Sex with others

[Spice]

This question is for either husband or wife, does your spouse have a regular he or she sees strictly for sex with no involvement or commitment whatsoever? Maybe in the past or still going on after marriage? Maybe you know about it and you're ok with it or you suspect but don't mind.

With my wife she once told me that before we met she used to have a guy she would see for just sex, she told her was a co-worker she knew from a previous employment, she said he was in his mid 40's and divorced, she told me she would go see him when she got time off and needed to fuck, I asked her when was the last time she saw him and she said she saw him the following week after our first date and a few times during while we were dating, being curious I asked her if she saw him after we got married and she just smiled and said she stopped seeing him after he got married.

 

[HotOneWife]

I tend to agree with you, I enjoy having a couple regular guys who can join us but also enjoy the excitement of someone new. My man does a good job of screening new guys so we are very comfortable inviting them to our home, but love the excitement of someone new. As far as meeting someone by chance, yes that is fun as well but is not always as good as a stable guy, I am confused as to when a guy is considered a regular, after a second time or third, or a dozen? Just thinking out loud. I like your idea and concepts of big cock men, my man is big as well and normally joins or is a part of my play t8me but there are times when I want my regular alone so I can really let go! 💋❤️💋

I totally agree with your "really letting go" comment. I don't usually let my husband join in for that very reason. When he's present I feel inhibited. I don't want him seeing me doing certain things with my lover. I don't want him to feel jealous or hurt. When we're done I tell him all about it, but I prefer he doesn't see it happening.

 

[Mr.G The Sweet]

If I ever get that far into this, this is the only way I can see myself doing it 😊

I don't believe you 😁😉

 

[Mr.G The Sweet]

I have two men I see regularly. I like the way they treat me and make love to me, I like their stamina, I like their ability to stay hard, I like their reliability, and I like their big cocks. I know them and feel safe with them. A lot of the men who want to be bulls are just wanabees. They either don't show, or can't perform, or are just creeps. Sometimes if my husband and I are on vacation, we will meet a guy who seems ok, so I'll take a chance and things often work out. But mostly I stay with the two guys who I know can deliver the goods.

Here are also many wanabee cuckold couples,many fakes ,liars and "hotwives".

 

[andysmith]

I totally agree with your "really letting go" comment. I don't usually let my husband join in for that very reason. When he's present I feel inhibited. I don't want him seeing me doing certain things with my lover. I don't want him to feel jealous or hurt. When we're done I tell him all about it, but I prefer he doesn't see it happening.

v sad and v selfish. U think he is not more jealous knowing u r having sex without him present?

 

[Ht805cpl]

i still say risky

Perhaps, everything in life is a risk, especially sharing your wife with other men.

 

[wasper]

Perhaps, everything in life is a risk, especially sharing your wife with other men.

And risk changes over time.. when we were dating my Asian wife was into experimenting i.e two guys at one, trying a huge cock, sex in public places, but we had to be careful and watch for creeps, unwanted pregnancy and disease. After marriage the risk was different... could no longer do it locally, and wife was even more worried about disease as she wanted kids. Once kids enter the picture it's even tougher. Agree that randos and strangers less desirable as you get older, you want the sure lower-risk thing.

 

[Polariodcouple]

We don't have a regular as such.Always adding to the rota,but there are three blokes who I have been fucking with my husband for a few years now xxx 😈

 

[JMNBABE]

J prefers longer term relationships, and there is some emption that always creeps in to these. She prefers guys that start as friends and become lovers over time, she is much more able to really let go and enjoy herself this way. Most are 6 months to a year, and usually end because their wife is asking too many questions aobut overtime or company trips, but her longest and most satisfying was with her Boss/Lover, it lasted 11 years. Only ended due to the pandemic, he got really weird about things, caught Covid three times as a result, and it definitely hurt his health. They are still great work partners, but no sex together. CW

 

[Cockneyal]

My wife was due home hours ago, last I saw her she was with another woman we had never met, drinking.

 

[caribvistors]

Over the many years we are married, most of the men she became intimate with were fairly long term relationships, one over 20 years. All of the men were guys she knew from working or friends of ours, some for a number of years prior to getting involved, no pickup guys. She had to really know, trust and like them. Never any indication that she ever became emotionally involved, just enjoyed having "different" sex. She navigated these relationships with all but one being married, without any embarrassments or social scandal.