Ok so my wife drives buses with school kids and has for a while been mentioning this other driver on and off - keeps saying stuff like he’s a nice looking man and great physique etc . ( he is 72 and my wife is 62 ) . There’s been talk of him screwing another woman at her work - my wife said although he is married his wife and him have had seperate beds for 30 years . But now he is retiring totally and I think the way she was talking she is interested in him . I have never reacted to anything as had my fingers burnt mentioning another guy - even though she actually came in bed when i spoke dirty to her about her / him so she is well aware of my desire to share her . Was her mentioning the driver her softening up to sharing and how could I subtly guide / lead her to fuck this guy ? . She just seems to be mentioning him and his looks / body a bit often . I thought maybe ask her if he is having like a leaving night from there work - I’m sure she must have his phone no too - something subtle - any ideas ??
Any advice on how to lead her
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Dont be surprised to learn she has been fucking him, now hes retiring she wants you onboard to make it eazy and more often for her/him.. has she fucked others b4, and found you still want her as your wife??
Yes before I met her he was being fucked by her sisters fiancé and later on by her boss at work who was also engaged and think by others too because as usually is the case she is very tight lipped about her past even though she knows I would like to hear all about it . She is aware I would be ok with sharing her , as said in earlier post I’ve already mentioned a guy she worked with at another job she was close with but I crashed and burned so letting her set the pace this time if at all anything happens , I just need to find the right event / time or something to see if they get together , from what she has said she finds him attractive physically and probably sexually too as she mentioned quite a few times about the rumours of him screwing around at work and that was what peaked my interest in this guy
I forgot to mention the best one though - she was cheating on her last partner with a guy she worked with - she denies it but I overheard a phone conversation between them saying that she had told me that she was separated from her ex when she was seeing him ! . If she was single why would it be of interest to him what she was doing and what she had told me - anyway her ex suddenly turned against her and the relationship ended - yes because he had found her out too . Anyhoo she has said during a chat with me that she would prefer someone older not younger and she always has gone bare back - just need that “in “ to get it started - damn !!!
If you want her to fuck other cocks then after you fuck her - start licking her pussy clean - do this every time you fuck her then after the 10th time - while you are licking her pussy - I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier in the day and I am licking his cum from your pussy. It is all about pleasing you not my cock. I am OK being a sissy cuckold.
I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.
Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
Email me back (robbiewillsucku at gm ail) and tell me how she responded and what you are doing now to please her.
I want you to try this on your wife or GF - do this every time when you suck her tit. Suck her tit like a cock. Bounce or bobb your head on her tit just like you would if you were sucking a cock. Do this at least once a week. Third week, start sucking her tit then tell her that you are fantasizing. Hoping she says what are you fantasizing about. If not, suck her tit like a cock then just say -- I am fantasizing that I am sucking your tit like a cock. Don't wait - you say - tell me to suck your tit like a cock. When she tells you to suck her tit like a cock -- sucked harder and deeper.
Three more weeks -- start sucking her tit then you say - tell me to ask --- May I please suck your tit like a cock cause I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker. Repeat it often to yourself and to her while you are sucking her tit. Yes I am a sub sissy faggot cocksucker - yes I am sucking your tit like a cock. Dry hump her while you are sucking her tit like a cock and you might just cum on her leg or in your panties.
Email me back (robbiewillsucku at gm ail) and tell me how she responded and what you are doing now to please her.
Only one major drawback there Robbie - IM STRAIGHT - I know unusual for a crossdresser maybe to be straight but there it is but thank you very much for your input to my dilemma - just can’t seem to get past this hurdle of what would I think of her fucking or / and what would she do / say if someone found out
Have you ‘asked her if she’s going to keep in touch with him when he’s done.’
That conveys consent with no scenarios involving your libidinous designs.
As summer approaches, you could ask if she’d like to have him over for a BBQ. Or make it a small retirement party involving you and some of the other drivers.
That conveys consent with no scenarios involving your libidinous designs.
As summer approaches, you could ask if she’d like to have him over for a BBQ. Or make it a small retirement party involving you and some of the other drivers.
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First, I appreciate you using the term 'lead' as opposed to most others who want to 'get her to' or get someone to 'seduce her'. I'm a widower and got other guys interest. I also get most of why it's a delicate conversation. I don't understand why so many guys can't accept the predominant issue!
Rarely do I hear of men having an open, honest discussion OUT OF BED/INTIMACY solely about his interest in it. Every time it's made about her they get there's more to it. They straight up voice they think you say it so you can see other women. How can she trust you 'just want it for her' when the frequency in which it comes up MUST disrupt her prior attempts to maximize the previous concepts from birth of just two. All of you are usually right when you think there's more to her thinking-why should she tell when she may not all, but knows you aren't telling either.
