For my wife and I, playing with a co-worker and/or the boss was the way to go. She knew these men well, as they all worked for the same company and she had a chance to be involved in training situations involving travel with a co-worker she found very attractive and sexy. It's a big company, and is involved in statewide operations and national operations. We had some deep discussions about the need to preserve our marriage and how we'd protect it if she were to play. You also have to discuss contraception and whether or not your wife will use it. If not, what is the plan?
Traveling with a lover puts the wife and lover in close contact on a frequent basis and as could be expected, feelings did develop and they were having frequent sex. When my wife returned home Friday each week, we'd debrief and have awesome sex. All weekend long. This wasn't a threat to our marriage, but did impact the coworker's relationship with his wife. Although his wife knew he was having regular sex with my wife, she was good with it and we even discussed it (all four of us) after dinner at a company event. She was just afraid my wife would get PG, how would we handle it and so on, but that never happened as the newness of the relationship wore off and we were more careful. Later, the lover's wife was a bit uncomfortable with the amount of time her husband was spending with my wife and we all decided to cool it for a while. It was also at that time that their work assignments changed and it wasn't possible for them to travel together any more. We finally broke it off by mutual agreement after about 3 1/2 years. Cordially. They got together a couple more times but that was about it.
Later, my wife was promoted into a position that made it opportune for her to travel with her boss. Having a relationship with a married boss isn't for everyone, and it wouldn't work for most people, I'd think. The division office was in the same city we live in, and the company maintained a hotel room at a well known hotel for visiting executives - that is where my wife and her boss most often had sex. Because of that hotel room, my wife still came home every night. The boss's wife had health issues and didn't have sex with him any more. She told him to find a girlfriend for sex, - just don't rub it in her face. So, he did.
My wife was ready for his advances. It wasn't a secret at her work, and it was somewhat embarrassing when I had to go to company dinners with her. It wasn't much of a problem at home, as our early teen girls (two of them) understood her job involved night work and travel. Most of the sex between them was in the company hotel room after work, and my wife was home every night. He was only in our marital bed a couple of times with her when the girls were with their bio dad for the weekend or a week during the summer. They did travel together, however, but we knew about those trips in advance and could plan for them. When out of state traveling, her boss would always get her her own hotel room even though she slept with him in his room. It's much better for the wife to take some phone calls in her own room and to be in her own room if people are visiting the boss in his room. Have to be careful!
There's never enough time for anything these days, and so what I'd pass along to cuck4life is that assuming your relationship with your wife is strong, and you both want your wife to enjoy other men, assume you'll have much less of your wife's time and she'll be gone at times when you'd really like to have her home. Your sex life with your wife will probably improve as both you and her will be horny as hell when she returns, but you won't always be able to take advantage of that if your kids are home. You may have to wait or not be able to enjoy your wife at all! 🙂 You will have to play a broader role in your household as far as getting things done. And your wife may be frustrated and cranky because her lover has family events and issues he needs to deal with so isn't available to your wife. How did the end of the relationship come about? We were lucky in that the relationship ended when the boss was transferred to a national position far from where we lived. There was no tearful breakup. My wife visited him a couple of weekends, but the relationship was over for all intents and purposes and we all knew it.
Hope this helps!