Me and my wife are in a bit of a pickle right now, cause we booth get extremely eroused by the thought of cuckolding and want to give it a try. But the problem is she tells me she needs something more to have sex with someone a simple meet and greet isn't enough for her. Wich is fine by me I would love to see her getting seduced it makes it eve nmore hot. But here comes the hard part we tried going online but the amount of dumb horny guys with no depth have made her ever more uninterested in doing it for real and she just went back to wanting to fantasise. Now we don't have any friend who would be an all right candidate for cuckoldry and these online dating sites are pretty much filled with guys who are "not doing it" for her. So my question is how would you think about finding the right guy. I thought about going to a resort hotel and maybe organically finding someone there but the place we like has 95% couples and we are only interested in a guy.
How to find the ideal bull who could be her first ?
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We were looking for a time. Tried a few younger guys but they turned out to be not up to much. After trial and error my wife ended up with a guy our age and one half her age. The older guy fucked her better but she just loved the younger guys massive cock, couldn’t leave it alone. Now she’s got older all that has stopped, real shame.
Hi! We are in a similar situation. We didn't even try online because we read about so many bad experiences here in the forum.
We are trying to approach now in real life, in pubs/bar.
Keep you posted!
Generally best way is to invest time in sites where there are a large number of serious and verfied people. Two that might work are SDC.com and Fetlife. Unfortunately WWTP is full of fantasists.
Well imo we've had both good and bad. Personally the best experience from the Internet would be other couples that also share/swap/play separately. My wife and I mainly play together but sometimes separately. When together we play the role the other couples seek. I'm more of breeder/dom/share where is my wife is bi/fdom and loves to be bred and donated. To many people on here don't actually play like they say and it's annoying because us real people struggle to find suitable friends. Rember(RESPECT COMFORTABILITY COMMUNICATION HONESTY) are the only way to play in this lifestyle.
Hello mezriczky! Meeting the right person doesn't always (in fact seldom) happen quickly once a couple decides to bring others into the relationship. Those of us lucky enough to be married to women who enjoy sex with other men can share our experiences with you here or in your private email but those experiences won't always be the cuckold obsessed bbc type stuff guys are obsessing over in here. Skim through the notes carefully and avoid any that seen too far out there - chances are it's bullshit. That said, this is a "fantasy" website so we can't be too critical of those focused on the deep cuck stuff, - but it gets 'kinda heavy at times. You are in good shape, as you and your wife are already openly discussing sharing her, but chances are the right guy will have to be her choice, not yours.
Just a suggestion - might not work for everyone. The workplace. Guys she's worked with for a while and whom she's at least thought about once in a while. If it's a typical company, some guys will have hit on your wife already - subtly or directly, and with a little luck, one of those approaches will have been from a guy she has at least some attraction to. It's a big jump to her having sex with him but it's how things can get started if she chooses to not blow the guy off and returns the gesture (probably best in a social setting outside of the workplace - too risky in the office). My wife found that it was easy to invite a guy to her hotel room at an industry convention (especially after a drink or two) or to our home for a drink, - subtly implying that more than just a drink was likely to happen.The guy she chose was her boss in one case.
Again, just my opinion (others here have more current experience): resorts and other travel offer couples like you two a relaxed and fun environment you can really enjoy! Just be sure you let her know anything goes. The resorts my wife and I stayed at were generally populated by couples leaving the guys limited opportunities to play with your wife. She did get laid once, at the Aruba Hilton, - it was a guy she met at the pool in the morning while I was ...... in. They hit it off. On the last day of our vacation there, she had him in our room while I was on the golf course in the afternoon. She told me about him before the time she had sex with him and I encouraged her to have sex with him. But he was from a Caribbean nation, and offered no opportunity for a repeat performance much to our dismay as we sweated out her late period. People in the resorts tend to be from places not local to where you live, so relationships are hard to sustain. Almost impossible, and too expensive for many.
Where are you from. what are your everyday interests. Sometimes your normal activities/contacts are tthe best places to find a regular extra. Or for the first time you could try a male ....... He will be experienced and know what you are looking for. A nice massage and exciting extras to follow.
Is a very good question, indeed! I imagine can be very difficult and would like to know what experienced couples and bulls have to say in this regard.
Hubby and I are in the same boat. Every local guy seems to be really immature, can't hold a conversation,only wants to do something that night or just isn't our type.
Ive always fancied my husband's brother, but we aren't around him enough to try and get that going.
Unfortunately all the men I've slept with before aren't really my type anymore with the exception of one older man. However I have no way to get ahold of him nor am I sure I want to go down that road. As big as he was and how breathless he would leave me he's extremely political and that's not my style lol.
My husband and I are going to try other avenues like social clubs or Facebook groups for other things and seeing if we can make friends who turn out to be more.
Best of luck!
Ive always fancied my husband's brother, but we aren't around him enough to try and get that going.
Unfortunately all the men I've slept with before aren't really my type anymore with the exception of one older man. However I have no way to get ahold of him nor am I sure I want to go down that road. As big as he was and how breathless he would leave me he's extremely political and that's not my style lol.
My husband and I are going to try other avenues like social clubs or Facebook groups for other things and seeing if we can make friends who turn out to be more.
Best of luck!
It can happen where, any time. Because my wife had shared her need (for another man in our bed with her) she was ready to seize the moment when it happened. I'm so glad I expressed how much I wanted it for the both of us. She ran into him the first time at the childcare place, dropping our kids off. He was doing the same thing. Two weeks later I stood in our bedroom door watching her in orgasm with him.
We are in hungary and very normal activities, we don't go out partiing or stuff like that we play video games hike, occasionally visit a resort hotel.
My wife needs a connection too.
My wife found him on her own. She was meeting him to play Pokémon Go. She liked him and after she heard my fantasy, she started looking at him differently.
She has picked all of her lovers and the ones that stay around for awhile, I get along with. In fact her main boyfriend is now my best friend.
My wife found him on her own. She was meeting him to play Pokémon Go. She liked him and after she heard my fantasy, she started looking at him differently.
She has picked all of her lovers and the ones that stay around for awhile, I get along with. In fact her main boyfriend is now my best friend.
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Have her go to local workout out place. Have pools sauna , weight rooms, all woman wear tight dexy outfits , plent6 men , she. An see bodies and ask them to spot her on bench even better on squats , ask one she likes to teach her. She gets great body , gets to see there personality , after a few weeks she Wil have all men she wants , and have gotten to know them . So she is. Comfortable. They know she is married bc she will have been honest and told them it's different , relationship , demi open . They won't care after hanging out it weightroom over month or more , they will just wanna fuck.
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