I understand. But this idea was my idea, and a kink that both she and I enjoyed during roleplay for many years. My other reply gives more insight.But I can't agree with this idea. Even if my wife fucks around a little bit, I'm always primary. She does that occasionally just for a little fun and to blow off stress. Anyways the husband should be number one in a wife's life, not some temporary lover. No matter how big the dick or how hard he fucks her lol