Hello, I’m currently a Bull for around 6 hotwives right now (I travel a lot). Quite recently I got into a similar situation with the 6th hotwife. It started out normally I took her out to a date with the husband (they are 29F and 35M), we went back to my hotel and I fucked her with her husband. It kept on happening for a week and then, I had to leave for two weeks for my work. She found out that I’m having the same sort of relationship with other women and there’s no health concern. She’s been causing trouble with her husband that she wants me for herself which is not really possible. I was purely in it for the sex and she as well. It’s their first time into the lifestyle and are a little naive and are looking for guidance. Personally, I enjoyed fucking her and became good friends with her husband but am unsure how to deal with it. They’re reading comments too here.
Omg that is so hot!!! Never seen a hot wife get denied her wishes like this - but what can you say? She can’t expect you to stop pleasing other ladies can she?
You already know what to do. hence why you asked this question, be a big boy bull and end the relationship.
We had issues in our old group where a woman decided that she wanted a particular guy for herself.
During group events she would try to hog his attention and stopped fucking any of the other guys and put pressure on him to see her privately.
The end result was, he wanted to fuck the other women in the group and we had to exclude her from future events.
Unfortunately, her husband, who was wheel chair bound, was a really nice guy and although he was still welcome to attend so he could watch the action, she of couse wouldn't let him.
Lay down the law and if she doesn't comply, cut her off.
One never knows what path a new relationship will take, even though it's agreed up front to be about sex and nothing else. As my wife and I evolved into our marriage, she shared with me that in order to have regular sex with another man, she'd need to "have feelings for him." While she assured me that having feelings for another man wouldn't be a threat to our marriage, we tended to stick to married males for her. My wife accepted that he could never 100% exclusive to her. But there was times when my wife was exclusive to him and we loved it. Until this point, I never dreamed that being denied could be so sexy.
I was thinking to, but then her hubby came around saying that she'll be good with it as she just wants to keep having me. I've been very strict with her about it.
It's an interesting dynamic where she's the dominant one with her husband. However, She's also exclusive to me as a matter of fact all the hotwives i have right now, they're fully exclusive to me. I personally really enjoy this and like to keep things this way. Although, It's an interesting thing where I can safely explore as much as I would like, but they're only mine to have sex with and overtime I've built a really good connection with their husbands too. How would you feel if you were to be in a similar situation ?
Were I in your shoes, I'd wonder if I could keep my girlfriends satisfied, when they needed to be satisified! I'd probably limit myself to one or two wives just due to how hard it is to work all of the schedules out. And I think I'd want the wife to come to me at my place rather than have to worry about what hubby was doing, distractions from him and so on. Pleasing the wife is one thing, dealing with hubby's fetishes and needs would be another, I think.
Personally, I used to do that for a good time. Now, I have 6 right now and it's a good sweet number where I fuck each one every day of the week and sometimes we go for threesomes. They're always satisfied and I get to get more of it.
It was awful. Her husband joined the group because he could no longer fuck her and thought she deserved some sex.
We discovered later that she wanted to leave her husband and move in with Alex.
He wanted no part of it and unfortunately or fortunately, she left her husband eventually anyway. He is a really nice guy and paid the price for trying to look after his wife's needs.
Before anyone joins this lifestyle, make sure you understand it's about respectful sexual pleasure and nothing else.
Exactly, when I stepped into the LS. I first had to get around thinking what I’m getting into with it and have mutual respect for everything. I’ve been with more than 20 couples till now, each couple started with a different dynamic but one thing that was uniform across everyone was the respect.
She’s not a commodity to transfer. We’re doing well now. How long have you been in the LS?
How’s your experience in the LS as a couple ?
As a bull, I just enjoy this deep sexual connection and satisfying women. I feel more like I was meant for this. It was really hard for me to be satisfied by one women and that’s what got me into this.
I actually enjoy being "one of his girls" with some Lovers. Usually this is Black Lovers. And others we are exclusive to each other. Most often married white Lovers. I have never tried to MAKE one exclusive with me, although I did agree to be exclusive with my Boss/Lover without discussing that with my husband first!! LOL We worked it out. J (the wife)
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