Quality of sex when wife has emotional connection with other man vs someone new?

[Siesta Swingers]

Im fortunate to have a Hotwife that has allowed me to video most, but not all, of her fuck dates with Bulls/FWB’s.
I have over 10 hours of her with many different men.
She and I were discussing who she has enjoyed fucking the most. She said Bryan was the most passionate. They have a 14 year friendship and we both call him her Boy Friend.
They recorded one video for me since Ive never been allowed to watch them in person. They have only recorded this one video for me in all this time but have made audio recordings of nearly every date.

Anyway, I told her during our conversation that her vid with Bryan was my all time favorite video of her due her enthusiasm while fucking him. She is more passionate, embracing him, deep passionate kissing, pulling him deep into her, the way she sounded, loud orgasms, laughing, etc. just the whole sex scene was very real and very erotic.
The other men she has fucked she enjoys but there is that…. I don’t know how to describe it… “hold back” maybe? Its like watching a professional porn movie verse true amateur. I can just tell it’s acting instead of real emotions.
Anyone else observe this with their own Hotwife?

 

[hotratz]

Yes, I have. She's only been with around 18 men. 2, stand out though in her enthusiasm. Both were multiple encounters. The first man, just her 'type' and posessed and 'perfect' cock (her words), and knew exactly how to use it to her pleasure. Much to my surprise as it's something she'd never done before, was climb on my face after he filledher. 2nd man, the 1st time he fucked my wife, she made noises that even after 14 years of marriage, I'd never heard her make. She fucked him like a mad woman, lol. Sex with other men, while she enjoyed, came nowhere the intensity of sex with these 2 men.

 

[Siesta Swingers]

Yes, I have. She's only been with around 18 men. 2, stand out though in her enthusiasm. Both were multiple encounters. The first man, just her 'type' and posessed and 'perfect' cock (her words), and knew exactly how to use it to her pleasure. Much to my surprise as it's something she'd never done before, was climb on my face after he filledher. 2nd man, the 1st time he fucked my wife, she made noises that even after 14 years of marriage, I'd never heard her make. She fucked him like a mad woman, lol. Sex with other men, while she enjoyed, came nowhere the intensity of sex with these 2 men.

Did she have any repeat dates with these two? If so did the sex get even better sexond time around?

 

[hotratz]

yes, and yes.

 

[Azncouple21]

Yes, I have. She's only been with around 18 men. 2, stand out though in her enthusiasm. Both were multiple encounters. The first man, just her 'type' and posessed and 'perfect' cock (her words), and knew exactly how to use it to her pleasure. Much to my surprise as it's something she'd never done before, was climb on my face after he filledher. 2nd man, the 1st time he fucked my wife, she made noises that even after 14 years of marriage, I'd never heard her make. She fucked him like a mad woman, lol. Sex with other men, while she enjoyed, came nowhere the intensity of sex with these 2 men.

My wife has had the exact same experience and almost the same amount of men, 17, since we have been married.
Her favorite guy she said right away "He is a 9 out of 10 in looks department and Id fuck him in a minute"
She was visably nervous upon meeting at the bar in the hotel, but once we got upstairs, she was like a dog in heat. She easily came 4-5 times the first time they fucked and came again 3-4 times the 2nd time

 

[Loyaltoher]

When she started, almost 20 years ago, she has always enjoyed the deeper relationship man. While she loves to fuck fun, fit guys, if there’s a relationship, and some “feelings”, there is more passion and afterglow. And as many cuckolds have learned, this has the makings of the change in the quality and the frequency of the meetings and adventures. And the obvious change is that as a cuck you are clearly loved but not given to the sexual intensity as is the lover.

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Im fortunate to have a Hotwife that has allowed me to video most, but not all, of her fuck dates with Bulls/FWB’s.
I have over 10 hours of her with many different men.
She and I were discussing who she has enjoyed fucking the most. She said Bryan was the most passionate. They have a 14 year friendship and we both call him her Boy Friend.
They recorded one video for me since Ive never been allowed to watch them in person. They have only recorded this one video for me in all this time but have made audio recordings of nearly every date.

Anyway, I told her during our conversation that her vid with Bryan was my all time favorite video of her due her enthusiasm while fucking him. She is more passionate, embracing him, deep passionate kissing, pulling him deep into her, the way she sounded, loud orgasms, laughing, etc. just the whole sex scene was very real and very erotic.
The other men she has fucked she enjoys but there is that…. I don’t know how to describe it… “hold back” maybe? Its like watching a professional porn movie verse true amateur. I can just tell it’s acting instead of real emotions.
Anyone else observe this with their own Hotwife?

Yes, we observe.

But there are different connections to different men. With some there was something very alike you described, an emotional kind of connection. With others it was more of an unparallaled lust. Distinguished from what she shows normally.

 

[Loridan]

We've done this with 2 different guys, one guy many many times, 3 times with the other.
3 time guy I thought was a good fit but wife really wasn't into him.
Regular guy is the guy we started with. NOT the type guy my wife finds attractive. I don't really think about an emotional connection but I'm sure it's there. She REALLY enjoys sex with him. We only see him for sex fun.
Watching is a much different perspective so it's hard to compare what she does and feels with him. He has a bigger dick for sure and she very obviously likes how they have sex. She's never said anything if he's better just that it's different with him.
When he's with us she's a different woman, VERY sexual and fucks us both like crazy.

 

[Jsking31]

I definitely think the quality is better with an emotional connection. While it may not be for some, our first guy we shared my wife with was one of her ex boyfriends. It’s continued for a few years now. She has a clear emotional connection with him which has allowed them to be extremely passionate which she loves.

 

[Demetrius1988]

I definitely think the quality is better with an emotional connection. While it may not be for some, our first guy we shared my wife with was one of her ex boyfriends. It’s continued for a few years now. She has a clear emotional connection with him which has allowed them to be extremely passionate which she loves.

I completely agree, emotional connection is important. We have a similar situation, only her lover is my old friend. We can probably invite an unfamiliar guy, but it will definitely be MFM with her regular bull.

 

[Siesta Swingers]

I definitely think the quality is better with an emotional connection. While it may not be for some, our first guy we shared my wife with was one of her ex boyfriends. It’s continued for a few years now. She has a clear emotional connection with him which has allowed them to be extremely passionate which she loves.

Same with my Hotwife.