How did your wife react when she first found out you wanted someone else to fuck her in front of you? What did she do?

[NeedaDomInMI]

She got a bit angry and defensive. Said, absolutely not.
She has softened her stance since then , but still is adamant she will not give herself to another man.

 

[AllowingHubby]

She was suspicious at first but then we talked about it and why I was interested in her doing it - her feeling excitement and me getting to see her with another man who pleased her. Next day she invited a guy over and they fucked for an hour and a half. She's been fucking and sucking men whenever she can ever since!

 

[Upforit200891]

We had talked about it many times over a year. Usually when ....... We stayed over at one of my friends house one night after beer. She went to ...... We stripped and stood either side of her on the bed. She woke a little startled but quickly started sucking his cock. Not long after that we both came up her.

 

[niskeyguy]

I Join in almost everytime.
Always let the other guu go first thpugh..
Then i will go
Many times after i am done the other guy is rezdy fot seconds.
After i am done i takeawhile to get intp it.
I let them go at it. Thats when he takes a little longer and she doess more woth and for him

 

[ThisMakesMeHard]

My gf thought I was just testing her loyalty

 

[Loridan]

Was never planned. First time we did this was with a guy we both knew. Alcohol...kissing then he did her over the back of the couch, whole deal was over in about 4 minutes. He left quickly. Wife cried and apologized over and over. She took a shower then we went to bed, laid there for quite a while in silence, she was crying off and on. She asked if I was OK. I was kinda passed about what had happened but it was all good. We ended up having sex twice, that hadn't happened in years. We talked about what we did any agreed it was a mistake.
About 6 months later, another bbq with friends at our place. Everyone had left except our friend. We all kinda knew it might happen again. Same deal, alcohol, kissing then they did it on the couch while I watched. Took maybe 20 min, he left. Wife looked at me like what happened?? She took a shower, we went to bed and had some great sex.
We did it two more times with him about 6 months between.
Covid...we're all not working, we had him over. Was very awkward but fun. They did it while I watched, he'd leave then we had sex after.
We got pretty comfy with it. The routine was they had sex while I watched. She walked him to the door, goodnight kiss, she comes back to bed, then we had sex. One night going as usual, he's leaving, they kiss at the door, she comes back but he was with her. She said he wanted one more befor he left.
It got to where they'd go twice then he'd leave. One night they did one round then she asked if I wanted in. So it became him, me, him then he'd leave.
Now we each do her twice then they do one more in the livingroom without me. There's been nights he does 4 times.
They kiss goodnight at the door, he fingers her puss while they kiss, he leaves. We have a nice slow fuck before we go to .......
She's horny as fuck for days after he's been with us.

 

[Stevens4fun]

My wife and I married when I was late 30s, she late 20s no children. She had already shared with me that she had mfm and a few DP experiences (with the same two guys - they all rented rooms in a 4 bedroom house), and really enjoyed it, - DP was her strongest orgasm ever, she said. I had an erection as we were talking about all this while in bed, naked one afternoon before we married. She asked me what would turn me on the most, and it was then that I told her I'd love to see her underneath an attractive well-hung guy she was seeing on a regular basis, having an orgasm with him, and him finishing in her. I wanted to hear her ask him how soon he could come back and spend the night with her. "There's a guy at work that I've always wanted to go all the way with," she said. Then she confessed to sucking his cock a few times on their lunch breaks at work, in his company pickup. We weren't yet married, but before our first year of marriage passed, she had sex with him in our bed while I was at work. There was other sexy stuff going on but this event was what really established that my wife would enjoy other men from time to time. 30+ years later, we are still married and have lots to reminisce about.

 

[niskeyguy]

My gf thought I was just testing her loyalty

did she do it?

 

[Jflrow]

My wife has said no way way. This was several years ago. She still hasn’t but she has softened on it since then though. She now has a dildo much larger than me that we refer to as the big boy she will use from time to time. Sometimes after she has orgasmed she will lay next to me and talk to me about how it would happen and giving me all of the little details while I am masterbating. I recently read some articles about erotic massages for women. I told her about it and she initially said no. But it has come up a few other times and she has basically agreed to it as long as she gets to set the ground rules and is adamant that she is not having sex with anyone. However eluded to the possibility of letting the person finger her. I was like ok next time we go to Vegas I can set it up. Whether or not she will actually go through with it or not remains to be seen.

 

[niskeyguy]

My wife has said no way way. This was several years ago. She still hasn’t but she has softened on it since then though. She now has a dildo much larger than me that we refer to as the big boy she will use from time to time. Sometimes after she has orgasmed she will lay next to me and talk to me about how it would happen and giving me all of the little details while I am masterbating. I recently read some articles about erotic massages for women. I told her about it and she initially said no. But it has come up a few other times and she has basically agreed to it as long as she gets to set the ground rules and is adamant that she is not having sex with anyone. However eluded to the possibility of letting the person finger her. I was like ok next time we go to Vegas I can set it up. Whether or not she will actually go through with it or not remains to be seen.

