I think it must be very hard for guys to come out as bi or even admit it to themselves sometimes. There's still a stigma about it in some quarters that being bi or gay makes you less of a man. It's total nonsense of course to make any such generalisation. Sure some bi guys can be effeminate and some on here seem to get a kick out of going down the sissy route which is fine but to say that is the same for all bi men is so much BS! James has known he was bi from an early age and he's more of a man than many 'straight' guys I've known. He just happens to enjoy sex with men and women.I was so scared and have been agonising about coming out to her for months now. Had a good session with my therapist this week - practice run if you like – and decided to go for it last night. Don’t get me wrong, my wife knows that I have been with quite a few men but I think she felt this was in my past and not who I am. I have struggled with coming to terms with it myself for all my life but it was such a relied to tell her straight that I am bisexual and always have been. I need to get naked with men from time to time. I love hard cock and particularly seeing, feeling and tasting them when they cum. I have a hunch that she was a bad girl in her past, so when she can excuse bringing another man into our bed for me, then I’m pretty sure she will dive in. I had three long term gfs who were unfaithful to me, so i think I developed the hotwife fetish as a coping mechanism for unfaithful women. Now the two interests (bi and Cuck) come together as one.
So I think it's great that you've been able to come out as being bi but even more so that you've been able yourself to accept who you are.
And as for the cuckolding side of things, I think it's a lot more common that many people realise and it can come from a lot of different reason. I hope you and your wife are able to have a great time together exploring both of these together xx