Lost Confidence

[HubbyJohn]

How many of you cucks have lost all confidence having sex with your wife? We still enjoy making her cum with my mouth and toys, but as much as she still wants to have sex with me on occasion I try to avoid penetrating her. As enjoyable as it is for me, I can tell it is not for her. I know she likes the closeness we have together doing it and it isn't about the orgasm and that feels nice for our relationship and our bond, but as I fuck her I just start to think too much about how much more she reacts to the bigger dicks. I start to feel so pathetic and like she is simply pitying me and imagine that she just feels sorry for me as we fuck.

She tries to reassure me, but you know, my manhood is just shattered. It turns me on, I love that she happy and even the humiliation of it turns me on, but the angst can get overwhelming somtimes and sometimes I just miss having sex and feeling like a "man" even tho I know it's all social construct and the relationship we have is strong and great and fun and happy... but you know... it's hard...

 

[Cuckold husband]

That's exactly why we stopped. I'm trying to get my confidence back, but struggling to gain it again.

 

[Randr7896]

It has been the opposite experience for me. While I know that she does not enjoy my dick as much as she used to, mostly because her boyfriend has seemingly, permanently resized, I also know her body better than I ever have.
I like to think, other than her boyfriend, no one can give her pleasure like I can. It doesn't matter to me that it is with my mouth or a large dildo or using other toys.
I have more confidence than ever that I can pleasure her in ways I never could before.

 

[Ray Dachamp]

Man up already!
Its just what you wanted.
The Humiliation is in ur head.
You wanted her to enjoy other, bigger cocks.
Enjoy what YOU'VE done.

Does she have you licking her clean yet?

 

[drakebelg]

We are in the phase of looking for her first bull after i told her my cckold fantasy 18 months ago.

The coversations in the weeks and months after that have led to my PE getting worse and me having very little sexual confidence. She would love to fuck other guys becuase she finds me too submissive in bed, I have always been too quick and in general an averagish lover. She misses the sex gods she experienced before me. We've had open conversations about how not everyone can be a great lover same as not everyone can be a formula one driver.

I've accepted my place as a poor sex partner but try to please her in other ways. I'm much happier when she has me locked and denied long term and get to please her with a strapon and daily footrubs. She is also much happier in that scenario. It's a bit strange and tough though that it comes and goes. She unlocked me 3 weeks ago (after 5 weeks denied), made me orgasm and since then she hasn't mention chastity, cuckolding or anything......

 

[Ray Dachamp]

It's just what u wanted her to be.

Next she has u lick her pussy or tits clean of her bulls cum.

Then, eventually, she'll have u clean his cock off....maybe even make him hard to fuck her again. Its what u need & u know it. She does.

 

[Loridan]

We get with a guy friend pretty regularly. We are late 50s, he's 35. He's a really cool guy, he's clean, polite, has a good job, divorced. He has a bigger tool than I do.
My wife easily gets off from oral from me or her vibrator. Our sex life was/is good. She had never had an orgasm while we were fucking.
We've been getting with our friend semi regularly for about 2 years.
She's cum many times with him while he fucks her. When he's with us there's been times she cums while I'm doing her but only after she got off with him first.
I'm good with everything that happens.
Our fun with him has improved our sex life like crazy. She's horny as fuck for days after he's been with us so we have a lot of real good sex.
She very obviously likes sex with him but she's always ready for me too. Nothing cuckold at all.
I have no problem with my confidence. Our marriage is good.
Our fun with our friend only adds to lives.

 

[Ray Dachamp]

Absofuckinlutely perfect!

 

[Bull4Oldrwives]

I have found that 'sloppy seconds' is great for this problem, Assuming she has decided that she wants to allow him access to her. I typically have encounters where it is just she and I. Then there are encounters where he will participate doing fluffing, guide me into her, cleanup which will all get him pretty aroused then he is allowed to enjoy her wet, warm, swollen pussy. The excitement of entering her wet swollen love nest typically resolves the hardness issue and it will only require 2-3 thrusts for him to cum pretty intensely.
This only happens after I am completely finished and I will often leave the room telling him that I have gotten her ready for him. This is the the kind of situation where an experienced Bull who is sensitive to the cucks issue can help him have orgasms. If the wife wants his cuckold experience to involve limited continued pleasure with her I want to help make that happen.
I prefer LTRs where I essentially become part of the marriage and part of my responsibility is to bring all the pleasure, excitement, and romance for her that makes the marital triad such a unique lifestyle.

 

[cuck52]

How many of you cucks have lost all confidence having sex with your wife? We still enjoy making her cum with my mouth and toys, but as much as she still wants to have sex with me on occasion I try to avoid penetrating her. As enjoyable as it is for me, I can tell it is not for her. I know she likes the closeness we have together doing it and it isn't about the orgasm and that feels nice for our relationship and our bond, but as I fuck her I just start to think too much about how much more she reacts to the bigger dicks. I start to feel so pathetic and like she is simply pitying me and imagine that she just feels sorry for me as we fuck.

She tries to reassure me, but you know, my manhood is just shattered. It turns me on, I love that she happy and even the humiliation of it turns me on, but the angst can get overwhelming somtimes and sometimes I just miss having sex and feeling like a "man" even tho I know it's all social construct and the relationship we have is strong and great and fun and happy... but you know... it's hard...

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