Well, I started getting suspicious when she began going out with a new work friend. I was a student and she was working as a waitress to support us. She met this friend and started going out regularly. Then, when school was out I was offered a good summer job 3 hours away. She pushed hard for me to take it. We were not doing real well and she thought it would be good for us to be apart a bit. When I'd call, she'd often not be home, even late at night. She rarely called or wrote me.
After summer when I moved back, we only lasted about 3 weeks and she moved out. By then I was sure she was cheating on me. She eventually left him, contacted me and said she wanted to try again. That's when she confessed it all....
