Why do you enjoy sharing your wife ?

Initially because she needed it. She used to be a part time escort in Hong Kong, Singapore and Manila and evidently enjoyed having loads of sex with different men. I realised after we were married that she changed, without the variety and, I learnt later, her role. After we found a number of guys whom she could serve I enjoyed it because of the stories she told me. It's become like a real life porn sit come. I really get off on her being a slut. Sometimes I watch and perhaps join in. I love watching and hearing her come as a guy uses her. But the biggest thrill, perversly, is knowing she has a separate sex life.
 
Initially because she needed it. She used to be a part time escort in Hong Kong, Singapore and Manila and evidently enjoyed having loads of sex with different men. I realised after we were married that she changed, without the variety and, I learnt later, her role. After we found a number of guys whom she could serve I enjoyed it because of the stories she told me. It's become like a real life porn sit come. I really get off on her being a slut. Sometimes I watch and perhaps join in. I love watching and hearing her come as a guy uses her. But the biggest thrill, perversly, is knowing she has a separate sex life.
Wow agree totally
 
Why do husbands - couples enjoy adding another guy ?
Please, there's no need to respond if you're fake, say you're "caged" 24/7 and your wife ONLY has sex with other guys, never with you-Thanks

We do this because it's fun. It's my wife and me having a friend visit, all of us getting naked, him and I enjoying sex with my wife while she enjoys the sex with us.
There's so many aspects that make it very exciting. It seems we are in the minority here as nothing humiliating happens, we always do this together.
I enjoy our fun (our friend agrees) because my wife gets VERY turned on and fucks us both like crazy. I like watching them, he likes watching us and she likes us watching. That's how we have our fun.

If your thing is having a hot black guy fuck the living hell out of your wife while you watch - I could easily relate to that as long you fuck her after.
If your deal is her going out and getting it on with another guy then comes home to you, sharing the details while she has sex with you, I understand.

Husbands, wives, couples or the extra guy feel free to respond.
We keep our fun very private, it's nice to share on here.
Thanks
I want others to jack off to her pic.and enjoy her beatiful body
 
Why do husbands - couples enjoy adding another guy ?
Please, there's no need to respond if you're fake, say you're "caged" 24/7 and your wife ONLY has sex with other guys, never with you-Thanks

We do this because it's fun. It's my wife and me having a friend visit, all of us getting naked, him and I enjoying sex with my wife while she enjoys the sex with us.
There's so many aspects that make it very exciting. It seems we are in the minority here as nothing humiliating happens, we always do this together.
I enjoy our fun (our friend agrees) because my wife gets VERY turned on and fucks us both like crazy. I like watching them, he likes watching us and she likes us watching. That's how we have our fun.

If your thing is having a hot black guy fuck the living hell out of your wife while you watch - I could easily relate to that as long you fuck her after.
If your deal is her going out and getting it on with another guy then comes home to you, sharing the details while she has sex with you, I understand.

Husbands, wives, couples or the extra guy feel free to respond.
We keep our fun very private, it's nice to share on here.
Thanks
There’s quite a few reasons on my end, some internal, some external.

Personally, I became frustrated early on with sex and my inability to provide my partner the elusive orgasm. I had a handful of partners prior to my wife and never gave one with exception of oral sex.

Meeting my wife made me feel like I was in a different world. The first time we had sex she used toys and other things I’d never been subjected to. Pretty early on she encouraged me to use her dildos on her. The bigger they were the more I noticed how differently she moaned, moved her hips, and actually orgasmed. One night she talked about how the dildo I was using reminded her of this guy who used her as a booty call and who could barely fit inside of her. From there forward, especially when we had too much to drink, I’d rub her and toy her while encouraging her to tell me about the guys she gave her pussy, ass, and mouth to.

That build up moved us in the direction we ended up in. She’s picky but that’s led to some amazing experiences. I feel empowered when I see another man have sex with my wife. It makes me feel good when they make her cum through sex knowing I’m unable to provide that. She’s very open to how she feels good when she gives what she has up to a guy and it’s easy to see.

Last thing deals with something I’ve learned to enjoy and that’s having sex with my wife after another man has had sex with her, specifically after someone we trust has gone bareback and cum in her.
 
