Fantasy vs. Reality

[Superstar7]

She was worried that I would feel negatively about her after. I worried that I'd regret it or get jealous. We both worried about it being safe.

My wife is worried about the emotions. I worry about them a little but not as much as her. I worry about her being comfortable mentally more than anything else.

 

[sinsnaps]

My wife is worried about the emotions. I worry about them a little but not as much as her. I worry about her being comfortable mentally more than anything else.

Your wife will stop worrying about the emotions the moment he slides into her. For a while. Probably. You being cool about it and reassuring should help greatly with her being comfortable before, during, and after, always.

 

[Superstar7]

Your wife will stop worrying about the emotions the moment he slides into her. For a while. Probably. You being cool about it and reassuring should help greatly with her being comfortable before, during, and after, always.

I appreciate the reassurance. May the Force be with you!

 

[sinsnaps]

I appreciate the reassurance. May the Force be with you!

This is the way.

 

[Mister_De_Sade]

My wife is worried about the emotions. I worry about them a little but not as much as her. I worry about her being comfortable mentally more than anything else.

On average, women tend to tie emotions into sex more so than most men, but it just depends on the individual.

My wife and I had many conversations about keeping things somewhat impersonal before I set up her first gangbang. Of course we've had our share of hiccups, but it's all a learning and growing experience. Just make sure that you're both good at communicating and have clearly laid out boundaries and safe words (if needed) before going through with anything. That way any disappointing or underwhelming experiences will just help you grown closer rather than become a wedge.

 

[Superstar7]

On average, women tend to tie emotions into sex more so than most men, but it just depends on the individual.

My wife and I had many conversations about keeping things somewhat impersonal before I set up her first gangbang. Of course we've had our share of hiccups, but it's all a learning and growing experience. Just make sure that you're both good at communicating and have clearly laid out boundaries and safe words (if needed) before going through with anything. That way any disappointing or underwhelming experiences will just help you grown closer rather than become a wedge.

Thanks!

 

[Irishman25]

I brought up a MFM to my wife again yesterday, and she responded "I don't think I'd like the way I'd feel after it was done" Would love some female perspective about what this means and how I can ease her mind.

 

[Phaed]

If you approach it responsibly, you will find that most people are good at respecting your limits. There are all types of kinks and interests out there. Many couples have a "no kissing" policy, which I think addresses jealousies by placing limits on "emotional" intimacy.