Talking to my wife about my desire to suck cock

[doitforcher]

My wife is a hotwife wannabe and very keen on the idea of having sex with men while I watch. I brought the subject up and she was quickly on board.

We haven’t done anything IRL yet but hope to soon. I’d like to extend the activity to me sucking the bull hard for her and cleaning him up afterwards. I have no gay desires but can’t stop thinking about sucking a cock that’s about to be, or has already been, inside my wife.

How do I bring this subject up with my wife without her thinking I’m gay? I don’t even think I’m bi, I just like the idea of sucking cock in this scenario.

 

[nicebiguy]

My wife is a hotwife wannabe and very keen on the idea of having sex with men while I watch. I brought the subject up and she was quickly on board.

We haven’t done anything IRL yet but hope to soon. I’d like to extend the activity to me sucking the bull hard for her and cleaning him up afterwards. I have no gay desires but can’t stop thinking about sucking a cock that’s about to be, or has already been, inside my wife.

How do I bring this subject up with my wife without her thinking I’m gay? I don’t even think I’m bi, I just like the idea of sucking cock in this scenario.

You have no gay desires but can't stop thinking about sucking a cock? That does not compute Will Robinson.Maybe you should read up on whats gay or bi. I doubt if many straight guys want to suck cock no matter what the reason.

 

[Dragoncpl82]

My wife is a hotwife wannabe and very keen on the idea of having sex with men while I watch. I brought the subject up and she was quickly on board.

We haven’t done anything IRL yet but hope to soon. I’d like to extend the activity to me sucking the bull hard for her and cleaning him up afterwards. I have no gay desires but can’t stop thinking about sucking a cock that’s about to be, or has already been, inside my wife.

How do I bring this subject up with my wife without her thinking I’m gay? I don’t even think I’m bi, I just like the idea of sucking cock in this scenario.

So you are saying you would like the sexual contact of men (insignificant to how), but desire women both sensually and romantically. If you are wanting to label it you would be bisexual but heteroromantic.

I think you will find a good number of cuckolds fit this category. Especially after having this relationship over time. I started out thinking, wow, just watch my wife and not playing with a guy. But joining wife and steady bull over time, led to casual contact, and gradual ...... by both. I ended up loving to suck cock more than my wife. Now that I am older, have some ED but still like sex, I want to take a man in the ass, because it feels great to prostate and turns wife on. Not interested on doing this without wife as she and I are totally committed soul mates. She is the same about doing others without me. Just our thing!

Hey, if you break it down, I think Freud would say all cuckolds are bisexual, because they like to see a nude man please their wife. It is still sexual activity. I would also argue that desiring to suck cock has also been there. Can you actually say that when you were a kid you wouldn't think about or try to suck yourself if it meant getting you off? So society has taught us taboos, that are psychological boundaries that are hard to defeat. Some boundaries are good because the prevent others from getting hurt, while others are just prejudice based on religion, myth or fear. So you have to decide if you let those boundaries prevent you from enjoying yourself, especially if the are not hurting anyone else. Stop worrying about titles.

 

[cuck52]

So you are saying you would like the sexual contact of men (insignificant to how), but desire women both sensually and romantically. If you are wanting to label it you would be bisexual but heteroromantic.

I think you will find a good number of cuckolds fit this category. Especially after having this relationship over time. I started out thinking, wow, just watch my wife and not playing with a guy. But joining wife and steady bull over time, led to casual contact, and gradual ...... by both. I ended up loving to suck cock more than my wife. Now that I am older, have some ED but still like sex, I want to take a man in the ass, because it feels great to prostate and turns wife on. Not interested on doing this without wife as she and I are totally committed soul mates. She is the same about doing others without me. Just our thing!

Hey, if you break it down, I think Freud would say all cuckolds are bisexual, because they like to see a nude man please their wife. It is still sexual activity. I would also argue that desiring to suck cock has also been there. Can you actually say that when you were a kid you wouldn't think about or try to suck yourself if it meant getting you off? So society has taught us taboos, that are psychological boundaries that are hard to defeat. Some boundaries are good because the prevent others from getting hurt, while others are just prejudice based on religion, myth or fear. So you have to decide if you let those boundaries prevent you from enjoying yourself, especially if the are not hurting anyone else. Stop worrying about titles.

Or they're straight and love being humiliated by their wife. What better way to humiliate your husband than make him watch you fuck another man and then make him put the cock that just fucked you in his mouth?

