When we began we were like kids in a sweet shop, we met someone new every two weeks for about six months, some of them on more than one occasion. Some we clicked with more than others but they all bought a new experience each time.we would talk to each other over the next few days about how we felt and share our feelings, we agreed we both enjoyed what we doing and the dynamics had changed, we had started with me being more involved but I mainly watched now, she was worried I was jealous and I reassured her it was more a turn on me watching and just to join in when required, my only concern was I wanted her to be able to relax as I felt she was holding back, she said she had because she didn’t want to upset me, and I told holding back upset me. I told her watching the way she was was the biggest turn on for me. She said she felt more relaxed with the ones we had met more than once, one of those was a local bbc whom I had noticed she was very sensual with, more kissing and foreplay it was hot to watch them cos he only touched her and she would melt. He ended up being our regular for five yrs and the boundaries we pushed with him we never dreamed, the regularity made it feel so much better and relaxed for us