Why do you enjoy sharing your wife ?

For us, part of it has been the widening of her sexual taste which then benefits me. There has been some humiliation involved but of her not me. It seems that is a big turn on for her.The thing I like most of all is the feel of her pussy when I have her for sloppy seconds and the conversations we have about what she has done when I wasn't there.
 
Short answer: I don't really know.

Longer answer: I have always enjoyed seeing other men look at my wife. It gives me a sort of thrill to think that they want her. But I can't explain why. The whole thing moved to a new level, however, when I discovered compelling evidence that she had fucked a friend of mine after a party and had allowed him to cum inside her. I wasn't at all angry - a little worried at first (I don't want to lose her) - but the over-riding emotion was one of excitement. I've never confronted her (or him) with what I know, but it soon became the focus of my masturbation fantasies. It didn't take long for me to introduce something similar (but with an unknown, unnamed man) into our joint sex fantasies. She reacted really well to this and was soon setting the agenda, which had by then turned to black men (Barack Obama usually) because that really turned her on. The day she told me that she had gone back on the pill so that she could turn fantasy into reality was awesome. I still tremble when I relive the feelings I had that day.

We have the best sex I have ever known when she comes home to me with another account of taking black cock and cum inside her fat, loose, white pussy. The sight, smell, taste and look of her freshly used body and hearing her tell me the details is like a riot to my senses.
 
Lots of comments about sloppy seconds.
We don't call it that, we really don't call it anything. When one of us finishes she'll say to other guy...you ready? Or...
I'm ready for more. Things like that.
Yes she's VERY slick when i slide in, yes she's VERY wet but sliding into her is just a small part of the fun. She's REALLY turned on after he's done, she kisses different, holds me different and moves different. She moans differently, the things she says are very sexy.
 
For me giving control and submitting myself and the most important intimate thing to me to a rough brutal bull to play with, to enjoy, bring pain in some cases, take control and both of us say submit. We started modeling on ... and manyvids and I got the thrill of seeing her exposed online, her most intimate parts online for strangers. I enjoyed seeing her sending customs and in private sessions. I enjoyed the thrill of living a crazy life and enjoying it. The thrill was so high and we loved the attention. She started ...... with bulls and I was loving it. But kept it a secret the whole time. I wish I could share it with friends and family. Tell them how I really feel when I see her with others. The fact that she is sexual and likes to play. The fact that we did shameless situations just to feel degraded in that moment. We both lived our dream but got cold feet last year and stopped. We miss it so much. Miss the feeling. So in short, hard to explain why, just an amazing feeling for some of us!
 
It was the very first time I shared my ex wife for me. Watching another man feeling her naked body like I did. Slipping one, then two fingers inside her pussy as she held his thick, leaking cock sliding her grasp up and down his shaft and all the time they were kissing, pushing their tongues down each other's throats. Then as he stood up she bent over and started sucking his very bulbous head sliding her mouth right down her throat until she gagged. She was doing such a great job of his cock he was soon at the point of cumming. He positioned her on her back with her legs in the air and his cock level with her pussy. Then with no pause or gentle coaxing he just rammed his big cock into her, right up to his balls. I watched from behind as the smooth bronzed skin of his buttocks tensed on each forced down stroke. Each time his balls met her tight bum they slapped against her bum and I could hear her take a large breath. On the out stroke, she gave a whimpering the odd OHH. As his rhythm built up she was making squeaking noises and I could see she was already cumming. Not long after he stiffened deep inside her as he cum. He cum again and again that night, as did I. She had wet the sheets with her, and his, cum and sweat. Later, after he had left we slept in the bed with no covers on and the smell of all our cum mixed was very heady. At the time we were just boyfriend and girlfriend and on holiday in Spain. We did not know our potential then, but we sure tested the hell out of it on that holiday. Ever since that first encounter, we always tried to capture the same feeling of me watching another cock entering the sacred place reserved only for me, but we never did. Even though we tried many, many times with lots of different scenarios, we never captured that same moment again, but we had outstanding fun trying
 
