1,2,3,8,9 for us. #3 seems to be our favorite and best experiences. We also add a female occasionally but we both prefer an extra male, way less drama, feelings and emotions.
I'm so glad to see this chart of the various preferences of cuckolds. I'm #2 and #8.The types of cuckolds.....which are you?
I would agree totally! I love the thought of her enjoying another man's (preferably bigger) cock. I can get myself off just from fantasizing the lusty look on her face as she cums from another man fucking her.Easy question - difficult answer
1st reason - I enjoy her enjoyment
2nd reason - I enjoy her enjoyment
3rd - refer to reason 1 or 2
Think compersion
On another note there are times I'd rather watch her fuck another guy then fuck me.
Last and not least 'if one needs to ask they wouldn't understand'
I couldn’t put it in a better way ,that was masterly explained as if you described myself , Well put.There's so much to this question, and not a single answer. Obviously everyone's experience is going to vary, but for me there are a few things that really stand out.
Lust - My wife is my favorite person in the world to have sex with. I've always adored her body, but watching from the outside and seeing how it responds to someone else gives me a whole new appreciation for how sexy she is!
Pride - I've always loved when other guys openly check her out or hit on her, even before I ever discovered my cuckolding fetish. Knowing that other guys look at my wife and lust after her is great! Not even so much as an ego boost for me as for her, but getting outside validation that the woman I love is as sexy as I think she is is wonderful too. I've had guys send me videos of them stroking and cumming to her naked photos, and I always end up stroking to them stroking.
Insecurity- Maybe not an entirely healthy aspect, but I can't deny that it's a part. Knowing that she's fucking someone else triggers a very deep-seated fear of being replaced. It's not logical. My wife and I have great sex, and we have a solid relationship that goes far beyond just the bedroom so I know in my head that she isn't going to leave, but I have a history of getting cheated on, and that's created a definite vulnerability. Dancing around the thing that's caused me so much pain in the past is an extremely intense thing, and I suspect that viewing it through the lens of arousal instead of fear is a coping mechanism. This has become less of a factor over time, but it's still there. It used to be that I had to not cum until the end, as the loss of arousal was like my shields going down. I still prefer to hold off, but now it's because my arousal enhances my enjoyment of the experience.
Fantasy - My wife only fucks people she knows well, and has zero interest in strangers. This is hands down my biggest unfulfilled fantasy! I have little doubt that if she tried it she'd get hooked, but it's her body and her call. The thought of her fucking strangers, and especially in a public or gang bang situation, never fails to get me hard as a rock and I think I know why that's the case for me and for a lot of other cuckolds. I knew my wife for over a year before anything sexual happened between us. We grew together gradually, I courted her, and we enjoyed countless hours together before I even got to see her naked. The idea of her getting naked with complete strangers and giving full access to her body to random men whose names she doesn't even know, is the most erotic thing I can imagine! I can't fully explain it, but the idea that I had to invest so much time and energy before being granted access to her most intimate pleasures, but that other men could get that same physical intimacy with the woman I married- the intimacy that society says should be reserved only for her husband- just by showing up and fucking her... that's heady stuff. In a way I suppose it feels like the intense arousal stems from a perception that it cheapens the value of my efforts and cheapens my own value in the process. That's odd though, because I don't think I really get off on the humiliation aspect of cuckolding. Maybe I actually do!
My wife absolutely loved fucking men she didn’t know at all. She experienced a great excitement and I suppose the thought of never have to worry about kiss and tell escalated that feeling. I absolutely loved it and it excited me tremendously when a big Dick penetrated her for the first time although she did have her regular fuck buddies to keep her happy , I m one of them😜There's so much to this question, and not a single answer. Obviously everyone's experience is going to vary, but for me there are a few things that really stand out.
Lust - My wife is my favorite person in the world to have sex with. I've always adored her body, but watching from the outside and seeing how it responds to someone else gives me a whole new appreciation for how sexy she is!
Pride - I've always loved when other guys openly check her out or hit on her, even before I ever discovered my cuckolding fetish. Knowing that other guys look at my wife and lust after her is great! Not even so much as an ego boost for me as for her, but getting outside validation that the woman I love is as sexy as I think she is is wonderful too. I've had guys send me videos of them stroking and cumming to her naked photos, and I always end up stroking to them stroking.
Insecurity- Maybe not an entirely healthy aspect, but I can't deny that it's a part. Knowing that she's fucking someone else triggers a very deep-seated fear of being replaced. It's not logical. My wife and I have great sex, and we have a solid relationship that goes far beyond just the bedroom so I know in my head that she isn't going to leave, but I have a history of getting cheated on, and that's created a definite vulnerability. Dancing around the thing that's caused me so much pain in the past is an extremely intense thing, and I suspect that viewing it through the lens of arousal instead of fear is a coping mechanism. This has become less of a factor over time, but it's still there. It used to be that I had to not cum until the end, as the loss of arousal was like my shields going down. I still prefer to hold off, but now it's because my arousal enhances my enjoyment of the experience.
