When was the first time you realised cuckolding was a ‘thing’?
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I remember the concept of cuckolding was a frequent topic in Penthouse Forum back in the late 70s and early 80s. A friend and I found a cache of those & other magazines including Screw, Hustler, etc. I remember there was a story in Penthouse called "The Most Perfect Mrs. R" or something similar, about a horny wife who seduces a young guy and cucks her husband. The young guy is really nervous but it turns out the husband enjoys it as much as he does. There was an even better story in one of the raunchier mags, about a white couple who make friends with a big rough black guy. It told of how the white husband at first befriended the guy, and how things slowly progressed to the blonde wife liking him as well, as he was really not dangerous but rather a lovable giant. They ended up in the couple's hot tub together and discovered he was also hung like a horse. They gradually moved to a 3-way relationship where most of the sex was the white guy warming up his wife and cumming quickly, followed by the black guy stretching and then pleasuring the blonde wife with his huge cock for extended periods while the husband watched. Despite it being the 70s it was a story ahead of it's time in that it focused on the wife's feelings and desires more than the guys. How she went from being fearful, to in pain, to being able to handle the big tool, to enjoying it, once she figured out her husband needed to fuck her first to open her up for the BBC. I jerked off like crazy reading that story and while I don't have a copy of it anymore I remember it like yesterday.
It was the same for me - in my teens reading the readers letters in porn mags back in the early ‘70s. I wanked more to the stories of cheating wives or shared wives far more than I did over the pictures. It sowed the seeds of my attraction to slutty women before I’d ever even seen a naked woman in the flesh.
James
In the early 70's I was a regular reader of Penthouse Variations and Gallery Magazines. Each month Variations would have several articles about wife watching or wife sharing. These stories turned me on and I began to seek our everything I could find on the topic. Gallery had Girl Next Door Photos where guys would send in pics of their wives, and also had wife sharing stories. I became hooked and openly shared my exwife with my friends and coworkers, I loved being around guys she screwed. Even though in the 70's I had not heard of the term our relationship slowly took a cuckolding twist. We divorced for non sexual reasons and I have remarried to a woman that knows of my interest and has had had steady boyfriends for years and I love it.
When I looked up Cuckold on the internet why my penis got extremely hard after my wife asked me if she could measure my penis, which I found out later was the result of a wife's night out at a neighbors home where husband's penis size was discussed.
Before marriage at age 24, my wife was with a friend of mine, they were steady with each other, but then he went overseas and their love fizzled out, and I started dating her, after marriage we used to talk about exchanging wifes with a couple we knew, but she was not keen at all, on a work trip I had sex with a colleague but feeling guilty I told my wife about it, she did not mind it, and said that if you just want to fuck someone without feelings thats fine, then slowly I persuaded her to try it out as well, and she is good at it now. So it sort of grew on us.
I don't remember when I realised what a cuckold was fully. When I was a young lad I split up with my girlfriend and found out she'd fucked the guy next door. He was in the navy and was well built. I imagined he had a very large cock and as well as being upset, I was also very turned on by the thought of her being fucked by him. I masturbated furiously with the thought of them fucking, not realising what my needs really were. Years went past and I settled very happily with my now wife. When our sex life wained a bit, I suggested swinging. To my surprise, she was very enthusiastic. So we ventured into that lifestyle which was great fun and very successful. But a slight problem arose when I found myself watching my wife getting fucked and forgetting the lady I was supposed to be pleasuring. It was then I understood what a cuckold really was. My wife was OK with me finding men for her, carefully chosen of course, but she never really understood it, but once the evening arrived and a few drinks later, she was more than happy to enjoy herself. I usually found VWE guys which on occasions she struggled to take, but once warmed up, she came to orgasm very quickly. I loved watching and joining in. If only I'd realised much earlier in my life. That's why people should try things and see if it works for them, if it doesn't, then move on, but if it does, then a lifetime of pleasure is in front of you.
