Nicely stated! Meeting the right couple is a game changer. "Our" couple was a longer term relationship - we just hit it off. They lived locally and like my wife and I, traveled some for work so threesomes and/or twosomes with the other spouse were happening. It was a way for my wife to "give" me a relationship with another sexy woman and the woman's husband was a huge turn on for my wife. What we learned about ourselves and sex was to color our marriage until this day. I married well.
Boyfriend, Bull or casual sex?
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When I read about yours and other couples modern day shenanigan's I tend to get envious. Back in the day, Jess and I didn't realise that so many couples were involved with other couples so we tried to keep our lifestyle as secretive as possible. The modern style would have suited us perfectly because Jess got just as much enjoyment from me fucking other women as I did from her exploits with other men. Unfortunately for me she was far more successful than I was at pulling.
In our day we didn't have the internet which is by far the best advertising media so there was no way to contact other couples that wanted to play. Sometimes I wish we could have our time over so we could benefit from internet forums, but, nevertheless we have our exciting times to look back on. I had several affairs whereas Jess was very rarely without a fuck buddy, or boyfriend as she preferred to call them.
Sounds like what I would call friends with benefits. They get together when it is convenient and both of them are horny
I don't want a new friend
I prefer strangers.. It's more exciting
I prefer strangers.. It's more exciting
We're pretty much inactive for the moment, but Suz has always preferred fucking strangers. Boyfriend types get too whiny and possessive, and the whole Bull thing just doesn't interest us. Strangers she fucks do get repeats if she likes them and enjoyed their cock, but if they get out of their lane or become pushy, they get told Adios! We rarely play in the rural community we live in. If we do, it is thru a Double List ad that we have placed or answered. We generally play at the beach, where we have a vacation/getaway cottage. We spent 11 days there several years ago, and she fucked 14 different men during that time. Most recently, she fucked 9 men in 6 days. We kind of got in a rut, or lull during Covid and let our Sport Fucking hobby fall by the wayside. We gained weight but have started on the Fat boy- Fat girl program to get back in shape so we can make the best of our time with her fucking other men before we get too old. We are mid 60's, but she is just damn beautiful and will have no problem getting plenty more cock anytime she wants when she gains her self-confidence back. 👍
Jess loved fucking strangers but if she was really into a guy she would keep him around for a while. I loved seeing how excited she got when she arranged a date with someone new.
Jess has had several cases of jealous boyfriends becoming possessive but generally see would see the warning signs and end their relationship.
She was fucking her cousins husband for a while and when she spotted the warning signs she broke it off with him. Problem was, he was turning up at my house whilst I was at work pleading with Jess to change her mind. He eventually got the message though and backed off.
Jess did love fucking someone new so when we ran the guest house she was in her element. She was living in a house full of contractors who were working in our area, some doing shift work but most were on day work. Consequently, there were men about the house at all times of the day and night. At the time, Jess was a very attractive 29 year old, so, she was constantly being hit on by the residents. I'm not saying that Jess fucked them all but she was able to be choose who she fancied, and, with contractors leaving and new guys coming in all the time she was in her element.
If I was on the night shift, Jess would often join the guys at the local pub after the evening meal. Inevitably she would end up in bed with one of them, and, on occasions, two of them.
For roughly a year my wife has had a boyfriend, this is our first venture into this lifestyle and really all we have to base things upon. With that said we did try a couple of other options that did not work out. It has been easier I think having a regular and dependable , grounded person in this role. He has made my wife very comfortable with sex outside of marriage and overall she doesn't feel the negative vibes of "cheating". We really did not like the randomness of trying to talk to people online to set something up, just creepy for us. My wife is a hotwife intern if you will, although she herself is not there yet she has a friend that is well experienced and offers advice, for both of us. We are learning and may at some point venture into other arrangements if we both feel comfortable with it.
My wife has 3 boyfriends. The one I think of as the main boyfriend is over frequently and we are all friends. The 2nd is over once maybe twice a week. The third lives out of town. We knew him when we were younger.
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Good points - easy to agree. My ex and I started seeking partners via print swinging publications, and we used a PO box for those contacts. We actually sent out nude photos of us - Polaroids. There was no Internet then, so not too much risk of the photos being republished. What I was surprised about was how readily my wife agreed to the nude photos. She was all in and it was only then that I realized how much she wanted to "swing" with another couple. Waiting for mail was agony, and we wasted a lot of time screening out guys who sent dick pics without any other commentary. That archaic system worked though! Our first fuck from the magazine was a guy! We had advertised for males and couples and a 40 year old married male sent us a nice response - he was a salesman who was in our area once a month - he lived several states away. It was 'kinda nice for all of us - he had a hotel room, but could spend the night with us. His choice. For our first meeting we invited him to our home and for the first time, I waited outside the bedroom as he and my wife had sex twice. After they finished the second time I rejoined my wife in our bed and went crazy with lust. She had sex with him a month later when he was staying in our area and it was even better for her. Then he disappeared. That's the way it goes with these relationships.
The "Swingers" ad yielded several good people/couples, though, the main drawback being the length of time required to establish contact, trade phone numbers, then meet to check out, etc. etc. And just like Internet contacts, guys would flake, or not be what they said they would be. The best situation the swingers ad led us into was a local couple I mentioned in this thread or somewhere in here. We hit it off right away and we got together monthly or more in every permutation of the action one could think of: mfm, fmf, mf and mf (swapping as we used to call it). Lots of overnights with the other spouse, in our homes.
Still, we quickly learned: coworkers worked well for us. My wife had the opportunity to observe and get to know the guys she worked with and traveled with so some of the elements of risk that we'd normally think about were eliminated. She knew who was married and who wasn't, and she saw them in a wide variety of situations at work and thus knew their temperment and personality well.
Finally, if we wanted a new man for her quickly, we used the bars in major business hotels during the week. Hyatt's, Marriotts, Hiltons, etc. In a big city, those hotels are filled with businessmen during the week. All of them are horny and most of them can be found in the hotel bar in the evening. In most cases, that eliminates the opportunity for her to dance with them and size them up that way, but on the other hand, there's already a hotel room paid for and ready to go. I could join them, go home and wait, or wait in the bar. This tactic worked well in a pinch.
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