Happy to give advice

[imherman]

my wife just came out that she wants to try other men.


I’ve had cuck kinks since college when I first got cheated on so this could potentially work. I just need to get over my jealousy.

I find the idea of sharing her incredibly hot. At the same time it ruins me with angst and jealousy.

How can I get over my ego so I can better support my wife and empower her to meet her needs?

 

[Cucklovescum]

my wife just came out that she wants to try other men.


I’ve had cuck kinks since college when I first got cheated on so this could potentially work. I just need to get over my jealousy.

I find the idea of sharing her incredibly hot. At the same time it ruins me with angst and jealousy.

How can I get over my ego so I can better support my wife and empower her to meet her needs?

If you love her unconditionally the way I do. Then I want her to have more orgasms and bigger dick than I can provide. She deserves and needs to be fulfilled,, so love her by being happy for her. Her pleasure should be your pleasure. If you can't find happiness when she is happy then you don't love her... you need to tell her you will do anything for her, anything to please her, bc you love her and you can never give you all you need. Encourage and thank her for pleasuring you threw her pleasure. Every cuckold feels some jealous feelings , but they are mixed with horniness lust ,unselfishness bc you no she desires and deserves bug dicks.. as long as she loves you and you know in your heart she will always love you. Sex is just her using other men as her toy ... you two have to be open , discuss and talk about everything. There can be no secrets. She has power to fuck anyone as long as she informs you before or right after, and gets off on seeing you jealous so jealous but it is o overcome by by other emotions , powerful emotions seeing her pleasured , getting high on her lust and her being a big slut that knows her pussy controls you , and you would do anything, once she cucks you a few times you crave more you beg her to fuck others.. you so addicted to her pussy being pleasured. You would suck dick if she pushed your head down and said it will make me cummm watching you. I fantasize about you sucking cock fir me. Then she will have you licking cum from her pussy. She will stretch your ass with strapon eventually and you will beg fir more of all she tells u. That's all u will think about .. she won't be able to fuck enough or feed u enough cum to satisfy you.
Your jealousy lol. You will lose that it no time. You will want her fucking more than her...
She will own you..

 

[thebeginner]

As a couple who have lived this glorious lifestyle for more than 30 years now (Wow that is so hard to believe) we would love to be able to give some people on here some advice, or benefit of our experience, or just share some details with anyone. Husbands or wives, who are involved in the lifestyle, or who want to be, if you want any advice, we are here to help and share.

We are UK based, but I think the experience of the cuckold lifestyle is pretty universal, so if you need anything, do feel free to ask, and let us know if you want myself (husband) or my wife to answer, and either in this thread or in a private message.

We just want to help as many other couples as we can, have the amazing life that we have had, and to enjoy all that this way of life offers. And boy oh boy, can it be fun!!

P & C

Thanks for taking on this challenge! It certainly is a daunting one.

I suppose I am one of the lucky ones. I was able to convince my wife to take the plunge. And fortunately for me (us), she enjoyed her first experience. This led to her having a FWB who she saw regularly for a while.

Currently we are between partners/bulls and I'm anxious for her to find a new playmate. I have to admit, it puzzles me, as she seems to very much enjoy having extramarital sex but she also seems disinterested, or uncommitted in finding someone new. Every time I bring it up "how much I would love for her to find a new partner" she agrees how exciting it would be but then doesn't put any time or effort into doing so.

I would look for her, but have been reluctant to reach out to prospective bulls as I don't want to waste their time. I've found that it always worked best when she did the looking - she never was attracted to the guys I thought were suitable.

Anyway, I was wondering if your wife was like that and if there was anything that encouraged her to search again when she was between play partners?

 

[EastCoastLifest]

my wife just came out that she wants to try other men.


I’ve had cuck kinks since college when I first got cheated on so this could potentially work. I just need to get over my jealousy.

I find the idea of sharing her incredibly hot. At the same time it ruins me with angst and jealousy.

How can I get over my ego so I can better support my wife and empower her to meet her needs?

I think jealously is a fairly normal reaction to your wife wanting to play around with other men, although I have to admit, I've never really suffered with it myself. You're very lucky that you have a wife who wants to give it a try, so first off, I would say talk to her about your feelings. Tell her you love the idea but you have this problem with jealousy. Maybe she can reassure you. Also, explain what it is you are jealous off. Is it that she will met a super guy who she falls in love with and will leave you for him? If so, tell her, let her know your fear and between you you can sort it out maybe, and hopefully she can have the fun she craves, then she'll come home and you can share her enjoyment.

 

[EastCoastLifest]

Thanks for taking on this challenge! It certainly is a daunting one.

I suppose I am one of the lucky ones. I was able to convince my wife to take the plunge. And fortunately for me (us), she enjoyed her first experience. This led to her having a FWB who she saw regularly for a while.

Currently we are between partners/bulls and I'm anxious for her to find a new playmate. I have to admit, it puzzles me, as she seems to very much enjoy having extramarital sex but she also seems disinterested, or uncommitted in finding someone new. Every time I bring it up "how much I would love for her to find a new partner" she agrees how exciting it would be but then doesn't put any time or effort into doing so.

I would look for her, but have been reluctant to reach out to prospective bulls as I don't want to waste their time. I've found that it always worked best when she did the looking - she never was attracted to the guys I thought were suitable.

Anyway, I was wondering if your wife was like that and if there was anything that encouraged her to search again when she was between play partners?

Thanks for the message. This is quite an interesting one, as to me it sounds like she might not want another partner, I would start by asking her if that's the case or not. If she's happy to continue, offer to help her look, but rather than taking over, work together with it, seeking new partners is something we generally do together and is for me, one of the most fun parts of the lifestyle.

From our personal perspective, I have to say it hasn't been a problem for us. The only time she didn't want to find a partner, was when we were trying for kids of our own. Once that part of life was out of the way, she's never stopped looking for new perspective sex partners.

 

[toolman2c]

Surprised we haven't heard from anyone else with this post. We're both happy to share. Makes me wonder why most people are here on this site.

I bet several here would need and want you advice,,, but are reluctant to engage,., myself included,, btw, i read All ur post n comments that i can find.. We are older age gap couple, she is unaware,, a DM from you would eXpose more about me / us,