It was the very first time I shared my ex wife for me. Watching another man feeling her naked body like I did. Slipping one, then two fingers inside her pussy as she held his thick, leaking cock sliding her grasp up and down his shaft and all the time they were kissing, pushing their tongues down each other's throats. Then as he stood up she bent over and started sucking his very bulbous head sliding her mouth right down her throat until she gagged. She was doing such a great job of his cock he was soon at the point of cumming. He positioned her on her back with her legs in the air and his cock level with her pussy. Then with no pause or gentle coaxing he just rammed his big cock into her, right up to his balls. I watched from behind as the smooth bronzed skin of his buttocks tensed on each forced down stroke. Each time his balls met her tight bum they slapped against her bum and I could hear her take a large breath. On the out stroke, she gave a whimpering the odd OHH. As his rhythm built up she was making squeaking noises and I could see she was already cumming. Not long after he stiffened deep inside her as he cum. He cum again and again that night, as did I. She had wet the sheets with her, and his, cum and sweat. Later, after he had left we slept in the bed with no covers on and the smell of all our cum mixed was very heady. At the time we were just boyfriend and girlfriend and on holiday in Spain. We did not know our potential then, but we sure tested the hell out of it on that holiday. Ever since that first encounter, we always tried to capture the same feeling of me watching another cock entering the sacred place reserved only for me, but we never did. Even though we tried many, many times with lots of different scenarios, we never captured that same moment again, but we had outstanding fun trying
Lovely story. I guess the first time is hard to beat but it can happen. Keep trying.
 
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Why do husbands - couples enjoy adding another guy ?
Please, there's no need to respond if you're fake, say you're "caged" 24/7 and your wife ONLY has sex with other guys, never with you-Thanks

We do this because it's fun. It's my wife and me having a friend visit, all of us getting naked, him and I enjoying sex with my wife while she enjoys the sex with us.
There's so many aspects that make it very exciting. It seems we are in the minority here as nothing humiliating happens, we always do this together.
I enjoy our fun (our friend agrees) because my wife gets VERY turned on and fucks us both like crazy. I like watching them, he likes watching us and she likes us watching. That's how we have our fun.

If your thing is having a hot black guy fuck the living hell out of your wife while you watch - I could easily relate to that as long you fuck her after.
If your deal is her going out and getting it on with another guy then comes home to you, sharing the details while she has sex with you, I understand.

Husbands, wives, couples or the extra guy feel free to respond.
We keep our fun very private, it's nice to share on here.
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The first time we tried it i was most curious to see how she enjoyed it. It went well and turned out she enjoyed it extremely well. I then came to find out that i loved seeing her so sexually excited, watching her being pleasured, and decided i wanted her to enjoy and experience everything possible while she still can. The 2nd time she went over to his house while i was at work and gave detail every step of the way it was very arrousing later that night we had the most exciting quickest sex ever afterwards. It is very much nice new experiences and i enjoy everything.
 
The first time we tried it i was most curious to see how she enjoyed it. It went well and turned out she enjoyed it extremely well. I then came to find out that i loved seeing her so sexually excited, watching her being pleasured, and decided i wanted her to enjoy and experience everything possible while she still can. The 2nd time she went over to his house while i was at work and gave detail every step of the way it was very arrousing later that night we had the most exciting quickest sex ever afterwards. It is very much nice new experiences and i enjoy everything.
...seeing her so sexually excited...that's it exactly. Seeing her super turned on turns me (and our friend) on like crazy.
 
The first time we tried it i was most curious to see how she enjoyed it. It went well and turned out she enjoyed it extremely well. I then came to find out that i loved seeing her so sexually excited, watching her being pleasured, and decided i wanted her to enjoy and experience everything possible while she still can. The 2nd time she went over to his house while i was at work and gave detail every step of the way it was very arrousing later that night we had the most exciting quickest sex ever afterwards. It is very much nice new experiences and i enjoy everything.
Letting wife fuck othersprivatly is not good and cuts pleasure for the hub
 
This is a good question and one that has come up when we were at the relationship therapist session early on. We have been in an ongoing MFM for the last several months. The 3 of us enjoy it but it is not what I had originally hoped for. I believe I was looking for live porn and my wife to be the leading actress in a MFM with 2 men while I watch, that did not happen. We are in a long term relationship that includes MFM with me. I thought it was going to be more of a one time fun thing or every so often with different people invloved. In my mind I think I was looking to see my wife get extra naughty and let her guard down for my viewing, maybe see a different side of her sexually. For her, she never asked for this and in fact resisted but (and this is an area therapist keys in on) when she did agree she opened herself to a new full blown relationship.Therapist believes I was seeking to see her taken to a place I had not gotten her to sexually and she was feeling discarded and associated love with sex and could only do this in a relationship. Not sayig we don't enjoy it, we do, but we sought therapy when we felt things starting to get out of control. We feel less out of control currently although our therapist does not endorse what we are doing and has requested a session or two with wife's boyfriend to get his take on things. We are trying to set that up remotely as he is travelling.

Just my 2 cents
 
Understand, she is in charge 😁
On the first date with my wife she told me she needed a boyfriend that would be faithful to her while she fucked whomever she wanted. If I wanted her I would deal with it. I got a hard on and she laughed at me. I asked her to forse me to take it from her. If that's what she needed..She wanted me to be turned on but also very jealous and insecure..