Certainly it's a risk, delicate. But you'll have a much better chance accepting and possibly agreeing if/when you can accept and trust you've told her truthfully YOUR place and can trust and have faith in it. All women seek and need security in a relationship.
PS Haven't y'all figured out why women ALWAYS take their girl to the bathroom? Answer: the safest place to talk about men without any of them overhearing then getting the stare down. I guarantee one man is going to read this and blurt this out first chance he gets...and in some way parts of that relationship will be cut forever!
I’m not sure but I think she may already have his no but yes that was going to be a first step to open and remain in communication as you just never know and also your idea about a drink /meal retirement is great and I had of something along those lines , that’s the ideas I need to try and see if it might happen - anyone else have some ?
I have an idea - does anyone think this could work ? . We have mentioned between us about how dreams are made up - my idea is to ask her about him retiring or something ordinary - then later say I had a dream about them at his retirement and him asking my wife to get together and leave it at that - so hopefully the seed would be planted and she may ask if my dream came to reality what would I say about that . ? How does that sound - that way I’m leaving the next step up to her - will she mention it or not ??
Snoopissy:
I tend to think the ‘dream department’ is a bit weird. ‘Why were you dreaming about this guy…have you ever met him…where’d that come from … and you dreamed that?!’
More importantly— and more to the point — the dream gig isn’t necessary. In fact I wouldn’t even mention the sexual part.
She comments now and then that this guy is decent looking and is in great shape, She knows he hasn’t had any at home in decades, and that it is rumored that he gets it from her co-worker[s?].
She knows a good deal about him. Is this stuff you casually mention to your husband? Even if she isn’t fantasizing, he clearly made an Impression on her.
The rumors got your attention. Do you suppose it was the same with her?
The next time ‘rumors’ are mentioned, why not ask in a laid-back manner what this woman’s girlfriends are saying…
Women talk. When they do, we should listen. Very carefully.
Make it a working assumption that this guy attracts your wife. She’s intrigued by what she hears. She can well understand another woman responding to him. Very likely, she fantasizes about them having sex — meaning she likely sees herself in that role also, and wonders how it would be for her.
Snoop: in your place, my first objective would be to meet and begin building a friendship with him. Yes, I mean a real friendship. When sex comes up … share that your wife brings home stories … and you’ve reason to think she’s intrigued by what she hears you’re doing .,,
Be ready to tell him everything you’ve said here. If he wants to proceed [of course he does], offer to coach him!
If he does stuff and you find out from HIM, not her, you know she’s ‘hiding’ stuff and she is pushing her boundaries. You tell him that and just watch him up his game exponentially!
Give him quality, ongoing feedback on all their interactions [what works, what doesn’t], teach him about her arousal patterns—likes, turn-offs, where, how and when to do this or that—and feed every bit of info BACK to him and he gets an ENORMOUS advantage!
Once he gets the idea, sees you as fully on board, explain you hope to see her seething in lust and nearly beside herself with desire.
Another thing — imagine how tongues will wag when it comes out that he seduced yet another wife! Your wife!
Imagine other men approaching you with questions … you exploring their thoughts and the like! Where does it end? Who knows!
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Just invite him over for coffee or cocktails. She can be as subtle or direct as she feels comfortable with and see if he's interested. You can put him at ease by asking her to show off a little and let her put on a show for both of you while you praise her looks and maybe her sexual prowess. You'll either get him or scare him off...I'm betting he'll be fucking her before the evening is over with you cheering him on.
Many many thanks for your very helpfully insight and recommendations . I haven’t personally met this guy and she only meets him at certain schools ( she a kids school bus driver ) . Herein lies the problem - there is no chance of getting to know him socially unless my wife introduces us somehow / somewhere - how do I make that happen ? . We move in different circles and I am as you agree motivated by her reaction and obvious attraction to him , maybe boosted by his personal situation and libido . My wife would I think find it strange why I would want a friendship with a guy ?. My only in there might be I think we both share a love for motorcycles . Maybe could meet up for a bike run - that might be an ‘in ‘ - I could get a coffee and leave them to it for a bit , and that would also be a non work situation so no prying eyes or rumours ? . I could also see if she dresses different / tighter top / more make up etc eh . . I just need to be switched off a bit more and as you say see if she pushes any boundaries - although I must add that she has told me several times -quote - ‘I know ALL the tricks and dodges NOT to get caught.. - yes she has cheated before - but before I met her so she will be good at a smokescreen with this and she is aware of my desire to share her .
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