How old were you when you got into this?

Yes. you are right. Now it isn't cheating, clearly.

But there were some cheating episodes in the beginning.
Would love to hear. Did her cheating turn you on? Is that what opened the door to hotwifing and cuckoldry?

My current wife didn't "cheat", but a prior girlfriend did and it didn't upset me - just drove me wild with lust and desire. That's when I started to see my own cuckold inclinations.
 
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Would love to hear. Did her cheating turn you on? Is that what opened the door to hotwifing and cuckoldry?

My current wife didn't "cheat", but a prior girlfriend did and it didn't upset me - just drove me wild with lust and desire. That's when I started to see my own cuckold inclinations.

Yes it was one of the events that carried us to this LS. Not the only, though.

At that time when I found the cheating it wasn't a turn on, in fact we argued heavily and even thought for a while that marriage was done.

See, I (husband) travel almost every month due work and the lack of sex and intimacy for wife has lead her to cheat. She did it first with a colleague from work. The guy was a shutter services driver for the company she was working at the time, they did some activities together and they started to fuck on my back (in his van) whenever I was away from home.

Thing is I had this fantasy of seeing my wife fucking around and she had the urge to feel some cocks to fill her pussy gap whenever I have to be absent. So we decided to try the LS and turns out we loved it!
 
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they did some activities together and they started to fuck on my back (in his van) whenever I was away from home.
Since you were away from home, I wonder why she didn't fuck him right in your bed. Possibly afraid of the mess that might leave behind.

I assume she still fucks others while you travel?

You both handled the situation well. Made the best of it. When I hear of friends who broke up bc some one cheated I want to advise them to stay together but join the Lifestyle.