Well, a positive thing for you both I assume. Did she tell you any details? Did you ask her about it? Is she doing that at present?
Very First Time Husband Feelings
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A mixture of jealousy and arousal for sure; I also found that over time as you attenuate to the new dynamic it can lean more toward arousal although to keep the arousal I frequently kept myself caged
These posts from 40yo fat guys that live in their parents basement are so fake.
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We as a couple were very sexual and had talked endlessly about scenarios and fantasies for a long time before we acted on them. The first thing was her sharing some of her girlfriends with me as she watched. Then she encouraged me to "date" one of them who was in a sexually unfulfilling marriage and come home and let her taste her girlfriend on me, and tell her every detail as she "reclaimed me"...It was in those experiences I watched her emotions ride a roller coaster from jealousy, and lust to anger. Then one day after discussing her being with another man for quite a long time it finally happened. It was a stranger we met in a restaurant bar and things fell into place. I was very aroused and watched as she kissed him. sucked his cock, and then as his fat cock fucked her. I wasn't jealous. I felt like it was us being us and we were sharing something exciting as a couple, and our relationship was always our first priority. I remember taking her back after he left...our fucking was so incredibly passionate. We did this a number of times, always with strangers or acquaintances...Then she brought home a guy I did not feel comfortable with...I detected some dishonesty about how they met and what they had been doing. I was jealous and angry...I felt betrayed. This was the first time I was anxious or had feelings of extreme jealousy.
My experience is a little different but may still be useful. When we met about 20 years ago, we were both working in Hong Kong, she as a maid and me as an engineering consultant. She was about 27 and I was about 46. We met in a bar in Wanchai, the Neptune bar. Not a 'girly bar' but a known pick up bar, where the girls ranged from normal party girls through to hookers. We danced and hit it off, she came back to my hotel and we fucked that first night. No money asked or paid. Again the following night. We started to 'go out' and the sex was amazing. But from the start it became apparent that she provided services part time for extra cash. She called them hotel massages but I suspected and asked her outright. She admitted that in fact she offered everything for the right price, from handjobs to oral to full sex. She assumed that I'd ditch her but something in me wanted to keep seeing her - I was falling in love.
So for some time she continued to provide her 'massage services' while we were 'dating'. Somehow I accepted it and managed to divorce it from my mind. But there came a time when our evening date would have to be cut short because she got appointments. Then there were nights when she was not available because she was going out with her friend to pick up business. I became fascinated, even turned on, and offered to take her to hotels and pick her up afterwards... that evening usually but sometimes next morning. I stated to think of her with those men when we made love, imagining her writhing underneath them, riding them, sucking them. Instead of making me jealous, it turned me on hugely. I even got to asking her how her customers were, and though shy initially, she did start to open up and talk about them as I fucked her. It was a turn on I had never imagined.
Eventually we got married, wanting a family, and she gave up her services work. However, I became aware that she missed the variety of sex she had got used to and I as I got older I also found that, though I desired and loved sex, I was not as energetic as before. Coupled with the inevitable 'routine' which married couples often experience, I eventually came to the conclusion that she needed to find some other men as regular sex partners for her ...... and me. I realised I missed the perverse knowledge that she was serving other men's needs. So this is how we got started with the cuck lifestyle.
With careful vetting, we found a few guys (by now in Philippines), expats - she prefers bigger guys, caucasians. As this was going to be more open lifestyle, not paid services, we discussed and agreed that I could/should join her, either to take part of to watch. The other guy agreed. We met at a hotel, had a few drinks and went up to the room. He was a normal looking guy in his 30s, quite well built and evidently fit. It was all a bit awkward to start with, no one quite sure how to start things off. At that point I realised that I need to leave them to it. She was familiar with 1-1 and they agreed. I sat on the sofa while they got on the bed and got into it. In no time they got carried away and I watched as his hands roamed over her body, cupping her breasts and sliding up between her legs, panties came off, shoulder straps down and they never looked back. I was in a degree of shock to be honest, caught between jealousy and desire. She was my wife wasn't she? That body belongs to me, no? How can she be loving another man's hands and lips all over her body? But Jesus she looks sexy, my wife is a slut, a bitch...... and I am loving it. I was hard as a rock.
She did look at me briefly as her went down between her legs to lick her pussy. That was when I realised that she was back in her whoring element and I was enjoying it and just smiled and nodded. They and we never looked back. I saw him fuck her twice that evening, she came seemingly endlessly. He came both in her pussy and across her face, at which point I erupted across the carpet, having been edging for what seemed hours.
Although I continued to join her for some time, over the years things have changed and generally she spends her time in private with her bulls. I know she enjoys that more and I still enjoy watching video clips and hearing from her all about it if she wants to tell. This is much like it was when we met in Hong Kong and it suits us well. But she does not get paid ..... as far as I know 🙂
There are many types of First Times in this dynamic:
First time she does it (if not watching it yourself)
First time watching in person
First time listening only
First time watching her with more than one man
First time watching interracial
First time watching her with a MF couple
And many more. Each has its own unique kink & emotion.
It wasn't a big thing for my wife and I, we met while we were still in the army and knew that sex with others was a common thing that happened in the army, my wife and I talked about it before we got married and we both agreed that there would be times when we both have sex with someone else, it happened several times and we both knew about it and even gave each other details sometimes, the first time I saw my wife have sex with someone else it was with an old army buddy after we had retired, it was a great experience, like watching a live porn movie.
