J prefers affairs to one nighters. She has done some, primarily when she was BBC exclusive, but her REAL enjoyment comes from a long term affair with someone she gets to know outside the bedroom first, and then is seduced in to a sexual affair. Emotion is important to her. Her longest was with her Boss/Lover that laste 11 years and broke up over COVID (he got really weird, wouldn't get vaccinated, believed all the crazy theories, had had it 3 times and nearly died the last time, may have it again). Most of them were 6 months to a year. But the emotional attachment is what makes it really work for her.
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