There’s quite a few reasons on my end, some internal, some external.

Personally, I became frustrated early on with sex and my inability to provide my partner the elusive orgasm. I had a handful of partners prior to my wife and never gave one with exception of oral sex.

Meeting my wife made me feel like I was in a different world. The first time we had sex she used toys and other things I’d never been subjected to. Pretty early on she encouraged me to use her dildos on her. The bigger they were the more I noticed how differently she moaned, moved her hips, and actually orgasmed. One night she talked about how the dildo I was using reminded her of this guy who used her as a booty call and who could barely fit inside of her. From there forward, especially when we had too much to drink, I’d rub her and toy her while encouraging her to tell me about the guys she gave her pussy, ass, and mouth to.

That build up moved us in the direction we ended up in. She’s picky but that’s led to some amazing experiences. I feel empowered when I see another man have sex with my wife. It makes me feel good when they make her cum through sex knowing I’m unable to provide that. She’s very open to how she feels good when she gives what she has up to a guy and it’s easy to see.

Last thing deals with something I’ve learned to enjoy and that’s having sex with my wife after another man has had sex with her, specifically after someone we trust has gone bareback and cum in her.
Great points..!
 
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I get turned on by the humiliation and jealousy. I love watching her with a dominant man. Especially older ones. I love it when they hold her head with his cock in her mouth. Ordering my wife to suck his balls and she happily obliges. Then he gives me a domineering look as if to say look what your wife is doing for me cuck . Watching him take her to get off. She enjoys it too she loves to submit to it. She looks in my eyes and we make eye contact while he is in her. I love listening to him cum in her.
 
That build up moved us in the direction we ended up in. She’s picky but that’s led to some amazing experiences. I feel empowered when I see another man have sex with my wife. It makes me feel good when they make her cum through sex knowing I’m unable to provide that. She’s very open to how she feels good when she gives what she has up to a guy and it’s easy to see.

Last thing deals with something I’ve learned to enjoy and that’s having sex with my wife after another man has had sex with her, specifically after someone we trust has gone bareback and cum in her.
We are very conservative and "normal". We enjoy sex fun with a guy we see regularly. It's not cuckold at all. I'd call it having a 2nd guy in our bed for a few hours. My normally primm and proper wife gets REALLY turned on and fucks us both till we're beat. It's incredibly exciting for all of us.
 
We are very conservative and "normal". We enjoy sex fun with a guy we see regularly. It's not cuckold at all. I'd call it having a 2nd guy in our bed for a few hours. My normally primm and proper wife gets REALLY turned on and fucks us both till we're beat. It's incredibly exciting for all of us.
A very good point, I think most women in the swinging or sharing lifestyle have that ability to fuck more than one man into submission, or completeness, My wife will get up sometimes and laugh in a joking or sarcastic way, at me and one or two other men spent on the bed as she gets up to refresh herself. That is when you know you have had sex with a great woman.
 
We are very conservative and "normal". We enjoy sex fun with a guy we see regularly. It's not cuckold at all. I'd call it having a 2nd guy in our bed for a few hours. My normally primm and proper wife gets REALLY turned on and fucks us both till we're beat. It's incredibly exciting for all of us.
We have a friendly couple in our lives who are a mirror of what you described.

We have evolved into a cuckold couple ourselves but appreciate all forms of alternative lifestyles.
 
For me the experience in this life style has been awesome, but it is definitely not for every husband. One of many social norms is that a wife can only have sex with her husband. That her body is sacred and for lack of a better way to put it his and forbidden to other men. In my opinion this social construct is one of the many reasons seeing my wife have sex with other men is so hot. She is supposed to be off limits to other men and both my acceptance and arousal in seeing her with them goes against this social and cultural norm. Like many in the lifestyle at first I had apprehension and insecurities that I had to overcome. Although those feeling have disappeared long ago I still get the thrill in the pit of my stomach when seeing the wife with another men.

Having a sexually confident and open minded wife has led to some erotic and sensual times. I have seen her pussy red, swollen, and gaping open with some other man’s cum dripping out of it. I have watched her face as she sucked another man’s cock and then she looks up at me right when he cums, opening her mouth so I can see that first squirt of cum before she closes her lips around his cock catching all of it. I have seen and heard her have not just cums, but multiple toe curling orgasms with other men.

