How did your wife react when she first found out you wanted someone else to fuck her in front of you? What did she do?

[NeedaDomInMI]

She got a bit angry and defensive. Said, absolutely not.
She has softened her stance since then , but still is adamant she will not give herself to another man.

 

[AllowingHubby]

She was suspicious at first but then we talked about it and why I was interested in her doing it - her feeling excitement and me getting to see her with another man who pleased her. Next day she invited a guy over and they fucked for an hour and a half. She's been fucking and sucking men whenever she can ever since!

 

[Upforit200891]

We had talked about it many times over a year. Usually when ....... We stayed over at one of my friends house one night after beer. She went to ...... We stripped and stood either side of her on the bed. She woke a little startled but quickly started sucking his cock. Not long after that we both came up her.

 

[niskeyguy]

I Join in almost everytime.
Always let the other guu go first thpugh..
Then i will go
Many times after i am done the other guy is rezdy fot seconds.
After i am done i takeawhile to get intp it.
I let them go at it. Thats when he takes a little longer and she doess more woth and for him

 

[ThisMakesMeHard]

My gf thought I was just testing her loyalty

 

[Loridan]

Was never planned. First time we did this was with a guy we both knew. Alcohol...kissing then he did her over the back of the couch, whole deal was over in about 4 minutes. He left quickly. Wife cried and apologized over and over. She took a shower then we went to bed, laid there for quite a while in silence, she was crying off and on. She asked if I was OK. I was kinda passed about what had happened but it was all good. We ended up having sex twice, that hadn't happened in years. We talked about what we did any agreed it was a mistake.
About 6 months later, another bbq with friends at our place. Everyone had left except our friend. We all kinda knew it might happen again. Same deal, alcohol, kissing then they did it on the couch while I watched. Took maybe 20 min, he left. Wife looked at me like what happened?? She took a shower, we went to bed and had some great sex.
We did it two more times with him about 6 months between.
Covid...we're all not working, we had him over. Was very awkward but fun. They did it while I watched, he'd leave then we had sex after.
We got pretty comfy with it. The routine was they had sex while I watched. She walked him to the door, goodnight kiss, she comes back to bed, then we had sex. One night going as usual, he's leaving, they kiss at the door, she comes back but he was with her. She said he wanted one more befor he left.
It got to where they'd go twice then he'd leave. One night they did one round then she asked if I wanted in. So it became him, me, him then he'd leave.
Now we each do her twice then they do one more in the livingroom without me. There's been nights he does 4 times.
They kiss goodnight at the door, he fingers her puss while they kiss, he leaves. We have a nice slow fuck before we go to .......
She's horny as fuck for days after he's been with us.

 

[Stevens4fun]

My wife and I married when I was late 30s, she late 20s no children. She had already shared with me that she had mfm and a few DP experiences (with the same two guys - they all rented rooms in a 4 bedroom house), and really enjoyed it, - DP was her strongest orgasm ever, she said. I had an erection as we were talking about all this while in bed, naked one afternoon before we married. She asked me what would turn me on the most, and it was then that I told her I'd love to see her underneath an attractive well-hung guy she was seeing on a regular basis, having an orgasm with him, and him finishing in her. I wanted to hear her ask him how soon he could come back and spend the night with her. "There's a guy at work that I've always wanted to go all the way with," she said. Then she confessed to sucking his cock a few times on their lunch breaks at work, in his company pickup. We weren't yet married, but before our first year of marriage passed, she had sex with him in our bed while I was at work. There was other sexy stuff going on but this event was what really established that my wife would enjoy other men from time to time. 30+ years later, we are still married and have lots to reminisce about.

 

[niskeyguy]

My gf thought I was just testing her loyalty

did she do it?

 

[Jflrow]

My wife has said no way way. This was several years ago. She still hasn’t but she has softened on it since then though. She now has a dildo much larger than me that we refer to as the big boy she will use from time to time. Sometimes after she has orgasmed she will lay next to me and talk to me about how it would happen and giving me all of the little details while I am masterbating. I recently read some articles about erotic massages for women. I told her about it and she initially said no. But it has come up a few other times and she has basically agreed to it as long as she gets to set the ground rules and is adamant that she is not having sex with anyone. However eluded to the possibility of letting the person finger her. I was like ok next time we go to Vegas I can set it up. Whether or not she will actually go through with it or not remains to be seen.

 

[niskeyguy]

My wife has said no way way. This was several years ago. She still hasn’t but she has softened on it since then though. She now has a dildo much larger than me that we refer to as the big boy she will use from time to time. Sometimes after she has orgasmed she will lay next to me and talk to me about how it would happen and giving me all of the little details while I am masterbating. I recently read some articles about erotic massages for women. I told her about it and she initially said no. But it has come up a few other times and she has basically agreed to it as long as she gets to set the ground rules and is adamant that she is not having sex with anyone. However eluded to the possibility of letting the person finger her. I was like ok next time we go to Vegas I can set it up. Whether or not she will actually go through with it or not remains to be seen.

Good luck. I think your doing it right.