Well, that is interesting 🤔 It would be interesting to develop the topic further. Why do you think that? What did you experience that made you have that thought?
Anyone else have the same opinion?
Very First Time Husband Feelings
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Anyone else have the same opinion?
Well I think next morning like any other I showered while in the shower I was thinking about the night before… it was more just the thought of wondering how she was feeling after fucking him about me. Then we had breakfast somewhere I don’t think we really talked about it much
Really amazing experience!! You described in a very immersive way the feelings you felt! Would love know more about it.
How long has it been since she was with him and told you the truth? Do you think you fucked her the day she was with him?
Why do you think she caged you at the first time you watch? What do you feel about it?
Our friend was visiting us. I sent my wife to give him a massage. And asked her to do it "with a continuation". And I hinted to him to be bolder, that I would like this. I went into another room. But I overheard. I thought my heart would jump out of my chest. At first it was quiet. Then there were the sounds of kissing. I thought I would not have enough air from excitement. ... when she came out, I asked: yes? She put her hand between her legs, and then brought it to her face: yessss. It seems that she was a little embarrassed, but it was mixed with excitement from the novelty, from what she wanted, from what happened ... I often remember how she held her hand there ... very arousing))
At first, my friend was embarrassed, maybe he was afraid that our relationship could deteriorate. But I calmed him down: everything is fine, also a massage, there))
After that, like other times, I entered the cum-covered pussy. Also a very arousing experience. Although we were still a little embarrassed by the situation)
I would have liked to try licking her pussy after that, but my friend would hardly have understood))
most likely, this is what I wanted most of all, but I think everyone liked it))
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And what do you think your wife think about you after fuck with him?
Btw, very interesting question too!!
What do wifes think about their husbands after start fuck other guys?
Our first time was with a friend at his home, Sure when she seems more into the new cock you may get a touch of jealousy but the horny certainly takes over this. Was more mfm then cuck though. We both enjoyed her all night and all 3 of us came a lot. We didn't sleep and had a long walk home in the morning. We creapt out of his house at around 6am ISH without showering. She left her knickers under his pillow. We talked about what had just happened all the way home obviously stopping to play on the way. Our friend avoided us for over a year after and still says he was drunk and doesn't remember. Needless to say he will never join us again. Maybe he was embarrassed because he's always bragged about his size and skil in the sack. He was definitely medium and she said he was below average in bed. I don't get it. Most people love a good 3sum it's a huge buzz. Usually 3rd person messages all the time requesting another meet.
My experience was similar.
The first time that I knew that my wife was with another man was due to several reasons:
1) I had health issues (temporary, but not sure how long it would last) and I encouraged it.
2) Her best GF is a bit slutty and always talking up scenarios
3) My wife’s GF picked up my wife for an “afternoon winery visit.” Both we’re dressed to kill.
Knowing, or strongly suspecting, that my wife was with another man was gut-wrenching. I didn’t know if it was sex, love or some combination.
When I saw her again, she confessed everything and admitted that it was just sex.
They met a few more times and recently, I was invited to see for myself.
That experience was VERY erotic and I am now excited that my wife has this level of joy from another man.
In hindsight, I wish that I had been physically included from the start.
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I have read this forum for a long time but had to join tonight to respond to this.
We met at 17 years old, married in 1985, although we were always a good partnership our sex life was not great, Jane never seemed to enjoy my roll on roll off quick dip of my skinny 5, never made a single noise, certainly never cum, I knew I was rubbish but always thought I got away with it as she was so nice about it.
Fast forward to 2007 I questioned why she never wanted sex and she said it just didn't excite her and she wasn't that bothered. At the time I was perving online and came across a site called Swingingheaven. I loved the chat rooms and live cams, reading the cuckold stories etc. One night after a few drinks I showed Jane and she sat down at the cam and chatted to people, She then started staying up late after I had gone to bed and seemed to enjoy it.
One morning I playfully asked if anyone had caught her eye, she shocked me, she said yes a guy called James from Birmingham and they chatted most nights, they had a lot in common and she enjoyed chatting with him. I asked if she wanted to meet him and she said yes definitely if I was ok with it.
She suggested I chat with him, so one morning after the kids had gone to school I signed in and found him on cam in chat. There sat a really good looking black guy which I was surprised at tbh, a really nice person to chat to, giving me lots of compliments about Jane etc.
To cut a long story short he came up to our house to meet us. I ended up sitting in the corner of the room watching my, up to now, faithful wife embrace and snog this lovely guy, ignoring me totally like I wasn't in the room.
