I'm speaking for myself....I'm older, 53....I get attention from a LOT of women, younger and older.
I've never cheated on my wife and I won't. But the attention is a BIG ego stroke for sure.
I've had women ask if she can buy me a drink with my wife sitting right next to me, actually they ask my wife if they can buy me the drink. My polite wife always say yes. Nothing inappropriate has ever happened beyond the complement.
My wife is classy hot and gets more attention than I do of course.