Prude wife. Should I give up
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hornycuckhubby
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It's interesting reading some of these comments and learning about other couple's sex lives. Everyone has a slightly different situation. Even if a woman is not interested in having more than one partner, I can't imagine her not wanting to explore sex and other fantasies with her husband or long time bf. The reality is that it happens though. My wife has lost some libido but it seems that her decreased interest is due to laziness or her interest in other things. She thinks about how nice it would be to have an orgasm sometimes but rarely initiates it herself or tells me about it. Hoping we turn that around and that it doesn't keep going that direction.
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to hear , mines said no one uses sex toys so I got her a vibrator - now she has about 5 of them ha ha - she’s so dismissive of anything sexual or out of missionary etc lol but then I weigh that up against a guy she told me about who was wanting to train her arsehole for cock so I’m like WTF is this even the same person I’m with ???
hornycuckhubby
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Well apart from screwing her brother in law and the guy offering to train her arse hole, my wife was similar, she was open to try anything risky or kinky, loved sex in public places loved it if people saw us in action. she even let me take her back passage, then for some reason she became a born again prude and just lies there like a ...... Disney princess during sex.
I really don't think you should "give up" now.
You might try instead other (and softer) ways prior bringing another cock to her intimacy.
Don't know if it is exactly your case but it seems you are approaching her bluntly. If she nags porn watching, try some dirty talking instead. If she avoids letting you take pictures and mentioning other men in bed, try to take her out to a hotel and have a "spiced-up vanilla sex" with her, instead. And so.
With a little carving in and expanding she might feel more inclined to experiment the hardcore things that you dearly crave on.
And if she doesn't play along...at least you tried it some more!
Everyone is different, that’s a fact, but women are a totally alien species when it comes to sex, most look at sex (especially within a marriage) as being only shared with your partner, it is the most intimate experience anyone can have, why would you give that intimacy to someone you are not in a relationship with, society says you are a slag or worse, that’s conditioned into us early in life. Women are emotionally vulnerable, men are more visual and get turned on by the slightest thing, led by our mind and the lust it generates. Women find it hard to differentiate the sex from emotions, my wife was adamant she would never do anything like swinging, saying she would be too jealous to see me with a woman, I excepted that, saying I was ok with another man joining us. She was surprised at first even queried if I was bi and hadn’t told her😀 after a few weeks of role playing having another man in bed with us, using toys and porn, she said the only thing putting her off was she didn’t want me to feel differently towards her because there was no going back once another man had fucked her, I told her if she had any doubts then I was ok I wanted her to want to do it to experience the pleasure of 2 men satisfying her,told her she would be in full control of how far we took it if we gave it a go. She took me aback a bit when she then said she would only do it with a black guy, I asked why? She said she felt she would feel less emotionally attached and she didn’t want to have any feelings, just sex nothing else. That was over 13 yrs ago and we still having the odd night out with bbc bulls 👍😎
Send her to the gym! By herself, without YOU and wait 6 weeks! She feels better, looses weight, gets all kind of attention, and finds a guy 10 years younger, 14in taller, 80 lbs more, and with 2.5 in of fatter cock! He had a HW FWB roll in 6 years of living the dream! She was a new lady, loose, wild, partying, traveling, and fucking! I licked pussy everyday for months. Felt the strain also, gone for weekends away, 4 days on several trips, and even two weeks to Hawaii. Been 18 years of pleasure, stress, even some fights! But the sex has been great! Tryed all kinds of stuff, makes you ready for all!
Was in a sexless marriage for 30 years. No hope of any kind of crazy sex between us let alone another guy. I found a couple on SLS for a 3 threesome about 5 years ago. Found out we were very compatible ! She was just living with the other guy but all 3 of us became great friends. I ended up moving in with them for a period then she and i ended up getting married. We had his blessings and he is still a great friend. She is totally opposite what i was used to in marriage. She is a sex freak besides being an awesome woman and wife. She likes to have guys over to fuck while i watch and join in. Man this is what life is supposed to be like !
Id say she needs a new cock from a studly guy to wake her dorment needy pussy,. Take her out to clubs n places where wifes get flirted with and hookups are happening, set her up by telling her ur studly buddy said he was going to fuck her at 1st chance,, then tell ur buddy that ur wife said while fucking with wine that she thinks he would be the ultimate fuckbuddy.. but only if U could deal with being her second choice, good luck,
Well you planted the seeds, after some time i bet she warms to it, tho she will be slow to tell you,,imho. Hope u can convince her u want this for her pleasures.,
Wow, that sounds like would work on my sexy much younger wife, its a super hot fantasy and my desire 2c her deepseeded by a real cocksman is growing n cant get off my mind, its secret to her and im scared to tell her as im afraid im not ready and couldnt adjust. Biggest fear is 2b denied her hot rewarding treasure.
