strong argument about something else and she told me that she felt like cheating on me. I told her that she wouldn't be capable of doing it, that it wasn't her nature and then I saw the sarcasm in her eyes and thought "oh no", so I asked her if she had ever been unfaithful -with the naive idea that she had betrayed an ex-boyfriend- and that was when she told me that she had been unfaithful to me. I was in shock. I asked her with whom and she initially refused to tell me with whom, but when I insisted she confessed that it had been with her doctor. I couldn't believe it, I felt that she was saying it just to hurt me, but it wasn't like that, my wife was not as chaste as I thought. Not only had she been capable of being unfaithful to me, but also of hiding it for years. That disappointed me and showed me what a bad judge of character I am. But in the midst of my pain I can't deny that it excited me to imagine her having sex with someone else.
I see. And why do you think she did it? Or did she told you why she did it?

What is happening now?
 
I see. And why do you think she did it? Or did she told you why she did it?

What is happening now?
What she told me was that she loved the care her doctor gave her, she liked his flirtatiousness, feeling desired, and she let herself be seduced. We are still together today and that adventure continues to excite me, so I feel that we both have benefited from it.
 
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