Hey there, I been thinking a lot about your original post and the comments, As a wife of a great husband who shares me with others I have many mixed feelings about your post. I'll share a few, first you were sharing her with other men, so why would you not think he would not talk about her to others. That seems to be a fact of life, I know we wish they did not but it is life, I agree it was kind of cheap shot to Invite you both and not telling you the idea was for men to hit on her, I defiently don't like that, unless I know up front what the party is about, but she did not stop his advances so she was expressing an openness or agreement to his advances, I totally get that part, I would be the same way, and then you say it excited you to know they were talking about her like a slut but you are upset they are calling her a slut, I for one I do not like to be called a slut or whore or prostitute, or easy fuck, I used to think the term hot wife was nice until I learned it was a wife cheating and a cuckold husband, which we are not, I thought It meant I was a hot or sexy wife of my husbands, so I can accept the term hotwife, although not a cuckold couple as I like to think I am sexy and men desire me and my man is willing to share me with them for fun, I really prefer to be called a sexy lady or hot lady, but I know how men think or talk and accept that I guess, I for one, love to be hit on at functions, I love the attention, and my man loves it as well, I normally do not wear panties when we are out, so if a man's hand gets that far up my dress, he will know I am available, as far as a guy asking me to his place, I'd have to be sure he understood we are a package deal my husband and I, as for the men we play with I doubt they would talk about me as an easy fuck, as we play as a couple almost always, the only exception is a guy we have known for a while, I may go with him alone once in a while but it is rare. Just some thoughts, but if it happened as you say, it is not really nice of the host to think your wife is like that, I agree with that part, but she did allow the hand on her panties, what is a guy to think. If your hand is on my panties or pussy for me it means I am willing to go further with you, Just my thoughts. Thanks for the thought provoking post.
Sue.