A shift towards being Bi Or just cuck lust

You are a much better writer than I am. And when you wrote ...'hard to explain", you said it best. And becase I only started to suck cocks a coupleu years ago, and becase I have to stay far back in the closet because of my job - that when I do find a guy who will let me suck him, it is the most incredible sexual tension / anticpation ever. And knowing he's going to cum in my mouth makes me rock hard all the time I'm sucking him.
 
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You are a much better writer than I am. And when you wrote ...'hard to explain", you said it best. And becase I only started to suck cocks a coupleu years ago, and becase I have to stay far back in the closet because of my job - that when I do find a guy who will let me suck him, it is the most incredible sexual tension / anticpation ever. And knowing he's going to cum in my mouth makes me rock hard all the time I'm sucking him.
Agree, the tension or anticipation is hot. Knowing that your giving another man pleasure with your mouth and that your effort will be rewarded is very gratifying. For me I am sexually gratified when I can get another man off. Although I would not say I am in the closet, like you because of my job I keep my private life "very" private.
 
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I think my husband may be ready for this. He just has to get overheated in the moment and I think it will happen.
Being Coaxed into doing something
(Forced Bi) some call it depending on your D/s relationship…is truly Hot!! I don’t know that I have ever said No to anything once she / they have gotten me into subspace!!
I would not be surprised if the same wasn’t true for your hubby as well… especially when you praise and reward him afterwards lol Good Luck and Have Fun!!
 
Until you go there, it is hard to imagine how enjoyable the feel of a cock in you mouth is and how tasting the product of your work to bring a man to orgasm can please and satisfy you.
Nevervgoing to.happen i dont get involved with my wife and her fuck partner when they are together
 
Any Husbands who can relate would love to chat and share experiences. Background - At first, I watched my wife getting fucked, that was my focused, he was just the cock fucking her. It was like watching porn, the guy was the performer but the center of my attention was the woman, her body, her tits, her cunt.
But over time my focus shifted to him, his body, his muscles, his cock and balls. I found I was watching him and my wife was just the vessel he was fucking.

I have sucked him several times and he has fucked me once. I wanted to do it.

So what does that mean? I still desire my wife. When he is not around we make love, we fuck. I want to fuck her. But I find I think of him naked, have masturbated thinking of his big cock. When he comes over to fuck my wife, I want to suck him, submit to him if he would want it.

I guess I am bisexual, but if I am honest with myself, I feel there is a stronger desire to be with him than my wife.

Is this normal? Is my sexual desire for him just a result of being in this cuckold relationship or am I more gay than straight? (I now find myself looking at guys, wondering what their cocks look like, what they would look like naked. Something I never consciously did before.)
I'm sorta like that , but I think and also told my wife it's more like I want the fun , or sex that she is getting.
I know when they are having sex those urges are linked to me wanting to be ' him ' in a sense , and how she is having fun with him makes me feel like I'm missing out on some fun I could also be having.

With us ,,, now ,,,, not like in the past, but Now I'm more inclined to want the same thing she enjoys, be it jet skiing, or fishing or her boyfriend, I know they really don't compare but making it simple in terms .

She has a boyfriend and they have fun and we are now a team in this lifestyle so she sucks him , and I do to , she swallows him and I do to she fucked him , But he is kinda not there yet so I'm ok waiting for that , but she wants me to enjoy that when he comes around, and till then I'll wait but not push it .

I am now always asked to join , before I was on the side as we didn't know the lifestyle, she has awakened another side of myself and I enjoy it , BUT it's only in the bedroom for me I'm not outside looking at men but only when her boyfriend is over .
I'm more into spending quality time with my wife and I genuinely Do enjoy the same things she does and likewise .

I have my types of other women and she has her likes n dislikes, she has asked me if she will be able to enjoy a female of my choosing if I bring one home but as of yet I'm not interested in a ffm situation,
But if so , I told her yes as long as it stays the same way as her boyfriend her and I , all 3 of us , I would have no issues with it .