Fantasy - My wife only fucks people she knows well, and has zero interest in strangers. This is hands down my biggest unfulfilled fantasy! I have little doubt that if she tried it she'd get hooked, but it's her body and her call. The thought of her fucking strangers, and especially in a public or gang bang situation, never fails to get me hard as a rock and I think I know why that's the case for me and for a lot of other cuckolds. I knew my wife for over a year before anything sexual happened between us. We grew together gradually, I courted her, and we enjoyed countless hours together before I even got to see her naked. The idea of her getting naked with complete strangers and giving full access to her body to random men whose names she doesn't even know, is the most erotic thing I can imagine! I can't fully explain it, but the idea that I had to invest so much time and energy before being granted access to her most intimate pleasures, but that other men could get that same physical intimacy with the woman I married- the intimacy that society says should be reserved only for her husband- just by showing up and fucking her... that's heady stuff. In a way I suppose it feels like the intense arousal stems from a perception that it cheapens the value of my efforts and cheapens my own value in the process. That's odd though, because I don't think I really get off on the humiliation aspect of cuckolding. Maybe I actually do!
Amazing what self confidence a few different dicks can give a woman, my wife changed from a very reserved person to a self assured woman who love attention extracting and tasting cum from multiple partners and don’t know of a single time she refused a good fuck. An erect penis was definitely her weak spot.I feel in love accidentally with my wife--she was 12/almost 13 yrs older than I & very overweight--the complete opposite of girls I normally dated at the time-- but her personality drew me in & the sex was Great-- She had not tried much variation in her sex life ---but we could & did talk about everything & anything--& most importantly--she had an Open mind & actually Wanted to explore different things-- I had already had experience swinging ect-she wanted to at least try it-- so I didn't have the jealousy thing going on-- We tried it & then she was reading everything about open marriages she could get her hands on-- & we would Try new things--I think--she loved the fact that even though she was Fat--she could make men desire her (being fat there is a lot of discrimination in life) & I was just Sooo Proud of her learning how to get past the insecurities & actually make an effort to learn more about sex & sexuality-- being Obese & being in high demand for sex just was such a turn on for me--She was my Porn star--& she like being the center of attention-- We really were a perfect match-
What a wonderful arrangement and mutual understanding People who find it hard to believe are the ones that lack the experience. Our experiences will sound impossible that one woman would do all those things.Only thing she don’t do is anal . I experienced that from a fuck buddys wife , was quite good .My wife would describe it the same, exact, way.
Two nights ago, I got back, late, from out-of-town. I'm an airline pilot, so I'm gone a lot. As I walked into the bedroom my wife was in bed with her bf. She was on top, riding him. She turned to me, smiled and said "welcome home, honey." I walked over to her, gave her a kiss, then gave her bf a kiss on the forehead. I was able to do this without the two of them missing a single beat in their motion.
Believe it, or not, this was no surprise to me. My wife had texted me, earlier in the day, and told me that her bf would probably be at the house when I arrived. She, and her bf, know I love coming home to this type of greeting.
I set my bags in my closet, stripped naked and went back into the bedroom. By this time, they were doggie style and my wife's bf was pummeling her with his thick, 10" cock. As I got in bed with them, she sucked my 6" cock a little bit, but her bf was fucking her too hard for her to continue sucking mine.
After a while, he finally came in my wife and treated me with a bed-time snack. After I cleaned them both, the three of us curled up in bed together.
Many people find this hard to believe, but this truly is the life my wife and I have. I love it and so does she.
So, the KINK is watching her getting pounded by another guy..hearing moaning gets you off....I got into this through swinging with my first wife when I discovered I got far more turned on watching her getting fucked than participating myself.
When I met Lynn she was a real slut - fucking other men every chance she got even though she was married. When we became an item, I had no wish for her to stop seeing other men as it really excited me. We've been married 21 years, together 23 and she's fucked whoever she wants the whole time we've been together and I wouldn't want her any other way.
We are very close and have a normal, loving relationship in every other way except for the fact that she couldn't stand being tied down to only having sex with one partner and I'm more than fine with that.
I will tell you that I am bi male that takes part in teaching/helping cuckold situations in person, live. I have a Bachelor’s in psychology. Just so you know, you being in a cuckold situation is normal. That is a style of sex normally in which the husband wants to feel or be made sub while normally entertaining a very dom top (like me) that takes sexual charge of the 3 way situation. 90% of the time the men find that they love sucking and swallowing me while the women, once they get on this horse size cock, they cum nonstop around the clock. Try me out.Any psychologists out there? Because I'd like to hear why do we have this kind of desires. I'll share my observations if anyone joins.