I enjoyed everything she has done with other men but there are some things that give me more of a thrill than others. At the top of the list is having her after them. It is hard to explain but there is the mental aspect knowing your wife was just with another man. I find it very erotic sharing her with other men who use her for their pleasure. Then there is the “reclaiming” her aspect. After our adventures it is just the two of us again and we reconnect solidifying or intimacy with one another. This is a primary reason that has made our open marriage so successful.

I could go on and on but don’t want to turn this in to a novel, which would be easy…lol.
 
For me the experience in this life style has been awesome, but it is definitely not for every husband. One of many social norms is that a wife can only have sex with her husband. That her body is sacred and for lack of a better way to put it his and forbidden to other men. In my opinion this social construct is one of the many reasons seeing my wife have sex with other men is so hot. She is supposed to be off limits to other men and both my acceptance and arousal in seeing her with them goes against this social and cultural norm. Like many in the lifestyle at first I had apprehension and insecurities that I had to overcome. Although those feeling have disappeared long ago I still get the thrill in the pit of my stomach when seeing the wife with another men.

Having a sexually confident and open minded wife has led to some erotic and sensual times. I have seen her pussy red, swollen, and gaping open with some other man’s cum dripping out of it. I have watched her face as she sucked another man’s cock and then she looks up at me right when he cums, opening her mouth so I can see that first squirt of cum before she closes her lips around his cock catching all of it. I have seen and heard her have not just cums, but multiple toe curling orgasms with other men.

I enjoyed everything she has done with other men but there are some things that give me more of a thrill than others. At the top of the list is having her after them. It is hard to explain but there is the mental aspect knowing your wife was just with another man. I find it very erotic sharing her with other men who use her for their pleasure. Then there is the “reclaiming” her aspect. After our adventures it is just the two of us again and we reconnect solidifying or intimacy with one another. This is a primary reason that has made our open marriage so successful.

I could go on and on but don’t want to turn this in to a novel, which would be easy…lol.
Beautifully said..
 
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My wife is what you would call a professional through and through, A-Grade student that went on to be amazing at her job, on top of that, works hard to keep her body fit, dresses to impress, and generally tries her best to always be her most attractive self.

However, being this "perfect" girl that rarely make mistakes also give off the image that she's a bit stuck up and will never do anything out of the ordinary. So soon after our marriage, I started having this fantasy of wanting to see her lose control. I wanted to see her features uncomposed, her body reacting in ways she's not used to, making noises that's not expected from a "good" wife, and just giving in to what her body wants.
 
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I’d say it’s because it turns me on knowing that other men find my wife is gorgeous and sexy just like I do, it reminds me I am a lucky man to have a wife that’s so hot, that other men would love to fuck. And also, I know it turns her on when I watch, and I love to see her enjoying herself and satisfied. Seeing her turned on, turns me on.
 
Hey Sean and Jennifer here. We share because it supercharges our sex life. After our encounter, our desire for each other borders on insatiable. For several weeks after we will continue to have sex daily, We will also kiss, stroke and finger each other throughout the day. Second is the search leading up to our encounter. The looking for our next bedroom guest, the dildo threesomes prepping Jennifer for the encounter, the shaving of her pussy the day before we meet. Also the event itself of seeing Jennifer take another man's cock seeing the pleasure she gets from it and seeing his pleasure in fucking my wife all make us want to do it again and again.
Couldn't of said it any better. The pleasure in her face amd hearing her moans/grunts.....super hot
 
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It's hard to narrow it down to one single reason. The jealousy, the thought of the risk of knowing he could ultimately take her from me. The knowledge that his face, fingers and cock all smell like her p*ssy.

The shame and humiliation associated with knowing the other guy knows he's turning my wife on right in front of me and knows she craves sex with him over me. The knowledge that he knows her p*ssy belongs to him. Ssurrendering her to him is what I'm addicted to. I ljust love being a cuck.

I love being a beta. She and him are both alphas. They control the fantasy, they control me. I get off on them doing whatever they want with each other.