Well she has cheated before with an ex as I heard a phone call between her and the same guy about it . And she has said she knows ALL the ways NOT to get caught . I’ve had nothing at all for around 2-3 months now but I’ve noticed her toy bag is open - so she’s keeping herself happy so I’ve hid everything this morning - she never comes to me or touches me or makes ANY indication she is horny . If she goes out she’s away for ages and on Saturday she called me supposedly from the shopping mall but there was no background noise ? - almost like she was phoning from a quiet room . She is fully aware I want to share her so if she is being fucked why doesn’t she just say - and she was a bit nervous when she got out the car to drive hers and left her phone in my car - almost in case she got a text ?? . Wish I could just catch her out
I think my wife doesn’t want to shatter this illusion that she has built around herself - but I know fucking different - I’m always the dirty bastard for watching porn etc - I said 99% of guys watch porn and the other 1% are liars . She retorted as usual about her brother and law or some other bullshit - have been crucified for 3 sums I had and a bit of swinging with my ex fiancé - 8 years before I met my wife . I’ve said we need to spice things up numerous times but just get the same runaround that - she doesn’t really know what to suggest etc . . She was married for 25 years and her ex husband wouldn’t have said that or asked her to dress up /watch porn etc etc and she has had other relationships and none of them asked her to wear stockings / heels - do stuff etc etc - all I can think of is she must had had only missionary position boring fucking dudes for partners
I know talk about double standards . Mines just isn’t interested but seems like she doesn’t need to as her vibrator keeping her satisfied ( until I Hid them but she’ll have the balls to ask me why I bet ) . Again that was my idea to get them - she said no one uses them . I’m the dirty guy for having 3 sums when I was a single guy but it’s ok to screw her sisters fiancé -
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Let me tell you my story. We are Arab Muslims. You know what it is like when it comes to the idea of being a cuckold and living a cuckold lifestyle. Religion forbids such ideas. I got married at the age of 20. My wife was only 15. We have been married for 12 years. I am 33 and she is 27. We are from conservative and religious families in For the first five years, I convinced her and made her fantasize about another man, but she did not want to despise me, as she believed that another man having sex with her was strange and not worthy of me. After that, in the next three years, the matter developed and she began to learn more about the life of openness. i succeeded in breaking many customs and traditions and made her greatly enjoy the fantasy of bulls when having sex with her. She no longer reaches climax except through a scenario where a violent stud with a big penis has violent sex with her and slaps her. In fact, I was very patient in waiting eight years to convince her to have three-way sex or with a bull like the one in her imagination. There is a recurring mistake I made, which was that I convinced her that the cuckold lifestyle was something I enjoyed and that she should do this to make me happy. I did not let her control. Sometimes she would get angry with me. Because I pushed her to do that by having real sex with a bull. After eight years of trying to convince her, I thought of a new idea, which was to be a submissive cuckold. She enjoyed being in control during sex. She used to make me lick her ass and her feet, and when she was horny, she would say, “I want a bull right away.” By satisfying my sexual desires, you don't deserve my sexy body. This matter went on for a whole year, and the successful way to convince her was for her to be the dominant one and for me to be the submissive cuckold. Finally, after nine years, I agreed to meet a bull and have sex together, and after finishing, I would lick her pussy and feet in front of the bull. I was very happy. Suddenly, before the date of meeting the bull, a strange development occurred. She rejected this idea forever, she said. I told her why. I begged her and tried repeatedly over the course of 3 months, but she rejected the idea and claimed that it was not compatible with her religious beliefs and that it was a grave sin. Since then, I have given up. Yes, I have given up, and for about two years, I no longer talk to her about cuckolding, or about a bull, or any other scenarios. We just have normal sex. I now feel very disappointed because I could not convince my wife to live the cuckold life that I dream of. Sorry I was talking too much. lol
I agree about the reputation and being looked down on - after lots of gently hinting / suggestions and everything else under the sun including telling my wife outright about her trying it and seeing how she felt - this led to her going along with it and placing an ad for a bull . After her seemingly interested in trying it with someone well away from our area , she went ballistic - why did you think I’d want another man to fuck me etc etc . I’ve given up mostly on trying it or much else really - I only always and ever wanted her to get pleasure but she just isn’t open to anything kinky or otherwise which I don’t get as she was seemingly slutty before I met her . Seems she’s only interested in sex on her level which is fucking sooooo boring and vanilla . I’ve said a lot of times that we need to spice our sex life up and for her to suggest something she’d like or like to try but remember we’re dealing with a woman here who claims to have no sexual fantasies and doesn’t know what turns her self on ? So you can imagine I’ve crashed and burned many many times .
Women are strange creatures they can be so vanilla and uninterested in becoming sexually adventurous, but some can change and get the urge, others already have and hide it well.
But the simple fact is this lifestyle isnt for most women or indeed couples and whilst it maybe a fantasy for some they do have to accept that, a fantasy is what it will always remain. Pushing the subject onto an ...... wife can only result in disaster.
But the simple fact is this lifestyle isnt for most women or indeed couples and whilst it maybe a fantasy for some they do have to accept that, a fantasy is what it will always remain. Pushing the subject onto an ...... wife can only result in disaster.
I guess her reluctance finds ground in her insecurity. My advice, go to places where you can meet people and where you can intoduce her to an attractve bull (who’s already informed and instructed by you). Of course he needs to be her type and eager to seduce her.
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