CONFUSED - GO FORWARD OR STEP BACK

[Hot4maturelady]

Hi Friends,
Its been 8 year since we married. we both are curious and actively engaged couple, love to try new things. its been 1 year or so when the idea of bringing someone into the relationship came to my mind. so I proposed her and she outright rejected and warned me not to think about it. but I could not leave the idea and still keep exploring. She always ready to try new thing till it is between us. Sometime I wonder I should keep trying and other time I think she is right we will regret trying this thing, I should drop the idea. What you say friends. anyone else on same page. Anyone here with the worst experience who can share.

 

[Hwcouple702]

Hi Friends,
Its been 8 year since we married. we both are curious and actively engaged couple, love to try new things. its been 1 year or so when the idea of bringing someone into the relationship came to my mind. so I proposed her and she outright rejected and warned me not to think about it. but I could not leave the idea and still keep exploring. She always ready to try new thing till it is between us. though I have shared her pic here with her permission, she sometime get involved in chatting to stranger but only while I accompany her and for the shake of me. Sometime I wonder I should keep trying and other time I think she is right we will regret trying this thing, I should drop the idea. What you say friends. anyone else on same page. Anyone here with the worst experience who can share.

Well it's not about you, so why do you "accompany her" when she's going out talking with strangers. That puts a huge damper on how she feels she can behave. Leave her alone to chat with other guys and encourage it.

HW

 

[Snoopsissy]

Hi Friends,
Its been 8 year since we married. we both are curious and actively engaged couple, love to try new things. its been 1 year or so when the idea of bringing someone into the relationship came to my mind. so I proposed her and she outright rejected and warned me not to think about it. but I could not leave the idea and still keep exploring. She always ready to try new thing till it is between us. though I have shared her pic here with her permission, she sometime get involved in chatting to stranger but only while I accompany her and for the shake of me. Sometime I wonder I should keep trying and other time I think she is right we will regret trying this thing, I should drop the idea. What you say friends. anyone else on same page. Anyone here with the worst experience who can share.

You sound in a similar situation to myself to us , my wife knows of my desire to share her , this has led to a few heated arguements as like your wife she is happy to try new things but only as she puts it - between man and wife - I might be a semi cuck in as much mostly when we are intimate I love to watch her dildo and vibe herself - tried various avenues to get her interested in other men , chatting to ex co workers -( one has fucked her before we met ) , to dirty talk during sex , trying to get her to watch a cuckold themed film , telling her on a night out about a guy checking her out etc but nothing seems to spark the slightest interest from my wife apart from she looked up the definition of cuckold on her phone which seemed to confirm her lack of desire to even try it - why would any husband want another man to have his wife and I need therapy or councelling is the usual answers - so like you.I go around in circles - do I try again or give up ??

 

[Hot4maturelady]

You sound in a similar situation to myself to us , my wife knows of my desire to share her , this has led to a few heated arguements as like your wife she is happy to try new things but only as she puts it - between man and wife - I might be a semi cuck in as much mostly when we are intimate I love to watch her dildo and vibe herself - tried various avenues to get her interested in other men , chatting to ex co workers -( one has fucked her before we met ) , to dirty talk during sex , trying to get her to watch a cuckold themed film , telling her on a night out about a guy checking her out etc but nothing seems to spark the slightest interest from my wife apart from she looked up the definition of cuckold on her phone which seemed to confirm her lack of desire to even try it - why would any husband want another man to have his wife and I need therapy or councelling is the usual answers - so like you.I go around in circles - do I try again or give up ??

Any Progress till Date. Or still in same page

 

[Snoopsissy]

Well not entirely sure , but background - a couple of her male ex work colleagues used to phone her to see how she was doing etc and invariably something dirty would be said or a double meaning - to which she did this sort of dirty laugh in return then a pause before conversation resumed or ended - went to bed early other night and was awoken by my wife really laughing away - her ex husbands brother was on the phone - he going through a hard time so she giving moral and friendly support ?? Or is it - a couple of times he has phoned and I’ve been there - and the same dirty laugh / break in convo has appeared - he always telling her how good she looks etc - so that has got me thinking so I tested the water with a text - I’ll enclose my test and her reply , she is white , I’m green - she has fucked her sisters fiancé so maybe she has fucked her husbsnds brother too - really sorry it’s so long , also we haven’t been intimate whatsoever for around 4-5 weeks now but that’s unconnected - how is your situation ??😀

 

[Snoopsissy]

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[Hot4maturelady]

