When was the first time you realised cuckolding was a ‘thing’?

When my hubby first asked me if he could watch me. We were watching porn. It was cuckold porn. He said that is so hot. I was kind of surprised I just asked him would u like to try that . He said ooo hell yes. I had never seen him so excited. Well wedid it . It took awhile to get it figured out but it has worked for us for a lot of yrs


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I think I replied to this before. I was dating the girl who would become my wife. We were both in High School and back then there was no birth control. So we did the pull out method a lot. condoms once in awhile. J was very attractive and all my friends were always telling me how lucky I was. I would tell my best friend about our sex life and he would tell me how he would love to fuck her. After awhile I started telling my girl how D was craving her. She was a little pissed that I told him we were having sex but thought it was funny how it effected D. after awhile I found myself thinking of J fucking D and being able to watch her getting laid. I started asking her if she would do it and after awhile she started to say yes. We decided that she would pretend to be asleep and naked in my bed. I would invite D to take a peek and then touch her and let one thing lead to another. What J didn't know was Once she saiid yes I told D I thought we could do a 3some with Her. Well it worked perfectly for all of us . I do not know how to explain the feeling of watching your woman doing another guy but it is incredable. I really don't want to be with a guy. I don't want my woman to cheat and I sort of get pissed if a guy hits on her when we are not looking for another guy. But I have let her hook up when I was not there. And she has picked up guys when we have gone out. For mme its the sight of her being fucked or sucking another mans cock.. Or another man going down on her. Telling her what do. and her being so incredablie turned on . Its incredable. most times after they do it first I will join in. Then the other guy would be ready for seconds. Plus we get to talk about it when we have sex . Just be sure you have a safe word. To end it if need be. and you are sure you want to see your woman being totally taken by another man. I have gotten jealouse a few times but never enough to say stop.
 
I admitted to my wife that I knew she had cheated on me years before and even spied on her.
We roll played it sometimes and talked about it even out of bed.
During that time I had been writing erotica about her ...... with another man. One weekend I was going away and got up the nerve to leave one of the stories lying around where she would find it. She texted me and told me that she had masturbated to it and asked if it was something I was really into it. I admitted that it really did turn me on.
When I got home we talked about it and she told me about hotwife/cuckolding. She had googled it. It was a slow burn from there, but we never looked back.
 
20+ years ago, after having sex with her BF my wife told me she was going to have regular sex with him as she had feelings for him. She would see him as often as our schedules permitted. "You are a cuckold, and I love it" was what she said to me, chuckling. I had to look the word up and I learned that cuckolds didn't just happen in old literature and plays. Our sex life was hot, and I didn't complain.