Good luck. I think your doing it right.

 

[happyhubbymi]

She got a bit angry and defensive. Said, absolutely not.
She has softened her stance since then , but still is adamant she will not give herself to another man.

That's how my wife responded, too. (Obviously, things changed.)

 

[Jaredd]

That's how my wife responded, too. (Obviously, things changed.)

How bro

 

[NeedaDomInMI]

That's how my wife responded, too. (Obviously, things changed.)

What made her change her mind?

 

[Nick1477]

In a few hours time my wife will be getting all dressed up, stockings, suspenders and a freshly shaved pussy to meet her regular for an afternoon of fucking. In less than 3 years this will be her 49th date. It's less than two years actually because the first 18 months were really quiet.
To be at this stage where she gets cock every week is quite unbelievable really. I was the only man she'd fucked for the last 30 years before getting into the lifestyle and when the subject was first brought up a few years ago it was a firm no chance. It has always been a fantasy of mine to see her with other men and when she eventually agreed it was only to shut me up thinking it would be a one off. To say she really took to it is an understatement and nowadays she just says when she's going off to fuck and it's up to me whether or not I want to go along to watch, she's not fussed either way. Sometimes I do sometimes I don't but it's all recorded anyway. I'll probably go along and watch today but next week will be her big 50th fuck and I can't make it.
For the last 7 or 8 months I don't think she's missed a week with her regular guy with just the odd other one inbetween.

 

[niskeyguy]

In a few hours time my wife will be getting all dressed up, stockings, suspenders and a freshly shaved pussy to meet her regular for an afternoon of fucking. In less than 3 years this will be her 49th date. It's less than two years actually because the first 18 months were really quiet.
To be at this stage where she gets cock every week is quite unbelievable really. I was the only man she'd fucked for the last 30 years before getting into the lifestyle and when the subject was first brought up a few years ago it was a firm no chance. It has always been a fantasy of mine to see her with other men and when she eventually agreed it was only to shut me up thinking it would be a one off. To say she really took to it is an understatement and nowadays she just says when she's going off to fuck and whether or not I want to go along to watch. Sometimes I do sometimes I don't but it's all recorded anyway. I'll probably go along and watch today but next week will be her big 50th fuck and I can't make it.
For the last 7 or 8 months I don't think she's missed a week with her regular guy with just the odd other one inbetween.View attachment 2540650

Great pic.
True money shot.

 

[Yorkshireguy]

I have asked my current partner if i could watch her and she said no!
But when we are in the bedroom and i bring it up she said yes,but if i ask her she says no again but she did say she would help the guy cum well obviously she will get carried away hopefully 😉

 

[niskeyguy]

Great pic.
True money shot.

there is nothing like the first time you see another mans cock slip into your wifes pussy. add the fact she wants it

 

[jsaltydog]

I got the same results as above. She thought I was crazy and didn't want her any longer. To the contrary. I do not have cuck intentions, Iam way too into sex to retire. I am rather turned on by every element of her sexuality and have wanted it for some time now. She thinks I may have a sex addiction. I might but no intent of giving up. Once she sort of agreed I would not let up until we had some solid plans or she would have just let it pass. It took some trial and error where I could not be present (not doing that again ) but we got there last night. I was able to see her in the act and damn, wow. So hot. Well worth the effort.

I think the "sex addiction" accusation is over used. It's a way to end serious conversation about your desires and what makes you happy.

 

[badcpl]

She told me that I needed serious mental help. She added that I knew that she would never fuck anyone else when she allowed me to fuck her that first time. She cried and asked if I wanted a divorce then she looked at me and asked "what's wrong with you"? She did not talk to me for several days. When she came home from work and saw that I had packed all my clothes into my truck she actually freaked out and almost had a breakdown. One night gone and she tracked me down. We need to talk, those famous words.

 

[Robert Smith]

I posted this on page one. I forgot to add this paragraph about her first MMF experience after a year and half of me talking her into trying it once.

Keeping in mind she was 29 or 30 and we all had a lot of sexual energy we kept busy sucking and fucking until all were satiated. He thanked us profusely and left. We collapsed in bed asleep. In the morning I was afraid she would feel guilty and say never again. I asked her what she thought about everything that happened. She asked me if I had a good time. I assured her I had and she said great. I asked would she do it again and she said probably but it would have to our special secret and we must be discreet
I did not take any photos, but later got her to wear the same garters and dress she wore that first time