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I would recommend full swing with other couples so you're get some while your wife is getting hers. Find a decent swingers club and dip the toe.
cuckold reality vs fantasy
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I would say very much the same for us. Each experience is extremely hot and sensual. Each continues to inspire us for many years.
I so know what you mean. I was very much turned on by that. Seeing my wives - both cuckolded me - passionately and deeply kissing their lovers, while being intimately fingered and fondled and while they were stroking their lover's cock, was the stuff of dreams.
After fourteen years of my wife cuckolding me and her enjoying many different men, I can still vividly remember that very first experience of watching another man kissing my wife, fondling her, undressing her slowly, her taking his cock into her mouth, and finally watching her guide his very large cock into her sweet pussy. The sights of that night, the sounds they made, and the aroma filling the room still intoxicates me with a flood of emotions just as it did that night.
The daily reality is much different than any fantasy our minds could ever create. Each man she sees is different in what he likes, wants, and his comfort level with my presence. Every cock is different, she enjoys men in the 6-8" range most, but she has taken men around 5" and men with more than 10" and enjoyed them. Initially, the part that piqued my jealousy the most was watching another man bring my wife to an earth-shattering orgasm while he was inside her. I always was filled with self-doubt and worried she would want to replace me with him. Her orgasms were arousing for me to see and hear but always left me with a knot in my gut and a lump in my throat. I could bring my wife to climax, but always orally or with the use of a toy. I could not make her cum from penetration with only my cock.
During those first years, we maintained an open and frank line of communication about her desires and needs. She told me frankly that she loved me with all her heart and could not imagine her life without me in it. But, at the end of the day, my little cock could not fully satisfy her. That was hard to hear, but it reaffirmed my own thoughts. She told me she did not ever want to cheat on me and could not do anything that would hurt me or our relationship. We were on this journey together, and after all, it was only sex.
Some men returned a few times, and others were one-time flings. She would enjoy other men one to three times a week for the first few years in the lifestyle. Most weekends, she found herself with one man on Friday and then another man on Saturday. During the week one of her repeats frequented our house on Tuesday nights since he was off work Tuesday and Wednesday each week. We went from having sex with each other two or three times a month to having that every week on average.
It was not until roughly five years ago, that my wife began to find other men from time to time when she was alone. She had wanted to do this for some time, but I was always unsure and she waited until I was okay with it. When she goes out to meet a man for a date or for sex, it still drives me absolutely crazy as I wait for her to return, but she always returns home to tell me every detail and then treat me to some fantastic lovemaking.
At the end of the day, I would not change anything about the choices we have made. Videos cannot show or express the true reality or dynamic of a genuine cuckold relationship and every situation continues to create new experiences and feelings. Despite now being married to the most wonderful, caring, compassionate, and amazing woman in the world for 40 years this past June, I still get feelings of jealousy and doubt. She has not heard the word no, and I still love to see her brought to pleasure and now delight in the hard orgasms that leave her unable to walk.
This is cuckold reality. Me serving my wife and her Bull while he makes fun of my tiny little cock and tells my wife he is going to fuck her like she needs with his big cock. Hearing my wife tell him how badly she needs his big cock inside her as I am sent out of the room to listen to them through the walls.
Me getting to make love to my wife after her Bull has taken over two hours to satisfy her and fill her sweet pussy with loads of his thick cum. She gets on top of me and I slide inside her effortlessly and cum almost instantly as she asks me if I am inside her yet. She then asks me if I am finished already and slides up to my face so that I can eat her out and make her climax again. She leaves a trail of his cum up my stomach and chest and my face is coated with the Bulls' cum as I get as deep inside her as I can.
New here and really appreciate your post. Im in the same boat of do we or don’t we. My wife on the other hand has a bit of a different train of thought. She avoids the conversation when everyday life has her swamped and consumed, but is very motivated whenever she’s completely relaxed and acts as if we should move forward.
We have sex about 2-3 times per week on average. Friday and Saturday nights for weeks now has been reserved for role playing her being with another man. That typically consists of an eventual blindfold for her, a large dildo attached to a belt harness for me, all the way to me having a different name and making my voice different to the extent I can. We had sex a couple days ago and she asked me what I was thinking about. I admitted I was thinking about her both getting fucked by another guy and having sex with her after that happened. The sex ended up being very passionate after conveying that and she got very wild. I think naturally the willingness subsides a bit after I’ve climaxed.
