Would love to hear. Did her cheating turn you on? Is that what opened the door to hotwifing and cuckoldry?Yes. you are right. Now it isn't cheating, clearly.
But there were some cheating episodes in the beginning.
My current wife didn't "cheat", but a prior girlfriend did and it didn't upset me - just drove me wild with lust and desire. That's when I started to see my own cuckold inclinations.