 

[doitforcher]

I think I’d call myself “situationally bi”. I want to suck cock and would enjoy exploring a man’s body while he was fucking my wife. I fantasise about holding his arse while I sick him, and running my hands over his chest. I’ve no desire to kiss another man though or have sex with one (or him have sex with me).

There’s definitely a cuck side to me and I like the idea of tasting my wife on a cock. I also am more sub than dom so a man insisting I get him hard or making me clean him after sex would be a big turn on.

My wife has been understanding of my kinks, regardless of how odd they are (I love pregnant women and the idea of suckling on their tits) but I worry me saying I want to be sexual with another man would be a step too far. In our hotwife fantasies we’ve talked about me enjoying sloppy seconds and rubbing men’s cum into her breasts but no actual contact between me and the man. Should I risk bringing this up?

 

[CostyBC]

I think I’d call myself “situationally bi”. I want to suck cock and would enjoy exploring a man’s body while he was fucking my wife. I fantasise about holding his arse while I sick him, and running my hands over his chest. I’ve no desire to kiss another man though or have sex with one (or him have sex with me).

There’s definitely a cuck side to me and I like the idea of tasting my wife on a cock. I also am more sub than dom so a man insisting I get him hard or making me clean him after sex would be a big turn on.

My wife has been understanding of my kinks, regardless of how odd they are (I love pregnant women and the idea of suckling on their tits) but I worry me saying I want to be sexual with another man would be a step too far. In our hotwife fantasies we’ve talked about me enjoying sloppy seconds and rubbing men’s cum into her breasts but no actual contact between me and the man. Should I risk bringing this up?

Where are u from?

 

[doitforcher]

Where are u from?

Guildford, UK

 

[nicebiguy]

Hetero romantic bisexuals I believe is what most of the “straight” bisexuals are. They are only romantic with women but will do sex acts with men

I like it, that's me.

 

[Dragoncpl82]

Hetero romantic bisexuals I believe is what most of the “straight” bisexuals are. They are only romantic with women but will do sex acts with men

Correct, It is a current psychology term. Where a man may be bisexual for the sake of doing sex, but for relationships is only committed to the other sex. Obviously you can substitute "Poly" for ever term if you are into covering the entire spectrum of LGBTQIA+

 

[doitforcher]

I like it, that's me.

Yes, I think that’s me too

 

[jsaltydog]

So you are saying you would like the sexual contact of men (insignificant to how), but desire women both sensually and romantically. If you are wanting to label it you would be bisexual but heteroromantic.

I think you will find a good number of cuckolds fit this category. Especially after having this relationship over time. I started out thinking, wow, just watch my wife and not playing with a guy. But joining wife and steady bull over time, led to casual contact, and gradual ...... by both. I ended up loving to suck cock more than my wife. Now that I am older, have some ED but still like sex, I want to take a man in the ass, because it feels great to prostate and turns wife on. Not interested on doing this without wife as she and I are totally committed soul mates. She is the same about doing others without me. Just our thing!

Hey, if you break it down, I think Freud would say all cuckolds are bisexual, because they like to see a nude man please their wife. It is still sexual activity. I would also argue that desiring to suck cock has also been there. Can you actually say that when you were a kid you wouldn't think about or try to suck yourself if it meant getting you off? So society has taught us taboos, that are psychological boundaries that are hard to defeat. Some boundaries are good because the prevent others from getting hurt, while others are just prejudice based on religion, myth or fear. So you have to decide if you let those boundaries prevent you from enjoying yourself, especially if the are not hurting anyone else. Stop worrying about titles.

Great response. I had never heard of the term "heteroromantic." I love sucking cock and taking it anally, wife or no wife present. I rarely think of a romantic relationship with another guy. It's only about the sex, oral or anal with me the subordinate. However, I have met a couple of black men that I possibly could have a romantic interest in, but things never progressed that far. One of my fantasies is to find a black married couple who take me into their sex lives, and the three of us develop a love for each other.

 

[nicebiguy]

Great response. I had never heard of the term "heteroromantic." I love sucking cock and taking it anally, wife or no wife present. I rarely think of a romantic relationship with another guy. It's only about the sex, oral or anal with me the subordinate. However, I have met a couple of black men that I possibly could have a romantic interest in, but things never progressed that far. One of my fantasies is to find a black married couple who take me into their sex lives, and the three of us develop a love for each other.

I like the way you think.😍

 

[naturalcucky]

The desire to suck dick becomes very strong after a while. I fantasize about it too! It would be nice if my wife's breasts changed! 😍