Next steps for wife

Puede funcionar ir a tomar una copa y bailar con otro, el hombre debe de ser buen bailarín y varonil, ella empezará a soltarse de no estar solo en manos de su marido ( la salsa funciona muy bien)
 
Ok she loves fucking with the dildos and she now talking openly about other guys to me. She told me she like how I react to it.

However when i bring up the fact she may want to go for it she just says that is weird and shuts down.

Seems to me she wants to do it but still afraid to talk about it.
Have a look at this web site with her:
She may relate to a lot of what is on here.
 
1000% right on... at least for me and my hubby.
For me, i needed the independent book challenges and instructions- not coming from my hubby but from a woman therapist..... it became a kinky game. And now I'm a hotwife with a cuckold hubby.... who has a little male chastity in his future. Lol
Wow, does he know or suspect you are going to lock his cock while you fuck in front of him?? U will have to give him a promise of eXcitement, id think.
 
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What worked for us? Same as you, long time married but in a vanilla relationship, but I had this burning fantasy of my wife fucking other well hung guys. Wasn't going to happen until we stumbled upon role-playing my wife being a hot wife, me the cuck, and also me the bull sometimes.
If she is OK with playing with realistic didlos in front mom you you are already half way there.
Someone here suggested this book called THE FAITHFUL HOTWIFE from Amazon and it really got things going. It's full of fun challenges for your wife and you to perform so it's more like a game for her so there is no pressure on her.
Let me know how it goes.
Anyone else using this book?
we were searching around for an introduction to the hot wife lifestyle, and you are the 4th person to mention this book, and we are with you. it's been a fun read. where you located? dm us to compare notes - wife to wife, hub to hub, or couple to couple. xx
 
He bought me the book last year that introduced me to exploring the hw life, so I bought him a book so we can explore his chastity future.
We already bought him his stainless cage.
I'm followng you (not stalking you) and want to know more about how you are preparing your hub to accept wearing a cage. I think that is so hot.
 
What worked for us? Same as you, long time married but in a vanilla relationship, but I had this burning fantasy of my wife fucking other well hung guys. Wasn't going to happen until we stumbled upon role-playing my wife being a hot wife, me the cuck, and also me the bull sometimes.
If she is OK with playing with realistic didlos in front mom you you are already half way there.
Someone here suggested this book called THE FAITHFUL HOTWIFE from Amazon and it really got things going. It's full of fun challenges for your wife and you to perform so it's more like a game for her so there is no pressure on her.
Let me know how it goes.
Anyone else using this book?
I NEED THIS BOOK, can you tell me who the author is? I didnt see it on amazon but might have not looked in the right place.
 
I would also try nude beaches.

Letting her watch threesome, gangbang and dp porn while eat her pussy and ass and talking about this worked very well for us. One night when I confessed about cuckolding when she was very hot she just openly started to talk about her women dreams desiring multiple men fucking her pussy and ass at once. Then we started with her having yoni massages in salon and recently she had 15y yonger guy fucking her ass in hotel for the first time in our 20 years marriage! After a few years of talking, me showing my support, showing how I like it, wife became very open without hesitation of her women's nature which is cuckolding!
 
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Update. I brought a few new realistic dildo's and she took to them with no issues. Grabbed them without any hesitation. She is also hornier than ever and want me to jump her a few times a day . Not complaining but it almost too much sex at this point.

Usually I just surprise her when I want to try new things she is always into it. I think she enjoys me taking charge. The joking part tells she wants the same thing. The issue I am having is she doesn't want to talk about fantasies when she isn't in the middle of sex.

