How would you respond if your wife suggested this?

It was a good pushback... probably.

You suggest she accept him anally, she basically said "you first". IOW, you asked, she told you the price.

Sounds like it could be a place to start negotiation. How much do you want to see her do it? Enough to try it yourself?

(I'm pretty sure the answer is no, so it's a solid pushback... but perhaps not.)
our thoughts is what are you afraid of, how knows you both may like it, or perhaps that is your fear, you will like it?
 
I had my wife make a request to me that I was not ready for. We have been spending a lot of time with her BF in the last month in a MFM often, we jokingly call him Prince Harry or PH in our texts. He and I are both straight BTW. She sends me this, how would you react? I will fill you in after on my response and why I answered in such a way.

I have been thinking lately that with our 3 way situation with PH we should explore some possibilities that maybe we had not considered before. It could increase our intimacy and your intimacy with him. I would like to watch you give him a long slow blowjob where he cums in your mouth , you pause and show it to me and then swallow it. I also would like the visual of you having anal sex with him. Don't close the door on this, think it over. He is a gentle lover and I think he would help you get accustomed to the feel of anal sex. I think this opens up some new possibilities for us and I would be aroused to watch this but will offer that if you prefer the first time to be just the two of you I can respect that.If you stop and give it serious consideration, do you like the idea of having him in your ass?
Grab the bitch by the throat tell her you’re not a faggot, and make her spread her cheeks open so you can ass fuck her. That should be her punishment. Then you and Ph only fuck her in the ass for the foreseeable future. Make the bitch rim both of you every time thereafter. You need to reestablish. dominance over the bitch!
 
I had my wife make a request to me that I was not ready for. We have been spending a lot of time with her BF in the last month in a MFM often, we jokingly call him Prince Harry or PH in our texts. He and I are both straight BTW. She sends me this, how would you react? I will fill you in after on my response and why I answered in such a way.

I have been thinking lately that with our 3 way situation with PH we should explore some possibilities that maybe we had not considered before. It could increase our intimacy and your intimacy with him. I would like to watch you give him a long slow blowjob where he cums in your mouth , you pause and show it to me and then swallow it. I also would like the visual of you having anal sex with him. Don't close the door on this, think it over. He is a gentle lover and I think he would help you get accustomed to the feel of anal sex. I think this opens up some new possibilities for us and I would be aroused to watch this but will offer that if you prefer the first time to be just the two of you I can respect that.If you stop and give it serious consideration, do you like the idea of having him in your ass?
Maintain an open mind. Wait to see how future situations develop. In the heat of the moment many seeming impossible alternatives suddenly become very attractive
 
Grab the bitch by the throat tell her you’re not a faggot, and make her spread her cheeks open so you can ass fuck her. That should be her punishment. Then you and Ph only fuck her in the ass for the foreseeable future. Make the bitch rim both of you every time thereafter. You need to reestablish. dominance over the bitch!
I think you missed the point, she was making a joke that I only talked about BJ and anal and she was saying dudes could get that from each other. Again, she was joking.
 
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Well deserved the 😅

Anal with my wife is a big no, so I do not push it, and to be true, Im not a big fan after a few earlier experiences with my earlier relationships.

Good luck
You just have to break in a bitches asshole. After a few times the asshole opens up and will fit like a well worn glove. Also a bitch put in a painful situation will learn to adjust. Most come to eventually like it.
 
Thank goodness she was joking or really what it seems like to me, a push back on anal. Like others have suggested it sounds like she was telling you, "If you like it and want it so much then you try it first!"

Early on in our marriage I too made the mistake of not being gentle and slow enough when I was given the opportunity. After that, anal sex has been off the table and any time I start to mention it it gets dismissed without discussion. However, when she engages in the fantasy/dirty talk she says that she lets her imaginary "boyfriends/lovers" have her ass and says I'm only allowed to put my tongue in her ass. So, something is tumbling around in that head of hers.
 
I had my wife make a request to me that I was not ready for. We have been spending a lot of time with her BF in the last month in a MFM often, we jokingly call him Prince Harry or PH in our texts. He and I are both straight BTW. She sends me this, how would you react? I will fill you in after on my response and why I answered in such a way.

I have been thinking lately that with our 3 way situation with PH we should explore some possibilities that maybe we had not considered before. It could increase our intimacy and your intimacy with him. I would like to watch you give him a long slow blowjob where he cums in your mouth , you pause and show it to me and then swallow it. I also would like the visual of you having anal sex with him. Don't close the door on this, think it over. He is a gentle lover and I think he would help you get accustomed to the feel of anal sex. I think this opens up some new possibilities for us and I would be aroused to watch this but will offer that if you prefer the first time to be just the two of you I can respect that.If you stop and give it serious consideration, do you like the idea of having him in your ass?
That's a pretty hot scenario, but is it common between y'all to bring up boundary pushing situations like this over text? If it were me I'd bring up that ask as a fantasy during some 1:1 sex play and see the reaction. However, I could also see the benefit of dropping that via text when you might be more clear headed and not just horned up
 
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That's a pretty hot scenario, but is it common between y'all to bring up boundary pushing situations like this over text? If it were me I'd bring up that ask as a fantasy during some 1:1 sex play and see the reaction. However, I could also see the benefit of dropping that via text when you might be more clear headed and not just horned up
People have been missing the fact that she was JOKING
 
I had my wife make a request to me that I was not ready for. We have been spending a lot of time with her BF in the last month in a MFM often, we jokingly call him Prince Harry or PH in our texts. He and I are both straight BTW. She sends me this, how would you react? I will fill you in after on my response and why I answered in such a way.

I have been thinking lately that with our 3 way situation with PH we should explore some possibilities that maybe we had not considered before. It could increase our intimacy and your intimacy with him. I would like to watch you give him a long slow blowjob where he cums in your mouth , you pause and show it to me and then swallow it. I also would like the visual of you having anal sex with him. Don't close the door on this, think it over. He is a gentle lover and I think he would help you get accustomed to the feel of anal sex. I think this opens up some new possibilities for us and I would be aroused to watch this but will offer that if you prefer the first time to be just the two of you I can respect that.If you stop and give it serious consideration, do you like the idea of having him in your ass?
Cummings in my mouth no. If she wanted me to I think I could suck him for awhile and would let her watch me getting fucked in the ass.