Anyone else get super turned on watching their wife make out with someone?

The thought of watching my wife kiss another man makes me rock hard. I don't know why, but it does.
I think you’ll find a lot of us here experience the same. In many ways, I find it more erotic than the actual sex act. I suspect it’s the promise and anticipation of what follows. It’s perhaps that moment when our wives give in to that desire to take another man into their body. It’s how they communicate that desire by allowing that first act of intimacy.
 
I think you’ll find a lot of us here experience the same. In many ways, I find it more erotic than the actual sex act. I suspect it’s the promise and anticipation of what follows. It’s perhaps that moment when our wives give in to that desire to take another man into their body. It’s how they communicate that desire by allowing that first act of intimacy.
I've been reading up on zelophilia. I don't think the subject will get too much attention in professional medical/psychological circles, but a lot of us here are evidence of its existence.
 
I had to look that up. It says it can be treated. But why would you?
Exactly. I guess if it got out of hand or if it caused problems in your relationship or otherwise negatively impacted your life or relationship, treatment would be necessary. I'm nearly convinced that my wife will never take the plunge, but she plays along with me to prevent me from being disappointed. In the heat of a good romp, she'll admit to wanting to suck a stranger's cock, or to wanting to have sex with other men, but when the dust finally settles, she refuses to talk about it.
 
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Exactly. I guess if it got out of hand or if it caused problems in your relationship or otherwise negatively impacted your life or relationship, treatment would be necessary. I'm nearly convinced that my wife will never take the plunge, but she plays along with me to prevent me from being disappointed. In the heat of a good romp, she'll admit to wanting to suck a stranger's cock, or to wanting to have sex with other men, but when the dust finally settles, she refuses to talk about it.
Sounds familiar. We spent 12 years talking about it during foreplay and sex. Abi, my wife, often told me about being subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) groped when she was out with her female friends. She knew it turned me on to know that some stranger had stroked her ass or hervtitsceven. But eventually it got normalised and slowly the inhibitions and objections came down until she just went fir it.
 
Sounds familiar. We spent 12 years talking about it during foreplay and sex. Abi, my wife, often told me about being subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) groped when she was out with her female friends. She knew it turned me on to know that some stranger had stroked her ass or hervtitsceven. But eventually it got normalised and slowly the inhibitions and objections came down until she just went fir it.
I've often considered giving up on the idea of her 'dating' other guys, but the thought of her allowing me to enjoy her and her body after her being with another man just won't leave me alone. Men often flirt with her when we're out together, and any positive reaction from her (which is usually just a friendly smile), gets my heart racing and fuels my fantasies. She know this, but just won't take that next step.
 
I've often considered giving up on the idea of her 'dating' other guys, but the thought of her allowing me to enjoy her and her body after her being with another man just won't leave me alone. Men often flirt with her when we're out together, and any positive reaction from her (which is usually just a friendly smile), gets my heart racing and fuels my fantasies. She know this, but just won't take that next step.
That’s how it was for us for many years. I think her going out with her female friends helped her to relax a bit. She would dance with other men in clubs and began to notice that younger black men seemed to be most attracted to her. It actually became a bit of fun amongst her friends who would try to guess how long it would before a young black guy would hit on her. It developed from this, I reckon.
 
Watching any contact is erotic. But the point when they kissis Is the key moment.

As you see them kiss, you are observing that first moment of real intimacy. Lips on lips. This is the first exchange of bodily fluids - only small but a perfect hint of the far greater and more significant exchange of fluids that will follow later.

Also, you know your wife and you know how she’ll be reacting; getting wet, nipples hardening. You’ve been in this position and you know the reaction she will have on him. You know how he’ll feel as his manhood starts to harden and how he’ll press that growing hard cock gently against her so that she gets wetter still. You can imagine what’s going through his mind, the anticipation.

The kiss is that moment when she allows him access to a new level of intimacy, lips touching, bodies held against each other, his hands moving over her back and on to her buttocks, her breasts pressed firmly against his chest. Once their mouths open an that first small exchange of bodily fluids occurs, it’s the start of their sexual journey together.