Probably just playing xbox online with all my friends and always hearing people say "you fuckin cuck" lol From there I started to google it and started watching a lot of hotwifing and cuckolding porn and have been hooked ever since. Still debating whether id be into cuckolding or a more stag/vixen dynamic in real life.
I don't recall exactly, but I remember searching for porn of 'wife sucking friend's dick' and the like, and got introduced to the term 'cuck' - after which a whole world opened up to me!
I posted about this earlier but I love this topic. From the first Variations story about wife watching i knew I had hit on something that would be life changing. Luckily my girlfriend who would later become my wife was very sexually active and openly enjoyed screwing my friends and coworkers. She loved the attention of other guys and I got off on her experiences. I cannot explain but the emotions I felt became a turn on. When she screwed one guy I might feel jealous and another i might feel humiliated but I could not get enough. She never did anything to make me feel our marriage was being threatened but it was well know that I was a cuckold and I was fine with it. Would not have changed a thing.
Wonderful story. Thanks for sharing. I got a question, what are you now - a Bull or Cuck?
For me it started when I was in High School. My friends would ask me if I was fucking my girl friend( who became my wife). THis is back in the late 60's. I would tell my best friend and i found myself getting turned on when i told him how she looked and how she reacted to being fingered,and being fucked.
At the same time ,when i had sex with my girlfriend i would tell her how turned on my bud would get when i told him about her body and having sex with her. we both got turned on by this. I asked her if she wouyld like to do it with him If I could arrange it. She was not totally on board with that idea at first. So I said How about you fake your asleep and be nude and I let him take a look. So I told hiim about this plan and invited him to come to my house at a certain time. So when he got there we were in bed and Went and answered the door. We did a little small talk and then I walked him in my room. She was on her back and totally naked. He whispered that she was amazing. She really was!. I said to him go ahead and feel her tit. He did and she didn't flinch or move. She kept her eyes closed like she was asleep. I then told him to feel her pussy. He did and I said finger her. He started to finger her and she started to respond. I told him to keep fingering her and kiss her if he wanted to. He did and she responded. I told him if he wanted to fuck her he would have to promise not to cum in her. because there was no pill yet. With that he got undressed and they totally got into it. and I was hooked. She was hooked and my buddy was getting some fantastic pussy. When he pulled out I told him to cum on her belly and she told him to cum in her mouth and he did . She had sex with him and I for many years after that. When we had sex alone we would sometimes talk about how she fucked him. after my wife past away i shared other woman and current wife.
At the same time ,when i had sex with my girlfriend i would tell her how turned on my bud would get when i told him about her body and having sex with her. we both got turned on by this. I asked her if she wouyld like to do it with him If I could arrange it. She was not totally on board with that idea at first. So I said How about you fake your asleep and be nude and I let him take a look. So I told hiim about this plan and invited him to come to my house at a certain time. So when he got there we were in bed and Went and answered the door. We did a little small talk and then I walked him in my room. She was on her back and totally naked. He whispered that she was amazing. She really was!. I said to him go ahead and feel her tit. He did and she didn't flinch or move. She kept her eyes closed like she was asleep. I then told him to feel her pussy. He did and I said finger her. He started to finger her and she started to respond. I told him to keep fingering her and kiss her if he wanted to. He did and she responded. I told him if he wanted to fuck her he would have to promise not to cum in her. because there was no pill yet. With that he got undressed and they totally got into it. and I was hooked. She was hooked and my buddy was getting some fantastic pussy. When he pulled out I told him to cum on her belly and she told him to cum in her mouth and he did . She had sex with him and I for many years after that. When we had sex alone we would sometimes talk about how she fucked him. after my wife past away i shared other woman and current wife.
Never herd the word cuckold or cuck till I saw it on the internet, 2000-ish ?
But....
