So I’m curious as to how some of you have started out in this lifestyle with your partners, I’ve been together with my wife for a while, some of high school, through college and now we’ve been married for over a year together. We’re a young couple (23m/22f) and have never tried anything like this. She has no idea how I feel about this and how I feel about her. I fantasize about sharing her with men I could never compare to. She’s sweet and fun and flirty but I know she has never thought about anything remotely close to this. I don’t want to ruin our relationship but I also want to explore more with her. She’s a goddess in my eyes and deserves the best of the best IMHO. My “darkest” fantasy is watching her slowly giving into another (Black) man’s advances. She occasionally drinks with me and her friends and is kinda known as one of the crazier friends of the group. Would it be wise to try something while she’s ...... or is that a big, fat no-no? We’ve never really had any problems and I’ve never suspected anything nor vice versa (not that I could ever cheat if I even wanted to). There was a spell in college were I was really jealous about some of the friends she had but nothing serious other than that. So my question is, just how on earth should I even go about this? Should i just keep it to myself?
(Posting pic of us at prom, choosing to conceal our faces for now)