I consider us a normal couple. I gave my wife a hall pass because I wanted her to enjoy herself to the fullest. We've done some swinging and some mfm but mostly she dated friends that she met in a chat room. The experience sure seemed to boost her confidence. I just love her and I know that she feels the same about me. She hasn't played for a while but when something reminds us of her adventures she still gets that cute bad girl look that drives me crazy.
Any "normal" couples that are only part time into cuck play ?
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If we had more time we’d probably be into it. Wife wanted MMF in past and was quite slutty…life is too busy honestly!
I think if he wanted to clean you, he would have by now. It sounds to me as if he is winding down in interest. So, I think its too late now. Hey, just give me a call, I'll clean you, but very slowly.
This is how we do it too!
We do not live it 24/7. But my hubby does love watching
Carrienlarry
Couple
We wouldn’t classify as cuck. We like to explore our sexual horizons and experiences.
dinoo-2
Male
Tons of posts, some provably fake.........
Some probably fake? I really think a lot of them.
Question is... is anyone here "normal" but does get into some cuckold play? Mild ? Hard core?
Yes. See later.
You use this as something extra for your sex life?
You can say this, yes.
If so....do you have a regular repeat guy you trust?
Yes. She had two regular lovers. Only they had unprotected sex with my wife.
How often does it happen?
With her black lover once in the three months with her black lover. He lived in the US, we in Europe.
Once a month in the 4 weeks with her white regular lover.
Background.
I considered us as a "normal" couple but we have a secret life as cuckold couple.
My wife likes this extremely.
Once a month we visited a club at which single men are very welcome.
The management told me that the ratio of couples to single men is roughly 1 couple to 3 single men. Men enough, in other words.
My wife preferred the nudist night but in retrospect it was more like a cuckold night. Couple men watched as (strange) men "used" their wives. My experience was that my wife was almost never left alone.
At the end of our very first visit, 6 of a total of 12 men came on her body.
When we left the club, my wife didn't took a shower. She loved more to return at home with her cum covered body.
At home I knew why: I had to lick her clean. Remarkably, both the smell and taste of the dried cum were still there.
It was my birth of being her cuckold.
In that club, we met a black man who then visited us at home. He had a very large glans.
I didn't participate in the beginning till the moment he commanded me to put his unprotected cock in her pussy. I obeyed him.
Step by step she changed me to her bi-cuckold, finally resulting in sucking his dick together and putting his dick very often in her pussy.
My wife loved this extremely: a symbol of me giving her away to another men she said.
At this club my wife fell in love with a married man with a very huge dick.
About him she said: "His huge dick is only a bonus. Having sex with him is sensationally and I like his character."
After she confessed fallen in love with him, our already strong bond (read marriage) became even stronger.
Our sex became hornier than ever because of very intimate communication about what we could expect from this relationship.
The first question was:
Question is... is anyone here "normal" but does get into some cuckold play? Mild ? Hard core?
Quite normal in vanilla life,
Yes, did get into some cuckold play.
Mild? Hard core?
Yes both.
It appeared that my wife loved CBT. Cock, but especially the glans and balls became the targets.
She wasn't mild with them. No, she loved to hurt me. And I loved she could be that other wife of me.
Yes, to answer a logical question, it was painful but it was quite another pain. I don't know how to express.
We both loved it so much that after a session we were the closest mates the reader can imagine.
We could kiss each other for minutes to express our bond for each other.
However, vanilla life stayed "normal".
What is normal?
We were extremely happy with each other, And this even after more than 40 years of marriage.
Nice to read some "real" scenarios. Like so many of you, her "trysts" were a result of us sharing our fantasies and deciding to act on some of them if the right guy came along. We were both divorcees when we met, mid-career, and neither of us wanted to completely give up the sexual freedom we'd been experiencing as singles. Being able to honestly communicate our interests was the key to opening both of us up to extra men in our bedroom with her. And in hotel bedrooms with her. And her at his place with him in her. Him spending the night with her in our bed when I was traveling for work. 🙂)))) The words "cuckold, bull, stag, cheating, whores, breeding, and bbc" weren't words we used. Those are fantasy words designed to sell videos/clips to horny husbands who will never experience the kinds of profound sexual experiences we are talking about here. Pure male fantasy stuff! 🙂))))
But as some of you have noted the experiences we "normal" married or committed couples crave are not like the "cuckold" obsessed, BBC bull breeding experiences obsessed guys in here are "wishing" for. Like all smart women, my wife really understands what turns me on and she knew how to play it to benefit us both. She understood that we needed to communicate when she was with another man or traveling, but perhaps more importantly she understood when to communicate. And when to not communicate. I married well.
