My wife had a regular lover, meaning maybe 1-2 times a month..no overnight..after 4 years we talked about a short vacation for her with him which ended up being 3 days two nights as husband/wife. She truly enjoyed not just the sex, but also normalacy in shopping, looking at houses together, nice romantic dinners...well worth it...they cooled off for about 5 years but getting back together now. Cant wait for their "honeymoon"..she is white, he is a professional black man
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Good and bad..we met him Friday in his city, they were going to get a room but all booked up due to holiday, so they went to lunch and then shopping..had fun watching them walk hand in hand into first hotel they tried..Wife did tell me he is working hard on a trip, but guessing it will be this summer, but will see him again before then...maybe every two weeks..She and I did go shopping yesterday for some new clothes and lingerie for when the go..
I really meant the OP, Phun Times 727, but regarding your situation, why did things cool off for 5 years and why did they fire back up again?
About that...they met for dinner and then again for more than dinner. The husband was in attendance. I need to preface they are Indian. The husband gave the wife a nearly half hour massage and various kama sutra type warm up before the women got together. I guess it went well and afterwards the husband did all sorts of bizarre massage stuff with oils and all kinds of scents etc. My wife said it was odd but interesting and she assumes the couple went at it after she left with some sort of ritual. I am guessing they will talk and discuss what happened. I am waiting to hear myself.
So the interaction with bosses wife so far has been really interesting. They are an Indian couple and from what we know it appears kama sutra is what they are doing (or just super long massage/forplay and flexible positions). We went over last night as he wanted to meet me face to face for whatever reason. I decided why not and stuck around to watch the process as I have not personally been there to see my wife with another woman. Her husband did this really long deep massage thing with fragrant oils etc before the women played. I strictly watched although I was very tempted to rub one out but he remained fully dressed and it did not seem appropriate. When the women were done I was ready to go and my wife asked them what the massage was about and was all of this part of their forplay. Well, we learned a lot. Apparently the massage and oils are applied to different parts of the body and appeal to various senses and nerve centers/muscle groups and the way it is done somehow preps the body for some crazy sex stuff.
So we asked, could we watch to see what it is about. Holy ......, its like naked yoga class and she is having deep orgasms in all these odd positions. This was also the first time my wife and I watched someone else having sex. It was something to see. We were talking about it on the way home and may need to read a book or watch a tutorial or something. Mind blowing. I have no idea how we have made it to this age without ever crossing paths with this.
So we asked, could we watch to see what it is about. Holy ......, its like naked yoga class and she is having deep orgasms in all these odd positions. This was also the first time my wife and I watched someone else having sex. It was something to see. We were talking about it on the way home and may need to read a book or watch a tutorial or something. Mind blowing. I have no idea how we have made it to this age without ever crossing paths with this.
Her mind games...felt it was not the right thing to do..but minds do change, he had texted her about every day just on a friend basis. He is coming over week from tomorrow, they can have entire house as I have a large project going..expect they will have fun..
That's how we started out when we first got married. It was clear from the start that she would be in charge and have a regular boyfriend (the best man at our wedding). At first they just dated and she would have sex at his place. Then one day she invited him to stay overnight at our house. I was sent out of the master bedroom and had to stay in the guest bedroom while they slept in the marital bed. After a while he was practically living at our house most days. He started bringing his cloths and stuff over and I was forced to take my things out of the dressers and closets I once shared with my wife. He now totally dominated the marital bedroom and the rest of the house as well. We took a walk in closet across the hall and converted it into a small bedroom for me so the larger guest room would be available. My room was very small and fit my low status as her cuckold. It could only fit a small youth size bed and a small dresser. It was very humiliating to be kicked out of my own marital bedroom and be forbidden to ...... with my own wife but he was now the man of the house and I was submissive to him. They went from just dating to going on weekend trips leaving me home alone with a list of household chores to be completed by the time they got back. Now they take their full vacations together and go on cruises while I'm left behind.
As a Boss who's done similar, he's going to fuck your wife. They know. Probably planned it.
Well after watching the boss and his wife we have wondered. The entire process of getting the women ready with the 45 minute whole body massage seemed very interesting. We talked it over and the next time we all met up we asked if he could provide the same massage that he gives his wife to my wife. He agreed and she said it was the most foreplay she has ever had and then not had sex with the person. She and I had sex and it was wonderful but we are very curious what exactly they are doing, we try to replicate it and it doesn't seem we are doing it correctly but we are willing to learn.
Two different events, she did a trip with her BF and she and I have met with boss and his wife a few times for the women to play. Its only been the women. Men have watched but he does do the pre event massage and post kama sutra stuff that we have much interest in. We have talked about what might be down the road. I have no interest in Indian women, she is very attractive but I am just not open to a same room situation with them but we "may" entertain her with him once to see what it is about but the wife would need to be good with it and that could put me in an uncomfortable situation. Not sure if it goes anywhere.
A bit of revalation. I drove the wife over to see her boyfriend, he has been gone for three weeks so it is a bit overdue. While making the 2.5 hour normally 90 minute drive I decided to really engage in some real conversation with her. He has been gone and I have been doing double duty but I could sense she was ready/anxious. I asked her what she wanted to do? Naturally she said she wanted to see him and hug him etc. Yeah, no, that isn't what I was asking. We finally got down to it. She told me she wanted his cock in her mouth and had been thinking about it for days. We both knew it, why not admit it, of course she does. So I asked if she had told him yet. She giggled and got embarrassed. I said she should text him that, and she did.
She was connected to the cars bluetooth to play her music. Fifteen minutes later his reply came in and was read out through the speakers. He said "I plan to be inside you before your pants are even off" and "love you babe". Well, it sounded like a good idea. I told her it was fine, I knew they had reached close relationship status and it wouldn't make sense to take her to screw a dude she didn't like. I know she was feeling guilty and just wanted to comfort her and let her know it was OK. I didn't want it hanging over her head all weekend.
She was connected to the cars bluetooth to play her music. Fifteen minutes later his reply came in and was read out through the speakers. He said "I plan to be inside you before your pants are even off" and "love you babe". Well, it sounded like a good idea. I told her it was fine, I knew they had reached close relationship status and it wouldn't make sense to take her to screw a dude she didn't like. I know she was feeling guilty and just wanted to comfort her and let her know it was OK. I didn't want it hanging over her head all weekend.
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When my wife had her steady boyfriend it was hot. She fucken loved his cock too and I never seen her more happy. Some of her friends thought it was hot some thought weird but said they were envious.
How many of your friends know? We only have a very select group that know about our situation and her having a full time relationship with a boyfriend. Our friends that do know are split, the women mostly like the idea with exception of one who thinks we are crazy. The guys....well they wonder if I have lost my mind as tey cretainly all find her hot and would not share. Is your wife no longer seeing her boyfriend? What happened?
We wonder where things are headed at times, like can we maintain this long term and do we want to? In the present, yes we want to but naturally we have to think about things like he may not want to just be this secret dude forever. Her relationship with him has our other potential partners off limits. She is in a commited relationship with both of us and doesn't really want to explore any other hotwife situations at the moment. I'm not complaining. It is safe (and safe condomless sex) for her and we would not have that with rando hookups.
A few of her friends know
Be surprised how many women are into it
I woke up to a text from her, which on her weekends with him is not typical so I know it has been on her mind, which is really not what I hoped for but the timing of her getting the reply from him just a few minutes before we got to his place didn't give us a lot of time to go over it.
The text I awoke to.
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"All is good. I miss you and I love you (too!)."
The text I awoke to.
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"All is good. I miss you and I love you (too!)."
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