Well not entirely sure , but background - a couple of her male ex work colleagues used to phone her to see how she was doing etc and invariably something dirty would be said or a double meaning - to which she did this sort of dirty laugh in return then a pause before conversation resumed or ended - went to bed early other night and was awoken by my wife really laughing away - her ex husbands brother was on the phone - he going through a hard time so she giving moral and friendly support ?? Or is it - a couple of times he has phoned and I’ve been there - and the same dirty laugh / break in convo has appeared - he always telling her how good she looks etc - so that has got me thinking so I tested the water with a text - I’ll enclose my test and her reply , she is white , I’m green - she has fucked her sisters fiancé so maybe she has fucked her husbsnds brother too - really sorry it’s so long , also we haven’t been intimate whatsoever for around 4-5 weeks now but that’s unconnected - how is your situation ??😀

I have disclosed all my chat to her which she responded nothing. Though she has no interest in it but If i want she wouldn’t say anything. She had tried to make me understand a lot but if she has failed than She is neutral about this though she prefers adventure between us. She is not going to initiate for sure

 

[Snoopsissy]

Yes I know what you mean , mines would never initiate either but I always have the feeling something is happening and don’t think I’m reading too much or wanting to read too much into the situations , mines never brings up sex or any interest in s particular thing - she has never masturbated or watched porn and professes to not know what even turns her on ! - where does one go with that ? 😕everything we try is always my suggestion and it’s growing really tiresome and as such it’s always me that’s the pervert / sick guy 😕

 

[highwayman420]

I have yet to get my wife to be a hotwife as well, she has said before she isn't interested in other men. Yet...she loves fucking her bbc toys and has me "strap on" them to fuck her hard, while she screams his name. Yes..she names the toys. I suggest you try that approach and see how she reacts. But lay off the real deal until she is ready or you will drive her away all together.

 

[Hot4maturelady]

I have yet to get my wife to be a hotwife as well, she has said before she isn't interested in other men. Yet...she loves fucking her bbc toys and has me "strap on" them to fuck her hard, while she screams his name. Yes..she names the toys. I suggest you try that approach and see how she reacts. But lay off the real deal until she is ready or you will drive her away all together.

I do purchased a strap on to surprise her. Though it was not a Black in colour but was almost of size of BBC. We used it for 2-3 times it was not quite good material. But she enjoyed it. Now she asked to purchase a good silicone Toy. I am searching for one but the issue is here in India sex toys are sold in Black market hence quite expensive and there is no teat or return policy about them.

 

[highwayman420]

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[Hot4maturelady]

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Do u have a pic of that

 

[Snoopsissy]

I have yet to get my wife to be a hotwife as well, she has said before she isn't interested in other men. Yet...she loves fucking her bbc toys and has me "strap on" them to fuck her hard, while she screams his name. Yes..she names the toys. I suggest you try that approach and see how she reacts. But lay off the real deal until she is ready or you will drive her away all together.

Tried that ages ago , we have long vibe and machine sessions along with me licking her and giving her my real dick - I suggested naming the machine dildo but with the usual non commital response from my wife . I approached it with my usual non judgemental easy going it’s just a bit of fun attitude not trying to pin her down or connect her to any name she might give it ( in my mind I’m ready to join the pieces however lol ) but still nothing forthcoming with why is it important to name it , so we go around in circles as I can’t say it would be fun to name it as a fantasy - I’ve been told she does not fantasise about anything before / during / foreplay / actual sex bit there she is legs spread wide getting the ...... pounded out of her by the machine with a massive end on it at ramming speed ???

 

[highwayman420]

Do u have a pic of that

 

[highwayman420]

Tried that ages ago , we have long vibe and machine sessions along with me licking her and giving her my real dick - I suggested naming the machine dildo but with the usual non commital response from my wife . I approached it with my usual non judgemental easy going it’s just a bit of fun attitude not trying to pin her down or connect her to any name she might give it ( in my mind I’m ready to join the pieces however lol ) but still nothing forthcoming with why is it important to name it , so we go around in circles as I can’t say it would be fun to name it as a fantasy - I’ve been told she does not fantasise about anything before / during / foreplay / actual sex bit there she is legs spread wide getting the ...... pounded out of her by the machine with a massive end on it at ramming speed ???

ya just take what she gives you and remember this lifestyle is about her. So let her be the guide to how fast you go. I want nothing more than real life bbc to fill her up but she's not ready yet. I continue the routine and take baby steps forward, like naming "him" and screaming his name when she cums. Stuff like that. Just don't push it or she'll shut down.

 

[Hot4maturelady]

 

[highwayman420]

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[Hot4maturelady]

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