Question for husbands and wives.

[Loridan]

We do this with one guy, many times with him. It's very obvious she likes sex with him but I'm certain she dosent have feelings for him.
She's never said anything about him when he's not with us. When he is with us and they're having sex she constantly says things like...this feels so good...I can feel your balls hitting me...it feels like you're getting close.
It's sexy as hell but it's just fun.

 

[Erotibbc4u]

my wife and I had a rocky start to the lifestyle, at times we loved it and at times we felt like we had ruined our marriage. After a few trial and error attempt I discover the best approach that worked for us. I got to learn the type of guy my wife was aroused by so ultimately we made dating profiles were I handled all interactions, I even started knowing her likes better than she knew herself. I would of course get to know the guys first and would tell them that the contact and communication with my wife would be strictly in the bedroom or place where we would meet.

What is her type?

 

[hardworkandplay]

If my wife found a better fuck than me, she would fall in love.

 

[alexthegreat971]

What is her type?

U are

 

[Bernie84]

There's always going to be a risk but you can minimize it. You can only do it when away from home, like on vacation and don't do 1 on 1's, have her do gangbangs so that it isn't an intimate thing between your wife and a man. I hope that made sense lol. Hubby's been sharing me for over 20 years with 150+ men. I've done a few 1 on 1s over the years but I prefer multiple cocks at once so it's usually with 3 or more at the same time. I can play alone but it's much for fun having Hubby there so it's rare when I'll do it. Hubby has done it much more often and has had regular side pieces at times but has never turned into an issue that put our relationship in jeopardy. I actually love watching him fuck other woman. I'll masturbate or I'll eat the girl out while he fucks her. As long as I get to clean up the mess, I'm a happy girl, lol.

Alyssa ❤️

There’s logic in there. My wife has admitted having a threesome with two guys in the past. I think she thinks that I would like to involve a female into the situation no matter how much I reassure her that isn’t the case for me.
We’re due to go on holiday soon and I’ve watched her dance and flirt with other men before on holiday so maybe that’s something to work on.

 

[Loridan]

Years ago when I was dating my now wife we were out having a drin.k or 2.
We were mid 20s, she was divorced and evidently sowing her wild oats, all good.
It was our 3rd date, we'd slept together once(2nd date).
Alcohol has its effects...I was feeling pretty badass, we were kinda sharing sexy stories. She asked where the strangest place I'd had sex. Then I asked her if she'd ever been with 2 different guys on the same day. She said yea, one about 2am(fri) after a date then a different guy different date on Saturday night so technically yes. Then she asked if I meant at the same time. She got quiet then said yes. I about died. I pressed for when, how, etc. She said with a guy she dated and his roommate. I asked how many times....a few. I was blown away, I was kinda pissed and she knew it. Conversion was over.

 

[7long6girth]

There’s logic in there. My wife has admitted having a threesome with two guys in the past. I think she thinks that I would like to involve a female into the situation no matter how much I reassure her that isn’t the case for me.
We’re due to go on holiday soon and I’ve watched her dance and flirt with other men before on holiday so maybe that’s something to work on.

I’d love to join a threesome !!

 

[sneakerdad]

I would never let my wife hook up with the same guy all the time. I know some couples are able to do that but there’s definitely a much higher risk of it causing issues or your wife potentially leaving you. If this guy fucks her really well and they start enjoying each others company it becomes less transactional. I enjoy sharing my wife but it’s purely based on physical pleasure and the excitement from it being taboo.

 

[dinoo-2]

Isn't it pure coincidence that you met your current wife? I think so.
What I mean by this is that it is very human that falling in love with another woman (and v.v.) in completely different circumstances (such as being born in a different city) would therefore also have been quite possible.
This approach has always been mine. And my wife agreed. The question is how to deal with it.

My wife and I had only one rule (apart from hygiene):
if our marriage suffered from being in love then that relationship would be terminated.
We also knew full well that this would not be a 100 per cent watertight solution.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Even before our marriage I realized that my wife was not at all averse to attention from other men.
But I never blamed her for this behaviour. On the contrary, I was actually proud of her.

Decades later:
In what became our beloved club, on several occasions I saw that a certain chemistry existed or developed between a lover and her.
Believe me, that always did me very well because it also meant she could fully indulge in sex with other men and sometimes women.
More than once, I urged her to give free rein to her inner feelings. ‘Falling in love is so human that it would be a shame not to take advantage of it,’ I said.

With one (otherwise married) man in particular, I saw a different woman from the one I was married to.
How they interacted was the most beautiful, erotic, challenging and sometimes rough sex I have ever seen. I should add that he refused to put on a condom. So deep fucking was out of the question. It stuck to the head of the penis regularly disappearing into her pussy.

At one point, she pointed me to come closer.
I thought she was sliding her pussy over his huge cock.
She put an arm around my neck.
She: ‘You should know by now that I put his (i.e. not protected) cock inside me. I am in love with him and he with me.’ For a moment tongue kissed each other.
‘I couldn't stop myself from putting that dick inside me anymore. Kiss me if you feel as happy as I am now.’
I did not hesitate for a moment and as I kissed her, she started fucking him.
Then I left them alone to enjoy this event.

My experience......