Long term relationships (yes, there was emotional involvement too) worked best for us and wasted no time meeting up, checking out, being no-showed, etc. and the emotional connection to her lover was a good thing for us. It heightened the experience all three of us. There was never enough time to work in all of the extra marital sex for her that we both wanted - three or four times a month was a good month! Especially when we factored in the need to work around her periods when she wasn't on BC. When the frequency picked up over 3-4 times a month it wasn't sustainable. Wee still needed time for us, too! Overnights with her lover were always a special treat that we preferred, but it's difficult if her lover is married. Still, "seconds" in the morning are sublime.......
But as some of you have noted the experiences we "normal" married or committed couples crave are not like the "cuckold" obsessed, BBC bull breeding experiences obsessed guys in here are "wishing" for. Like all smart women, my wife really understands what turns me on and she knew how to play it to benefit us both. She understood that we needed to communicate when she was with another man or traveling, but perhaps more importantly she understood when to communicate. And when to not communicate. I married well.
Long term relationships (yes, there was emotional involvement too) worked best for us and wasted no time meeting up, checking out, being no-showed, etc. and the emotional connection to her lover was a good thing for us. It heightened the experience all three of us. There was never enough time to work in all of the extra marital sex for her that we both wanted - three or four times a month was a good month! Especially when we factored in the need to work around her periods when she wasn't on BC. When the frequency picked up over 3-4 times a month it wasn't sustainable. Wee still needed time for us, too! Overnights with her lover were always a special treat that we preferred, but it's difficult if her lover is married. Still, "seconds" in the morning are sublime.......
I found out my kink in college when my wife (the girlfriend) cheated on me with my hung roommate.
It was years before I confessed to spying on them and liking it.
After that we dabbled with the same friend to spice thinks up and loved it.
Over the years there were a few strangers and acquaintances that she'd screw when roll play wasn't doing it for us.
There was a regular guy at work that opened up a whole new kink. Not knowing if she'd been with him that day, but he moved away.
A couple years ago she met a guy at a pool and they hit it off. It didn't hurt that he had the biggest cock she'd ever had. Before I had considered myself more of a stag, but she truly cucked me with him. The more he fucked her the more addicted she became to his cock and the more addicted I became to her thrilling stories, phone calls and occasional videos. Eventually, he we had a full on hotwife, bull, cuckold menage and the more she fucked him, the more she fucked me.
Now, he is more of a boyfriend. They go on dates, she spends the night as his place, but always she is coming home to me.
It works for us: I'm so happy to allow my wife to experience the pleasure he gives her, she loves teasing me and making me cum and he has a hot little blonde who is addicted to his cock.
I took a few lines from a response above....
Watching my normally normal conservative wife really let go and enjoy sex is a huge turn on.
It's not cuckold at all for us. Our sex life is fantastic with and without him.
Htwf4fwb
Female
Sex is sex and normal regular life still has to happen most of the time. We are kinky and do a fair amount of kinky things but we don’t do cages at all. We have a very active sex life without other ppl but my husband does have cuck type qualities and things of that nature that he likes. But that’s all for the bedroom.
To answer your direct questions.
Yes it’s just extra, just something we do on top of everything else
I do have a regular now for over the last two yeas repeat guy and have always preferred the ongoing longer lasting situationships
With my current guy I do it a lot which is once or twice a week, sometimes three times but rarely that much and if I or he has plans or company we still miss weeks too. I’ve been doing this for ten years so I’d say if you are average, active and have and ongoing guy 3x a month is a good average. But it comes in spurts, guys come and go, finding new guys takes time. My rule was if a guy didn’t see me for a whole month I’d move on. But it never happens as much as you think even with a regular ongoing play friend. It’s casual sex not a commitment, so it’s casual and you play it pretty cool. It’s exciting at first and you may run through a bunch of guys the first few years but then that gets old and you realize it’s like a second job to find a decent fuck buddy. You get more sex with an ongoing fwb than playing the field too, it’s safer, more comfortable and way more convenient. Until you find a really reliable long term guy most guys have a shelf life and after a few months you are back square one anyways
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I consider myself a stag, I have to participate on one end or the other.
it is important that you start licking her pussy after you fuck her - on the third time - as you licking her pussy --- say I will lick others cum from your pussy. I want to lick your pussy clean after you have fucked other cocks.
Azncouple21
Couple
I gave wife that option and she wont take me up on that. Last summer there was a younger intern who she had the hots for. Suggested happy hour over the summer was prime opportunity to flirt and fuck but no dice. What to do?
Good post, Htwf4fwb. The "cuckold" obsessives kind of run away with the dialog on this site, but there's lots of us enjoying extra marital sex without going full cuck. My wife and I found 2 - 3 times a month was usually about all she could play, unless she was traveling with a guy (coworker or boss). The schedules just don't work out most of the time. With me traveling for work I just couldn't be there most of the time but she always chose quality guys to bring into our bedroom.