You should try one of my / our favorites,,,
Have her take his load ( after vetted of course ) in her mouth and then fence kiss her non-stop till all his cum disappears.
We love doing this , especially since kissing is so intimate and she will have her boyfriends cum in her mouth while you guys are instantly kissing you both will share his cum and both will enjoy swallowing it , while keeping you "" straight"" .

We do this every time he is with us.
 
Never have but getting more curious the older I get and my wife losing interest in sex with me. I seem to look at bigger cocks on here thinking of them fucking her but also me fluffing them.
I'm sorta like that , but I think and also told my wife it's more like I want the fun , or sex that she is getting.
I know when they are having sex those urges are linked to me wanting to be ' him ' in a sense , and how she is having fun with him makes me feel like I'm missing out on some fun I could also be having.

With us ,,, now ,,,, not like in the past, but Now I'm more inclined to want the same thing she enjoys, be it jet skiing, or fishing or her boyfriend, I know they really don't compare but making it simple in terms .

She has a boyfriend and they have fun and we are now a team in this lifestyle so she sucks him , and I do to , she swallows him and I do to she fucked him , But he is kinda not there yet so I'm ok waiting for that , but she wants me to enjoy that when he comes around, and till then I'll wait but not push it .

I am now always asked to join , before I was on the side as we didn't know the lifestyle, she has awakened another side of myself and I enjoy it , BUT it's only in the bedroom for me I'm not outside looking at men but only when her boyfriend is over .
I'm more into spending quality time with my wife and I genuinely Do enjoy the same things she does and likewise .

I have my types of other women and she has her likes n dislikes, she has asked me if she will be able to enjoy a female of my choosing if I bring one home but as of yet I'm not interested in a ffm situation,
But if so , I told her yes as long as it stays the same way as her boyfriend her and I , all 3 of us , I would have no issues with it .

You should try one of my / our favorites,,,
Have her take his load ( after vetted of course ) in her mouth and then fence kiss her non-stop till all his cum disappears.
We love doing this , especially since kissing is so intimate and she will have her boyfriends cum in her mouth while you guys are instantly kissing you both will share his cum and both will enjoy swallowing it , while keeping you "" straight"" .

We do this every time he is with us.
My wife and I cum kiss every time she sucks another guy off. It is incredibly sexually exciting for me. Sometimes after he cums in her mouth, I'll lie on my back and have her get on top of me, and she will then slowly let his cum drip down out of her moth. Then I scoop it up, and swallow.
 
With most couples it starts out with hubby being a bit awkward and not too involved. As he sees the pleasure that his wife gets from the Bull's cock and gets so aroused himself that he is ready to clean the Bull's semen from her freshly fucked pussy he gets more attracted to that cock. Once he feels a big hard cock pulsing and throbbing in his mouth he is ready to share with the wife.
Wondering myself if I would like it sharing a cock with my wife.
 
I think you have awakened the bi feelings that many many guys have but only find out about when something like this arises. You are also infatuated with him. It is new and exciting. You are an object of attention and desire and get to experience bringing a man to orgasm. Now you see some of what women experience. That is powerful. I suspect the infatuation will wear off over time and you will learn to balance the bi life with your marriage. Until then, keep your head and pay special attention to your wife so she doesn't feel like the relationship is slipping away.

And enjoy it.
Very good response and advice
 
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With most couples it starts out with hubby being a bit awkward and not too involved. As he sees the pleasure that his wife gets from the Bull's cock and gets so aroused himself that he is ready to clean the Bull's semen from her freshly fucked pussy he gets more attracted to that cock. Once he feels a big hard cock pulsing and throbbing in his mouth he is ready to share with the wife.
He got a big cock does that have any to do with wanting to suck him?
 
