Superstar7
Male
My wife is worried about the emotions. I worry about them a little but not as much as her. I worry about her being comfortable mentally more than anything else.
Fantasy vs. Reality
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Your wife will stop worrying about the emotions the moment he slides into her. For a while. Probably. You being cool about it and reassuring should help greatly with her being comfortable before, during, and after, always.
Superstar7
Male
I appreciate the reassurance. May the forse be with you!
On average, women tend to tie emotions into sex more so than most men, but it just depends on the individual.
My wife and I had many conversations about keeping things somewhat impersonal before I set up her first gangbang. Of course we've had our share of hiccups, but it's all a learning and growing experience. Just make sure that you're both good at communicating and have clearly laid out boundaries and safe words (if needed) before going through with anything. That way any disappointing or underwhelming experiences will just help you grown closer rather than become a wedge.
Superstar7
Male
I brought up a MFM to my wife again yesterday, and she responded "I don't think I'd like the way I'd feel after it was done" Would love some female perspective about what this means and how I can ease her mind.
If you approach it responsibly, you will find that most people are good at respecting your limits. There are all types of kinks and interests out there. Many couples have a "no kissing" policy, which I think addresses jealousies by placing limits on "emotional" intimacy.
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