Awesome post. You are 100% correct, it is not a race to penetrate. If anything the seduction is more important than the penetration.Im the same as this Bull. Its not a race to penetrate. Starts with lots of kissing and touching, lots of oral both ways No penetration until the wife is desperate to have my cock inside her. Lots of slow stroking mixing shallow and deep. No ejaculation until both wife and hubby are asking for me to cum inside her. Then let hubby know that you are about to ejaculate and let him feel the transfer of fluids and let him know what he needs to do.