Early 80s, I had a sex only gal friend I was fucking, never herd the term, fuck buddy or friend with benefits or side peice. She had a steady boyfriend she said she loved. They would go out then have sex at his place. She would call me from his place on his phone(was way befor cell phones) to see if I was home then she spend 2 hours in my bed. She told me she was still horny after he was done and she liked the sex we were having. I did know the term sloppy seconds and I was good with it. She was not so good looking but had a rock solid body and fucked me silly.
Different gal, she was 41, married, mom of 2. Every Thursday after work she'd stop at my place, we'd fuck 3 rounds often with me unloading in her butt hole. She was very open about how her sex with me helped her and hubby's sex life. He didn't know about me. She often told me how she was going home to fuck him. Cuckold ? I don't know.
Early 80s I lived in a small town, Kmart was the big store. My friend worked at a Video rental place. He'd talk about a steady customer, 40-ish married classy lady that routinely rented porn tapes about blacks and white women. There was no blacks in our town. I don't know if those movies were called Cuckold or not.
I did hear about couples that evidently did enjoy a 2nd guy in their sex life, I thought it was freaking weird. Every early 20s guy dreamed on the 2 girl deal.
But....
Early 80s, I had a sex only gal friend I was fucking, never herd the term, fuck buddy or friend with benefits or side peice. She had a steady boyfriend she said she loved. They would go out then have sex at his place. She would call me from his place on his phone(was way befor cell phones) to see if I was home then she spend 2 hours in my bed. She told me she was still horny after he was done and she liked the sex we were having. I did know the term sloppy seconds and I was good with it. She was not so good looking but had a rock solid body and fucked me silly.
Different gal, she was 41, married, mom of 2. Every Thursday after work she'd stop at my place, we'd fuck 3 rounds often with me unloading in her butt hole. She was very open about how her sex with me helped her and hubby's sex life. He didn't know about me. She often told me how she was going home to fuck him. Cuckold ? I don't know.
Early 80s I lived in a small town, Kmart was the big store. My friend worked at a Video rental place. He'd talk about a steady customer, 40-ish married classy lady that routinely rented porn tapes about blacks and white women. There was no blacks in our town. I don't know if those movies were called Cuckold or not.
I did hear about couples that evidently did enjoy a 2nd guy in their sex life, I thought it was freaking weird. Every early 20s guy dreamed on the 2 girl deal.
Hmmm didn't really start for me til my early teen years (late 80s)..I worked in a candy store that used to sell porn mags. I've always been a HUGE pantyhose leg man, so would love looking at Leg Show mags. The stories and pics in them started getting more n more into the interracial cuckold scene, which peeked my interest. After that, I was solely into black man/white woman sex especially if the white woman had pantyhose or stockings on. So fast forward, my wife wears nylons everytime we have sex and even for her 1st BBC sex 2 weeks ago while I watched ❤️
Before leaving England and moving to New York, I knew nothing about the lifestyle. I was a virgin, young, travelling alone for the first time away from my rural country village void of any diversity. I can tell you hubby knew nothing about the lifestyle before he got married to his first wife. By the time I met him, he had a very defined idea of who he wanted in his life after the failed marriage. He was introduced to a very liberating lifestyle and did not want to stuff the genie back in the box.
I was young 19, lived a sheltered life, now on my own in New York City and wanted very much to explore as much diversity as I could. The guy that took my virginity on the upper westside, was white, with a 7-inch cock. I did not remember much as I was ......, but I did go back for more the next day and enjoyed that and remembered it. Then I met my husband, and the sex and ideas were liberating. No need to pretend, no need to hide my feelings and what I wanted.
We loved reggae and started hanging out at reggae clubs. I can still remember my first BBC. Mike had a fat 9-inch cock. I had never felt anything like it, the intensity, hardness, and the stamina. I was so turned on, I was in NYC and a black man was inside me, pounding me, going deeper than ever before and I was having one orgasm after another. I was being used by both my boyfriend, now husband and a BBC we met at the bar. I was young and scared the next morning not knowing what hubby would think of me, but it was all normal and exciting to him and he made me feel normal and excited as a result and I wanted more and I started planning for more.
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