Boyfriend, Bull or casual sex?

[Stevens4fun]

I'm sure I fit in there somewhere. My husband and I have quite a few friends that are in the lifestyle. We play as couples, separately and as a group. I went to Hedonism with one of the guys while his wife stayed home and entertained Bob. We also do other things outside of the lifestyle with them. Then there's a few guys I see on a fairly regular basis. Typically these guys are married but their wives don't play. Same goes for Bob with other ladies. but it seems that most of them the other husband knows. We both enjoy being a third with other couples. There's more out there than you think. Then there's the casual spur of the moment pickup. It's not uncommon for a guy to be somewhat confused in a grocery store. Depending on the circumstances I'll offer my assistance and quite often that leads to a little 'afternoon delight'.

Nicely stated! Meeting the right couple is a game changer. "Our" couple was a longer term relationship - we just hit it off. They lived locally and like my wife and I, traveled some for work so threesomes and/or twosomes with the other spouse were happening. It was a way for my wife to "give" me a relationship with another sexy woman and the woman's husband was a huge turn on for my wife. What we learned about ourselves and sex was to color our marriage until this day. I married well.

 

[malky]

Nicely stated! Meeting the right couple is a game changer. "Our" couple was a longer term relationship - we just hit it off. They lived locally and like my wife and I, traveled some for work so threesomes and/or twosomes with the other spouse were happening. It was a way for my wife to "give" me a relationship with another sexy woman and the woman's husband was a huge turn on for my wife. What we learned about ourselves and sex was to color our marriage until this day. I married well.

When I read about yours and other couples modern day shenanigan's I tend to get envious. Back in the day, Jess and I didn't realise that so many couples were involved with other couples so we tried to keep our lifestyle as secretive as possible. The modern style would have suited us perfectly because Jess got just as much enjoyment from me fucking other women as I did from her exploits with other men. Unfortunately for me she was far more successful than I was at pulling.
In our day we didn't have the internet which is by far the best advertising media so there was no way to contact other couples that wanted to play. Sometimes I wish we could have our time over so we could benefit from internet forums, but, nevertheless we have our exciting times to look back on. I had several affairs whereas Jess was very rarely without a fuck buddy, or boyfriend as she preferred to call them.

 

[wantingnoregret]

Wife calls them just friends. But there are some friends which been seeing (and fucking) her for about 2 years or so.

She doesn't enjoy one-nights type of things, but doesn't see those men as boyfriends or steady somethings.

Sounds like what I would call friends with benefits. They get together when it is convenient and both of them are horny