No sex with wife
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Biguy916
Male
I haven’t been allowed to fuck my wife in about 3 years but she allows me to jerk off about twice a month.
I don’t mind at all because if she wants to get fucked she has to get together with one of her three boyfriends and I really love knowing my wife is getting fucked good
I don’t mind at all because if she wants to get fucked she has to get together with one of her three boyfriends and I really love knowing my wife is getting fucked good
Swatter11
Couple
Sorry I can't get my head around that at all,
If my wife ever decided to cut me off from having sex with her she knows I would get it with someone else,
We have been in the lifestyle for 10 years or so and have never stopped wanting to fuck each other,
I understand that people are different and what works for one may not work for another but not having sex with my wife or her not allowing me to have sex with her just wouldn't work for me,👍
If my wife ever decided to cut me off from having sex with her she knows I would get it with someone else,
We have been in the lifestyle for 10 years or so and have never stopped wanting to fuck each other,
I understand that people are different and what works for one may not work for another but not having sex with my wife or her not allowing me to have sex with her just wouldn't work for me,👍
Maybe a little odd to others but to be honest i am happy to not have sex with my wife, i get off on the idea that she no longer enjoys or receives pleasure from my cock and i love knowing that i am too small for her to feel me or orgasm with me. I am totally happy having a small cock and watching her receiving incredible pleasure from other guys. The only sex i do wish to have with her is licking her pussy because that is the only thing she enjoys from me.
We have more sex together because my of this lifestyle.
Everybody should get something out of the deal, right? I've never understood why anyone would want less sexual attention no matter what form that attention may be. I can understand short term denial but I'll never understand men that enjoy being "pussy free". I've never has as much sex as I'd like to have. I'm sure many long term monogamous married men feel the way I do.
The only way I'd enter into a hot wife/cuckold type relationship is if my wife became more interested/motivated/craved MORE sex, including with me. What good is it if I don't get some benefit from her expanding her sex life? I'm sure that sounds selfish to some/many but what's the motivation for the men unless they get SOMETHING extra out of it.
Absolutely, my wife and I have been in the lifestyle for around ten years or so and when we have played away either together or solo the sex between us is just as hot as it was in the beginning maybe even more so,
That was the whole point of getting into this lifestyle it keeps things alive in the bedroom for us,
The thought of being on the outside as she gets all the fun is not what either of us want,
I understand people are different and what ever works for you is ok but I struggle with the concept of the woman getting what ever she gets out of sexual relations with other guys and the man left behind left at home,
We would rather stop altogether than one of us being left out of the fun,lol
Just my thoughts, 👍
Yes
Main thing is to have great sex for both
But in monogamous marriage sex is dead after a few years
Main thing is to have great sex for both
But in monogamous marriage sex is dead after a few years
My wife and I don’t have sex like we use too. Both of us are going in different direction most days and weeks. When the day is finished we are both thinking about what we didn’t get done during the day. Not a good spot to be in for a relationship. I do tell her all the time if a situation presents itself for you to have some fun by all means go have fun. And she does from time to time. I’m hoping that one day life slows down and we can enjoy each other more and until that time happens we are both living separate sexual lives.
How did you both convince each other to get laid when possible ?
We just told each other it was ok to have safe fun and enjoy the adventures as they come along. Was pretty easy for us. We’ve been in this lifestyle for a while now. Seems to work pretty well for us. The jealousy issue at first was something we had to work through, but this was easy for us so no issues now.
Its a reasonable approach
Have both of you had playmates or mostly her getting laid
We both have. But it’s mainly her. I encourage her to play as much as possible. It makes her in a better mood and makes
my life a lot easier.
How did that jealousy manifest itself? Was it you, or her, or both? What specifically made it go away?
Just being honest with each other and letting each other know we aren’t going anywhere and this is only for fun. We kept it pretty simple with no strings. Was hard at first! But in a few months we were totally fine with it.
Sorry but I find that a little sad but I guess it happens, 👍
It does happen, to a lot of couples. You just have to work through it and not let it get you down. We’ve made it work for us.
At least you are still together so that is something,
I guess some people can still be in love without having sex,👍