1st time for us was a long time ago but I still remember it. It wasn't planned, it was completely spontaneous. We were at a card night with friends. The night ended with just 3 of us left playing. Somehow we ended by playing strip poker. I loved to show off my wife when we went out, usually in elegant sexy outfits, Mini's, Gowns especially with split sides etc. We both got a kick out of seeing other men check her out. This was the 1st time another man had seen her naked though ( at least since we had gotten together) and I found it quite arousing as did my wife. I remember I wasn't that keen on her seeing him naked as well. Yes, he was a little bigger than me and fairly fit as well. Anway the longer it went on the more I wanted. It was obviously evident that all 3 of us were aroused by the situation. It just seemed natural that we ended up in bed together.
While it was happening I only felt lust and arousal. Watching him kissing and touching my wife, watching my wife respond to our kisses and touches was the most erotic experience. I remember I was that hard it hurt. I wanted him to fuck her as much as he and my wife did. Because it was so spontaneous no-one even thought of condoms so when he finally entered her it was bareback and he finished inside her. For me the feelings I felt for her having another man's sperm inside her was amazing. I loved it and fucking her 2nd was so erotic I couldn't last long.
Later however different feelings started to seep in and a bit of a roller-coaster started. Most of the down feelings were for myself, I couldn't understand why I enjoyed it so much. A man is not supposed to enjoy his wife being unfaithful. Then when the thoughts turned to my wife and the fact that she had allowed another man to fuck her it would turn to arousal and I wanted her even more. Jealousy started when we talked about it and my wife admitted it was the best sex she had ever had and definitely wanted to do it again. Hearing her tell me how much she enjoyed having 2 men, how wonderful his cock felt inside her, sent me on a see-saw of jealousy and arousal. This went on for some time but every time we talked about her with another man we ended by making love.
Well as you probably guessed arousal, lust and erotica finally won out. My wife had the pleasure of that man's cock on many occasions over the next 2 years and I had the pleasure of witnessing and joining on a few of them. Now, many years later there is no jealousy or self loathing, but the arousal and erotica is just as high.
While it was happening I only felt lust and arousal. Watching him kissing and touching my wife, watching my wife respond to our kisses and touches was the most erotic experience. I remember I was that hard it hurt. I wanted him to fuck her as much as he and my wife did. Because it was so spontaneous no-one even thought of condoms so when he finally entered her it was bareback and he finished inside her. For me the feelings I felt for her having another man's sperm inside her was amazing. I loved it and fucking her 2nd was so erotic I couldn't last long.
Later however different feelings started to seep in and a bit of a roller-coaster started. Most of the down feelings were for myself, I couldn't understand why I enjoyed it so much. A man is not supposed to enjoy his wife being unfaithful. Then when the thoughts turned to my wife and the fact that she had allowed another man to fuck her it would turn to arousal and I wanted her even more. Jealousy started when we talked about it and my wife admitted it was the best sex she had ever had and definitely wanted to do it again. Hearing her tell me how much she enjoyed having 2 men, how wonderful his cock felt inside her, sent me on a see-saw of jealousy and arousal. This went on for some time but every time we talked about her with another man we ended by making love.
Well as you probably guessed arousal, lust and erotica finally won out. My wife had the pleasure of that man's cock on many occasions over the next 2 years and I had the pleasure of witnessing and joining on a few of them. Now, many years later there is no jealousy or self loathing, but the arousal and erotica is just as high.
Most females need more than one cock to stay happy. Husband need to focus on pleasing her no matter what that includes.
Every woman should have lots of lovers. December 2024 Hello sexy Ladies, Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.
If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.
When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.
Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.
Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.
Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.
Every woman should have lots of lovers. December 2024 Hello sexy Ladies, Males - Hubby(s), BF, subs, sissy, bimales --- If you love her -- you should focus on her and doing anything and everything that will make her happy and that includes her sucking and fucking any cock or pussy that she wants 1on1 or 3way or 4way. That includes you sucking cocks for her and licking her pussy clean after every cock she fucks and even putting your cock in a cock-cage and letting a man fuck your sissy-pussy. It is important that she fucks you with a strapon (weekly). It is all about making her happy. Any type of sex should be fun for both of you and everyone.
If you are still trying to get her to agree to fuck other cocks - try this. Every time you fuck her then lick your cum from her pussy -- after the sixth time - while you are licking her pussy - say I am fantasizing. Hoping she ask what you are fantasizing about - if not just say it again - I am fantasizing you fucked another male earlier in the day and now I am licking his cum from your pussy.
When she does go out - tell her to have a good time and ride your face when she returns and shares the details.
Next step: I want you to try this on your wife of GF -- suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.
Do this every time when you suck her tit. Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- may I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock.
Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma - I have photos on my profile page on fetlife - email me your past sex and kinky fantasies to robbiewillsucku at gm ail -- I also chat on google-chat.
Reading your other posts, I am sure that your hubby is ready to enjoy seeing you being pleasured by another man and seeing how you react to a big cock on a man that knows how to give you the orgasm you crave.
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First time we decided to take things further than the accidental teasing my friends with down blouse or walking past camera naked just out shower while i was online chatting with a friend was absolutely amazing and got us hooked, we had swapped pic's with couple of trusted friends and we both enjoyed the thrill but watching her make my best friend absolutely solid by putting her nipple in his mouth got us both so excited and when she took nearly his full cock in her mouth I nearly shot at that point, my friend lasted only few seconds and was saying he was going to cum she grabbed his cock which is quite big and made him shoot on her tits i couldn't last any longer and came over her tits too. Since then we've had fun with another close friend who has always said he loves when I show him pics and always gets him hard, when he joined our fun time we were shocked how big and thick he was,
Robbie from Oklahoma doesn't get laid. And is too scared to just admit he's gay. Incel.
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