If the initial idea is promoted and encouraged by the wife, is it still acceptable for her to deny her husband the possibility of having sex outside the marriage? Almost all the time you read, "I (the wife) can have sex with anyone at anytime I choose but I would be crushed if my husband had sex with another woman." I've never understood how women can say this and not get the hypocrisy of their statement. If it takes a strong man to allow her to have an exciting sex life does this infer that she is weaker than her husband? I don't even get why she would be crushed. What does she think she would be risking that her husband isn't already risking himself?
Why is it an almost universal constant that husbands want their wives to have an exceptional sex life yet wives don't seem to share that feeling regarding their husbands sex life. Instead of offering more and better sex they substitute it with restrictions and denial thinking that will be desirable (or worse knowing full well that that's not what they want). I understand if she knows her husband has a shown a proven desire to be a cuckold then that's different. If it's not something the husband has shown interest in and he still wants a fulfilling sex life then where does that leave him other than leaving the marriage?
Here is a general rule of thumb for ALL men everywhere that you can take to the bank: If you did not score easily with women BEFORE you got married (in which case why did you get married at the time you did?), BEING married and allowing your wife to ...... around will NOT increase your opportunities with other women!! Whatever the reason was that they weren't interested BEFORE, now you can take that and add to it, YOU ARE MARRIED!!
99.99999% of the time, its the man that initiates this. EXTREMELY rare for a woman to do so, they just cheat. They don't think backwards and decide "if I let him fuck women I can fuck other guys". They don't have to do that. If they want more cock, all they have to do is be a little bit friendly and they'll have a lineup of guys willing to take the handout.
You also are asking the question on a site called WIFE WANTS TO PLAY.......Not Swingers Are Us, LOLLOL. Its about women engaging in extramarital sex (hotwives, cuckolding, however you care to name it) and being encouraged to do so by their husbands. One would naturally expect that this would NOT be about men having sex outside the marriage. There have to be sites that cater to Swingers, a search for that would be more productive.
Having extensive experience with swinging myself, fully 90% of the women there do NOT want to be there..........they are there ONLY because their husbands are forsing the to try it out. And in general, they have brought their wives there because they SUCK at sex!! "I don't suck cock", you have to use a condom, I don't have orgasms.....". Or even more common, the wife agreed to go because the HUSBAND sucks at sex, and now he wants to unleash those "talents" on numerous women at the party. AND, being the "average guy" that most of us are at a swingers party does NOT remove the fact that women control the pussy and the few that are actually participating have complete control over which guys they want to have sex with.........they don't settle for "Mr. Average Guy" because they are at a sex party. LOLLOL Always amazed me at the number of guys that showed up straight from a filthy sweaty job without showering and then could not understand why NO one wanted to be near them??
It did not take me long at all to figure out I was bringing a LOT more to the party than I GOT at the party!! Hence the reason we gravitated (two wives) to hotwifing or cuckolding (there in no real difference except it makes some guys feel better not to be called a cuckold) and I enjoyed being with my wife after she had been with other guys a LOT more than I did BAD sex with someone elses wife.
And quite unbelievable to me, there are guys that will actually show up with a wife who has NO FUCKING CLUE where she is being taken!!! Or maybe worse, they bring a Hooker to the party!! You can imagine how well things go when a guy brings his wife unknowingly, gets rapidly ......, and starts slobbering all over the other women there while his poor wife is AGHAST or worse, some other ...... starts slobbering over her!! And the Hookers......who wants to stick it in Syphyllis Sally?? It's not hard to figure out they are Hookers either, and good luck convincing your wife its fine and dandy to have sex with a Hooker and stay married too!!
So, the point.....Women control the pussy everywhere, it belongs to them and THEY determine who gets access to it. And few of them actually WANT their husband to be getting around with other women, its just not a female thing......and almost everyone on here that insists otherwise is a guy pretending to be a couple or woman. Yeah, some of us try it but not for long. If you convince your woman that it turns you on for her to ...... around (this is VERY easy for women to do, only a handful of guys can do this) with the ulterior motive that you are going to get more pussy, LOLLOLLOL. Sadly mistaken. The only thing less likely is those guys that think they can trade their wife's pussy for more cocks for them to suck/fuck.
My 2 cents............CW
