No sex with wife

Are there any husbands out there who don’t want to have sex with their wives

My wife asks for sex and u just don’t want to fuck her as I don’t see her sexually anymore

She is beautiful with a great body and a head turning booty but still I don’t see her sexually at all.

I used to when we met and had hot intense sex but know I just don’t want to do her .

I do love and care for her though

So any other husbands in same boat ?
How do we get the jive back without jumping into Hotwife life ?
I would be more than happy to fill in! Lol