Boyfriend, Bull or casual sex?

[happyhubbymi]

I think this is an interesting topic for discussion. When I read other peoples posts in cuckold and hotwife forums it appears that different couples have different tastes. Some wives have a steady boyfriend whereas some prefer to play the field and others have a bull who services the wife from time to time.

In our case my wife Jess prefers to play the field. She has, on occasions, kept a man around for a few months if he was a good lover and gave her the kind of sex she loved, but even then, she was totally incapable of being faithful to him. She revelled in the freedom she had to go out and fuck just about any man she fancied so she made the most of it. Her most promiscuous period was the time we ran the guest house and she was fucking the residents, The guest house was occupied with many men who were contracting on the nearby nuclear power plant and Jess was fucking two or three guys a week for a long time.

I have written earlier posts on Jess's activities in this forum but I would like to hear other couples accounts, boyfriend or casual? there must be some interesting stories out there.

All the above. Entirely what the situation calls for. If a Bull refers to himself as a BBC, I let it ride. I let her ride it, too!

But I have a lot of respect for her and also for the men she is having fun with. The black guys were very kind, usually more so than the white guys, who were sometimes crude.
But I'm pretty chill; this is supposed to be fun, yeah?! So, we cater to their fantasies and desires and terminology, too, I guess. More BBC for all if that is what they want!

 

[PaulLani]

My hubbys brother is my bullView attachment 2467096View attachment 2467097View attachment 2467098View attachment 2467099View attachment 2467100

LOVE it. Very hot

 

[PaulLani]

For us it's definitely casual sex.
She has no intention of ever having anyone who may expect her to be only playing with him.
She does have regular guys but always with the understanding that it's about fucking for pleasure no strings and no issues. Strangely enough there is no shortage of men quite ok with these rule. They can have a fuck with no consequences. Married men in particular like this system.
She finds the idea of a bull ridiculous. As she puts it, why the fuck would I want some other guy telling me what to do and who to fuck, fuck that. And that's a direct quote.

 

[atxlscouple]

We are emotionally monogamous, but love having casual sex with other people, whether that’s MFF, MFM, MFMF or MMMF+, etc. We view ourselves as a team us vs. them (in the purest way). No competition—just performance for each other’s pleasure. We typically limit the couples we fuck to two times or so max to avoid the possibility of any feelings being caught. We are all human after all. Feelings come naturally. Always a group text, no one-on-one unless it’s me and the other guy. I’m straight so there’s no possibility of feelings in that scenario. For us, “we” are the most important. If we protect what we have, it feels like an arrangement that can last forever, bc “cheating” is off the table. That being said, I feel like the LS is ever-changing. This works for us now, but we are open (no pun intended) to an evolving situation, as long as we do it as a team.

For me, It feels really easy to lose self-control in the LS and listen to my carnal voice. I don’t want to do that to the detriment of what I have. Conversely, the beautiful thing about the LS is there is no right answer. It’s whatever works for you at any given time. The LS is only as good as your relationship is solid.

 

[Spice]

When I met my wife we were still in the army, she had a regular guy that would come see her before or after going on deployment, there was no emotional connection just sex, my wife has always preferred to play the field but would very rarely fuck the same guy twice, she also had a rule of never fucking anyone she worked closely with,

She continued fucking other guys while we were dating and after we got married especially when she would go on deployment or out to the field for training, after we retired from the army and started working civilian jobs she continued fucking other guys when she would go on business trips and sometimes if she met someone she liked during an office party or when she would go out with her friends,

For my wife she always loved playing the field for casual sex and only a few times kept a regular guy, she's also had a few pregnancies as a result before and after we got married but all have ended in miscarriages, for her it's just part of sex,

There's plenty of stories we can share, experiences we've had during our army career and civilian jobs and also experiences we've had with an army buddy of mine, any is welcome to message us for any details on our experience.

 

[TexasDaddy]

When I was in my late 40's I had intimate relationships with married girls.

 

[S&Mpar]

My fiancée found her cock at work. She’s open for other men but her colleague satisfied her and fucked really good so she kept on getting railed by him when the work day was done. So it’s a more casual thing. Would love for her to have a bull though.