I agree about the reputation and being looked down on - after lots of gently hinting / suggestions and everything else under the sun including telling my wife outright about her trying it and seeing how she felt - this led to her going along with it and placing an ad for a bull . After her seemingly interested in trying it with someone well away from our area , she went ballistic - why did you think I’d want another man to fuck me etc etc . I’ve given up mostly on trying it or much else really - I only always and ever wanted her to get pleasure but she just isn’t open to anything kinky or otherwise which I don’t get as she was seemingly slutty before I met her . Seems she’s only interested in sex on her level which is fucking sooooo boring and vanilla . I’ve said a lot of times that we need to spice our sex life up and for her to suggest something she’d like or like to try but remember we’re dealing with a woman here who claims to have no sexual fantasies and doesn’t know what turns her self on ? So you can imagine I’ve crashed and burned many many times .