I have to admit that I always have been curious about other guys' cocks, taking a peek whenever I could to see a guy's cock. But I would never have considered myself to be sexually attracted to guys. Maybe I was but either did not recognize it or did not want to pursue it. My goal, especially hitting puberty, was to fuck girls. I wanted their tits, I wanted to feel my cock in their pussy. When I fucked my girlfriend when I was 17, I was hooked. I wanted to fuck all the time.

I probably would still be focused on fucking woman had I not met and fell in love with my wife, who in retrospect, was more of a hound dog then me and who had already fucked quite a few guys before we met. She was still fucking a guy, her ex bf, while we were dating. That is another story. Anyway, I soon learned that I would not be the sole source of cock for my wife. Seeing her fucked by another guy, I not only watched her but the guy as well. I wanted to see his cock, how big he was, how he looked naked, how he fucked. Yes I focused on my wife's reactions to the guy, the sounds she made, the things she said, how her body reacted to the fucking, but I also paid attention to him, his body, his reactions. Seeing his ass muscles contract and release with each thrust, hearing him grunt, listening to the sounds he made as he got close and eventually cum. Seeing his semi-hard cum and pussy juice covered cock as he pulled out. I found that sexually excited me as well. So I have come to realize I am bi when it comes to sexual excitement. I do not want to be with a man on any kind of regular basis but have had experiences with guys, both my wife's lovers and other men, and I enjoy it.
 
Tengo que admitir que siempre he tenido curiosidad por las pollas de otros chicos, echando un vistazo cada vez que podía para ver la polla de un chico. Pero nunca me habría considerado sexualmente atraída por los chicos. Tal vez lo era, pero no lo reconocí o no quise seguirlo. Mi objetivo, especialmente llegar a la pubertad, era follar con chicas. Quería sus tetas, quería sentir mi polla en su coño. Cuando me follé a mi novia cuando tenía 17 años, estaba enganchado. Quería follar todo el tiempo.

Probablemente todavía estaría enfocado en follar con una mujer si no hubiera conocido y me hubiera enamorado de mi esposa, quien en retrospectiva, era más un perro de caza que yo y que ya había follado con bastantes hombres antes de conocernos. Ella todavía estaba follando con un chico, su ex novio, mientras salíamos. Esa es otra historia. De todos modos, pronto aprendí que no sería la única fuente de polla para mi esposa. Al verla follada por otro chico, no solo la miré a ella sino también al chico. Quería ver su polla, lo grande que era, cómo se veía desnudo, cómo follaba. Sí, me concentré en las reacciones de mi esposa hacia el tipo, los sonidos que hizo, las cosas que dijo, cómo reaccionó su cuerpo al follar, pero también presté atención a él, a su cuerpo, a sus reacciones. Ver los músculos de su trasero contraerse y soltarse con cada embestida, escucharlo gruñir, escuchando los sonidos que hacía cuando se acercaba y eventualmente se corría. Al ver su semen semiduro y el jugo de su coño cubrieron la polla mientras se retiraba. Descubrí que eso también me excitaba sexualmente. Así que me he dado cuenta de que soy bi cuando se trata de excitación sexual. No quiero estar con un hombre de forma regular, pero he tenido experiencias con chicos, tanto los amantes de mi esposa como con otros hombres, y lo disfruto.
I like your story
 
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Seeing naked men is kinda erotic in the right setting.
We enjoy mfm pretty regularly with a guy we know.
It's not him that's sexy...it's the whole dynamic. All of us naked together, seeing him move with her, her move with him, them moving together.
He does look good standing naked and hard. VERY erotic, sexy, hot and exciting to see him pull out after, sperm drip off his wet dick. See her on top and him cum, it oozes out down onto his balls....yea it's fun but I have no desire to play with his dick.
 
This whole narrative of being bi in the Cuckold lifestyle is inappropriate.
A Cuck does what he is told by his Cuckoldress to please her as this lifestyle is
about her and no one else.
A lot of the threads on here are started by people who are not in the lifestyle.
youre mistaken. there are different levels to cuckolding, not just what you say.
 
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