Communication is key, talk to her about what you want.
And, yes, she is built for BBC.
And, yes, she is built for BBC.
Curious on how to get started. (Young couple)
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Thank you I agree lol !
Very true. But I feel like she will not take it well if I just flat out say it.
And yes, yes she is. Thank you.
Maybe mention it in pillow talk first and if she is receptive, have a serious conversation with her.
That’s actually a good idea, I’ve never had to tell her to dress up and look sexy, she does that well all on her own. I love the looks we get and I love the attention she gets whenever we’re out. I remember a bouncer hitting on her one time while we were out and at the time I didn’t realize it but I liked it a lot and it turned me on. So yea, that’s a great way to start things off. I can try to subtly let her know that it makes me feel good to know she receives that kind of attention whenever she dresses up and goes out either with or without me. But yea man thanks for sharing. I definitely know it’ll take time.
It took me years to get her aboard but open communication is the key.
If only you were from the the uk🙁
That is how we started. We would be with another man. I noticed my husbamd would just watch more and more. I found out he loves to watch other men ease me sexually. I thought this night was going to be a threesome...but my husband let us playball night as he watched
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The best advice I've seen on hear is to take your time. I started by getting her to go out in a very tight halter neck dress without her knickers, just dress holdups and heels, then giving her the opportunity to flirt and enjoy herself, as she was a very outgoing person that bit was easy, then came showing a little bit more , encouraging her to go out with her mates, I then gave her the freedom to do whatever she wanted, just slipping into the conversation at odd times never pushing just a quick mention then leave it for her to digest for a while, I must mention she is very strong willed and once her mind is set that's it no going back, all this had taken a good 10 years and she was now admitting to flirting with the delivery men that called, but saying it would go no further than that as she was not interested in going out with them , I still continued to encourage her to go but very gently, by the time she was about 33/34 years old the kids were off her hands more and she took a job part time in a local factory, she had been there a while when she told me she had been asked out by a co-worker when I asked more about it she said she had turned him down , now was the time to push a bit more I told her I would love to see her go out and enjoy herself and had no objections at all , she told me a week later she had agreed to meet him for a drink I just said she was free to do whatever she wanted, she came home in the early hours and confessed she had fucked him , a kiss and a cuddle as I told her how much I loved her and enjoyed seeing her free a able to do anything she wanted.
She then told me how much she had enjoyed it and was going again next week, that was it she had got the bug and has had other lovers ever since, it had taken 16 years from the time we were married, we are both 74 years old now so slow and careful is the way don't worry how long it takes you will get there in the end.
She then told me how much she had enjoyed it and was going again next week, that was it she had got the bug and has had other lovers ever since, it had taken 16 years from the time we were married, we are both 74 years old now so slow and careful is the way don't worry how long it takes you will get there in the end.
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