I’m legitimately concerned for the great unknown as far as how we both would react in the time after. My wife less so due to a past experience where a long term relationship prior to us was somewhat open. It consisted of other women joining them on occasion for sex and the occasions where he and his friends would fuck her. She made it very clear her love for him didn’t waiver and it had limited effects on their relationship. It sounds like you’re stating it’s just a chance you take or don’t and that things change at least a bit. That fair? Any other advise?
Fantsay....reality ?
Everyone has fantasies. It's whatever is in your mind.
Reality...for me...inadequacy pleasing my wife even tho she's never said anything about how she obviously likes sex with our friend.
Reality...for me...jealous feelings watching them together.
More reality...seeing a completely different view of how her body moves with him, it's exciting but I do feel weird sometimes.
...seeing her cum while he's doing her.
More...the way she holds me tight when I do her after he's done. How she moves with me, how she kisses me, when she tells me I feel so good inside her.
WHILE we're doing it it's VERY exciting but after he's gone she and I have guilt issues and some remorse. But we have fantastic sex for days after. She's horny like I can't describe for days.
It's much different than a fantasy...fantasy is only fun, reality involves emotions.
Everyone has fantasies. It's whatever is in your mind.
Reality...for me...inadequacy pleasing my wife even tho she's never said anything about how she obviously likes sex with our friend.
Reality...for me...jealous feelings watching them together.
More reality...seeing a completely different view of how her body moves with him, it's exciting but I do feel weird sometimes.
...seeing her cum while he's doing her.
More...the way she holds me tight when I do her after he's done. How she moves with me, how she kisses me, when she tells me I feel so good inside her.
WHILE we're doing it it's VERY exciting but after he's gone she and I have guilt issues and some remorse. But we have fantastic sex for days after. She's horny like I can't describe for days.
It's much different than a fantasy...fantasy is only fun, reality involves emotions.
Everything you are saying is pretty consistent with what we have going on as far as concerns and emotions go.
My friend reality is exponentially much hotter. You can peruse my posts on this site, and get an idea. Feel free to message me and l can elaborate, as well as give some educated suggestions. Our early pillowtalk was sexy and stimulating........When l eventually was allowed to record a session......be in close proximity to a highly turned on man that experienced a truly fine fellatiost, followed by nirvana found in my HotWife's pussy.....then to ad lib a little role play for her when l explained my own enhanced state to her Beau, followed by the white lie that she no longer permitted me access with my penis to her vagina. That she saved her pussy exclusively for him.., ....and could l ask permission for her to fellate me in order to calm myself and do a good job of recording for them.......l thought the end of my cock blew off when l climaxed
I think many men share the fantasy of wanting their wives to be with other men. It is a huge turn on to imagine some guys huge cock making her squirm and moan. I doubt many would actually follow through on their fantasy. Just as many women may fantasize about two or more
men making lover to her, unlikely she would really do it.
You are correct in this statement. Many men and women could not ever take that plunge and follow through with their fantasies. For the ones who do, such as my wife, it is something where the reality is more than the fantasy ever could be.
My wife has never hesitated since her first time to enjoy two men together and sometimes more than two at once. But taking that first step was something she struggled with.
Now, at least for us since that first time, we continue to enjoy the Hotwife lifestyle, and my role in each encounter is based upon the Bull she is seeing. I can be involved or be in the background to watch and even do things like undressing my wife for other men.
Would love to run into you guys sometime somewhere with my fiancé.
Great pictures and thanks for sharing. Whether or not we follow through is the great unknown. My wife was in a multi year dating-part time cohabitation relationship prior to us meeting and things coming to where they are now. The sex during the first 2 of the 3 years they were together was a roughly even split of just them and the other half others whether it was another woman involved or other guys like his friends. She said when they spoke of possible engagement they backed out of that lifestyle, got a place together, and everything including their sex life went to pot.
We have a good thing together and obviously we are on the opposite side of how our relationship started and developed as opposed to theirs. I just know that most of the sex we’ve had for a while has involved a large harnessed dildo I wear, her sybian, blindfolds, and me acting as a different guy. All while having a more positive relationship since we’ve incorporated those things. At some point I guess we just roll the dice or we don’t.
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