That's how me and my wife started. I watched her start to kiss this new guy. Then their kissing got more passionate. Then I saw them swapping tongues - and my cock got rock hard before any sex started.
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Discretefun66
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I think you have nailed it, at least my experience was similar to yours. It was a little strange in that our first time I was video taping the scene. I remember standing there filming, while they got undressed, then got on the bed, she went down on him, then he her. Then as this other man lay back watch her straddle him, grab his cock, and guide it in to her (my) pussy. This moment is what I refer to the point of no return moment. I can stop everything and it does not go further or let it play out. I remember the conflict I felt, the surge of jealousy and the difficulty I had controlling my ego. Speaking for myself, I have had no regrets not stopping it. Been married almost 25 years and the wife has had almost 30 men.
digitalzoom1
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We went the dating rout , she said it was just a drink and chat I didn't believe her and told her I knew she was going to have it, she came home and admitted she had fucked him , we sat talking and she Admitted she had enjoyed it a lot and it was what she wanted to happen, she also made it clear that she was going out with him again as soon as he could get out he was married so had to be careful, it didn't worry me or make me jealous I enjoyed seeing her excited whenever she was going to meet him , she never wanted me there and I accepted that , she has had around 50 men, some for a night and the longest for almost 20 years our sex life carried on most of the time Until health problems stopped me fucking her it's been good I would not change it, she went about it her way and it worked for us I know a lot can't cope with the jealousy ect. So have a long hard think before you continue.
Most woman are happier if they get new cocks from time to time.
It's an experiential thing, and everyone is different, so there's no easy answer.
You may want to go the route of not watching at first. Having her go out on a date, knowing that she's going to either blow or fuck the guy, and then have her describe it all for you in detail for you the next day. No glossing over anything.
If that turns you on, then great. If it drives you crazy with jealousy, don't hold its against her but just agree that it will never happen again and move on.
You may want to go the route of not watching at first. Having her go out on a date, knowing that she's going to either blow or fuck the guy, and then have her describe it all for you in detail for you the next day. No glossing over anything.
If that turns you on, then great. If it drives you crazy with jealousy, don't hold its against her but just agree that it will never happen again and move on.
Do you or he ever feel like when he watches you have sex with others, he basically feels like you're transformed into a pornstar that he can fuck?
As a bull, I've wondered if one of the main conflicts that a cuckold feel is that he comes to the realization that his wife, the woman that he loves, has to actually WANT to please this other man, to taste him, to feel him inside her and get pleasure from him, to bring him over the edge of that point of no return, just as much as she wants it from her husband who she's bonded with?
This is reality
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Absolutely hit the nail on the head, it’s not for everyone but if it works it’s more than words or emotions can describe 👍
For me the whole experience depends on my wife’s experience? I know her better than anyone apart from herself, I also know that if the bull is attentive to her needs what they will get in return, I know how good her pussy feels, I know how horny she gets, she will earn there respect over the next few hours, but they got to work a little for it😀 I want her to be able to relax totally and enjoy the moments. You learn this over time and experience, fantasy is not reality👍
There is no fantasy I would not like to make a reality Im getting older and I wish to experience it all.
I could not video tape my wife with another man unless I could learn to run the camera with one hand
So, I was once in a situation with a couple where I don't think that the hubby took the whole reality v fantasy question into account.
We were at their house for a get together, and this was the first time that sex was involved. He sat in a chair and watched as the wife rode me in the cowgirl position. She was enjoying it, I could feel that my shaft and balls were very wet, her chest neck and face were red, she was giggling, sweat was dipping down her forehead, off of her nose, and onto my face. Occasionally, she'd lean forward and kiss me.
Every now and then, I'd look off to the side, to see if he was playing with himself while watching. What I saw was a dude getting progressively angrier. I actually made a motion with my eyes and head for her to look over at her husband. She did.
She asked him what was wrong, but he didn't want to talk about it. We could both see that he was seething.
Finally, he said "You're enjoying this too fucking much."
She responded "What did you think was going to happen?"
He did not have an answer, and just retreated into himself.
And she pressed him on that point of what he thought was going to happen when she fucked another guy. She told him flat out that she wasn't only in this for his entertainment, that she was a human being that liked sex, and that sometimes sex with someone else was going to just feel better than sex with him.
