Yes I agree. In my case, my wife stopped seeing two of my buddies who she had been fucking for months, because she was worried I might find out. As it was, I did find out a year later. After I got over the initial shock, I was so turned on that I would probably have told her to carry on seeing them.I found out after we were married. Yes, it counts.
Like a trophy awarded after the fact. The difference is that she got a chance to earn another trophy with a couple of them after we were married. #bob #andy #tony #rick