She comes from a very conservative and religious background so I think she just shy.
She goes from shy wife to sex 4 or 5 times a day from being reluctant to wanting you to use your big dildos on her,
She is cheating on you,or at least thinking about it,
Someone has attracted her attention and he is pushing her buttons she wants sex with him if she is not already getting it,
You my friend could well be a cuckold husband, you just don't know it yet,👍
 
She goes from shy wife to sex 4 or 5 times a day from being reluctant to wanting you to use your big dildos on her,
She is cheating on you,or at least thinking about it,
Someone has attracted her attention and he is pushing her buttons she wants sex with him if she is not already getting it,
You my friend could well be a cuckold husband, you just don't know it yet,👍

It hasn't been an instant thing it being a slow progression over many months. Big Difference pretty sure she isn't seeing anyone else at this point as I get a lot attention. I do think though she has opened up and if I don't give attention then it may happen.
 
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It hasn't been an instant thing it being a slow progression over many months. Big Difference pretty sure she isn't seeing anyone else at this point as I get a lot attention. I do think though she has opened up and if I don't give attention then it may happen.
Sometimes the more they get the more they want, and the upsurge of her giving you so much attention could well be guilt, maybe maybe not but you have to be aware of it,👍
 
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If she's asking for sex multiple times a day, here's your opportunity to tell her how much it turns you on that she's become so sexual and that she's almost too much for one man to handle. Don't complain or whine about it. Do it a a funny/friendly kind of way. Let her know that you wouldn't mind handing off some of the duties to a real man that can unleash her libido even further. Just put it in her mind that another man would be condoned by you and might amp up the play even more.
 
When mine is with a guy, she wants it all time after. She is constantly horny.
That being said some women will never actually do other men. There is a difference in us all. Some women fell it make them a slut and think it's a bad thing. Set her down and talk to her. Ask her what her hang ups are with it. Talk talk talk. Have to be open about everything. She needs to know that it isn't going to be an issue. She needs to except it and it has to be on her terms
 
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When mine is with a guy, she wants it all time after. She is constantly horny.
That being said some women will never actually do other men. There is a difference in us all. Some women fell it make them a slut and think it's a bad thing. Set her down and talk to her. Ask her what her hang ups are with it. Talk talk talk. Have to be open about everything. She needs to know that it isn't going to be an issue. She needs to except it and it has to be on her terms
Role-play is a great way to have your cake and eat it too. I love role playing being a hot wife with my hubby getting to be the bull, or taking 1 or 2 dildos while he watches.
 
We been Married 20 years I was ny wife first and only lover. Very Vanillia wife. Over the years I been wanting her to open up. I don;t know why but I want her to try other men. I just want her to let loose and go wild.

Over the years I defiantly go her more into things. She openly jokes about sleeping with other guys. if I push her a bit she covers it up as just a joke. We never get into a serious conversation to actually talk about it.

About 2 years ago I started buying vibrators for her. She was much more accepting but she was shy. I started to buy bigger ones but she was not comfortable using them However last week she ask me to use them for the first time and just let loose with it.

I think watching porn would be a good next step but she is super shy when ever I watch it. I haven't pushed watching but wonder if this would be a good next step.

My goal is watch her fuck other guys and have a MFM with her and really not sure how to bring this up since she still pretty shy.
i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding. now, if your wife is leading the charge and dropping hints about sharing herself, then this is not for you. this is when you are the cuckold wannabe.



first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.



if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.



1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.



2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.



this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.



3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).



this was one of the methods i used on my wife......











my mrs loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).



so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.



about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.



about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!!



with this i knew i was doing the right things.



10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.



after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.



she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was enjoyable to watch her too.



so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.



we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.



as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.





secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. and do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or theres something behind the compliments.



send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family.



this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.



i honestly did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.

dan
 
August 2024, Hello wantabe cuckold(s). I am Robbie in Norman, Oklahoma, a bimale with a nice c*ck and nice tits.

If you want her to fuck other cocks then after you fuck her - start licking her pussy clean - do this every time you fuck her then after the 10th time - while you are licking her pussy - I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. It is all about pleasing you not my cock. I am OK being a sissy cuckold.

I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.

Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.

Email me back (robbiewillsucku at gm ail) and tell me how she responded and what you are doing now to please her.