We were at their house for a get together, and this was the first time that sex was involved. He sat in a chair and watched as the wife rode me in the cowgirl position. She was enjoying it, I could feel that my shaft and balls were very wet, her chest neck and face were red, she was giggling, sweat was dipping down her forehead, off of her nose, and onto my face. Occasionally, she'd lean forward and kiss me.
Every now and then, I'd look off to the side, to see if he was playing with himself while watching. What I saw was a dude getting progressively angrier. I actually made a motion with my eyes and head for her to look over at her husband. She did.
She asked him what was wrong, but he didn't want to talk about it. We could both see that he was seething.
Finally, he said "You're enjoying this too fucking much."
She responded "What did you think was going to happen?"
He did not have an answer, and just retreated into himself.
And she pressed him on that point of what he thought was going to happen when she fucked another guy. She told him flat out that she wasn't only in this for his entertainment, that she was a human being that liked sex, and that sometimes sex with someone else was going to just feel better than sex with him.
I think about this often. My wife and I role play/fantasy talk in bed. It has taken a long time to get to where she is comfortable doing it. She’s known that I’m interested in her trying out a bigger, better lover for several years. There are several reasons why I’ve desired this. One reason is that I would be rewarded with a wife that has new found attitude about sex being a recreational joy and making the mental leap of it being a physical satisfaction. I’ve thought/hoped that would translate into a more open attitude towards discussing things in an objective way instead of a perverted way.
On the other hand, I worry about after having tried for so long that having someone sweep in and change that in one meeting could be devastating if I wasn’t in the right mindset. A lot of that would depend on my confidence and that confidence would come from having discussed the possible reactions by my wife and myself. If my wife got caught up in NRE and lost her ability to see the lifestyle as an enhancement and not a substitute then I could foresee a spiral of despair for myself. I would want her experience to be an enhancement for us both sexually. I understand that the shape and form may seem unilateral initially but I would not that to be a permanent outcome.
I truly believe that if her experience was transcendent then I would deserve credit for my patience and support for all the previous years. The only way I could see this happening is with deep communication and sensitivity. All the “what if’s” should be touched on as best as could be done. Far too many times I’ve read stories/posts where the thrill becomes too one side and animosity arises from the feeling of being ...... and forced to accept the new paradigm.
All that said, for those of us on the outside looking in, the lifestyle has a powerful attraction. The roller coaster ride looks thrilling! It can be miserable looking at the amusement park from behind the fence and wanting so desperately to join in on the fun!
I will never forget her first time. We talked about it for quite a while. When we agreed I told her everything needs to.be differe t her attitude her outfit makeup.etc. including her dress hair etc..I.told her plan.it but wait till.she was really in the mood for an intense first time experience.. She did that she usually goes about every two years hair nails etc. Then.it happened I was working on.the sat it happened . I csme home about seven my wife was.up stairs . She called down to me and said make me a drink please about a half hour later .i heard heels coming down the stairs . I looked up.and i was shocked. Here was my beautiful wife dressed like i have never sen.her so.i.knew tonight was the night. She was all dressed in.head to toe in black.leather . He hair was short king of high spiked dyed blond ? Her nails were long very BRIGHT RED. She had on knee high 6 in stilletto boots. Leather mini skirt. A deep plunge Corset that revealed her DOUBLE. 'D's Full.arm.lengrh figerless leathergloves wigh alot of bracelets Three pairs of large gold hoop earrings Along with rings on everyfingern. Extreme heavy makeup Black and Gold along with extreme false eyelashes and Very Bright wer look RED LIPSTICK..
I Was blown away with how FUCKING HOT SHE LOOKED she has never dressed like this .When she sat down i gave her thevdrink.she asked for ..Then.i noticed she wasnt wearing anything under her mini skirt..Then the next shock.she took out a cigarette with a Black and gold holder she use to smoke but quit a long time ago..She finished her drink.touched up.her lipstick..When she got up to.leave she spread her legs i could see tgat her Pussy was shaved. I went to.kiss her she pushed me away..I DONT WANT YOU MESSING UP.MY LIPSTICK. She opened the door to leave and said DONT WAIT UP I"LL BE LATE then she left.. Sje has never bern like this bit something told me that this was going to.be the night that my faithfull wife of 20 years was going to getbwell FUCKED TONIGHT .i would like to.know what the reader think.this is 100.percent true
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Done well it should be 10 to 100 times the thrill. Your cock won't go down. If you cum from wacking off, or if your girlfriend sucks you while her lover is thrusting in and out, you will have remarkable recovery time.
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