They got naked, he licked her to orgasm, she sucked his bloody big cock, her hand didn't even close around it, about 9" too... then he slid into her. I had honestly never heard noises like that before, she was in heaven, it was better than any porn I had ever seen. She squirted which panicked her a little, she didn't know what had just happened, in fact neither of us were aware of a woman squirting, he reassured her. She came hard, he moved her from one position to another making her come over and over, then it hit me................I was witnessing the loss of my wife of 22 years sexually to a much better man.
I honestly could of cried, it hurt so bad, I knew there was no going back. My excitement had disappeared and was replaced by panic. He was relentless. Even in between fucks they just kissed and cuddled, whispering sweet nothings to each other, then back to fucking,
She actually wept as she cuddled me after he had gone and said sorry. She was actually apologising for having the best sex she had ever had in her life, apologising for coming from penetration for the first time ever, it was a crazy situation and messed my head up so much!
That evening in bed we were kissing, my skinny little 5 was hard and I took for granted I could roll on, WRONG, she said where do you think you are going with that little thing....... I don't think so Mr and laughed. That was the first time in 22+ years she had actually commented on my size.
That was me pretty much finished sexually, we have met lots of black guys over the years and she has loved every one. Very rarely was I allowed inside her again and about 8 years ago she cut me off altogether, but we are still in love and great friends.
Has anything happened like this to anyone else?
We met at 17 years old, married in 1985, although we were always a good partnership our sex life was not great, Jane never seemed to enjoy my roll on roll off quick dip of my skinny 5, never made a single noise, certainly never cum, I knew I was rubbish but always thought I got away with it as she was so nice about it.
Fast forward to 2007 I questioned why she never wanted sex and she said it just didn't excite her and she wasn't that bothered. At the time I was perving online and came across a site called Swingingheaven. I loved the chat rooms and live cams, reading the cuckold stories etc. One night after a few drinks I showed Jane and she sat down at the cam and chatted to people, She then started staying up late after I had gone to bed and seemed to enjoy it.
One morning I playfully asked if anyone had caught her eye, she shocked me, she said yes a guy called James from Birmingham and they chatted most nights, they had a lot in common and she enjoyed chatting with him. I asked if she wanted to meet him and she said yes definitely if I was ok with it.
She suggested I chat with him, so one morning after the kids had gone to school I signed in and found him on cam in chat. There sat a really good looking black guy which I was surprised at tbh, a really nice person to chat to, giving me lots of compliments about Jane etc.
To cut a long story short he came up to our house to meet us. I ended up sitting in the corner of the room watching my, up to now, faithful wife embrace and snog this lovely guy, ignoring me totally like I wasn't in the room.
They got naked, he licked her to orgasm, she sucked his bloody big cock, her hand didn't even close around it, about 9" too... then he slid into her. I had honestly never heard noises like that before, she was in heaven, it was better than any porn I had ever seen. She squirted which panicked her a little, she didn't know what had just happened, in fact neither of us were aware of a woman squirting, he reassured her. She came hard, he moved her from one position to another making her come over and over, then it hit me................I was witnessing the loss of my wife of 22 years sexually to a much better man.
I honestly could of cried, it hurt so bad, I knew there was no going back. My excitement had disappeared and was replaced by panic. He was relentless. Even in between fucks they just kissed and cuddled, whispering sweet nothings to each other, then back to fucking,
She actually wept as she cuddled me after he had gone and said sorry. She was actually apologising for having the best sex she had ever had in her life, apologising for coming from penetration for the first time ever, it was a crazy situation and messed my head up so much!
That evening in bed we were kissing, my skinny little 5 was hard and I took for granted I could roll on, WRONG, she said where do you think you are going with that little thing....... I don't think so Mr and laughed. That was the first time in 22+ years she had actually commented on my size.
That was me pretty much finished sexually, we have met lots of black guys over the years and she has loved every one. Very rarely was I allowed inside her again and about 8 years ago she cut me off altogether, but we are still in love and great friends.
Has anything happened like this to anyone else?
Did she tell you all the details about that very first time? How did you feel while she told you? What were the most difficult words you heard from her mouth?
WOW! Here's something all should read!
How do you feel about it?
First of all, how did you feel that very first time when she denied you sex and made fun about your size?
The first time, I could never forget it; the impact was so profound that it still affects me today. I was out with a friend, for a ride. She told me she’d be going out too, in Paris, with some girlfriends to a restaurant. She even gave me the name of the place. To give you some context, we had been together for barely a year, and I had already moved in with her. We were in love, everything was going great, including our sex life (especially for me, since I had no experience before her despite being 25, she was 27). Photos, videos, anal, double dildos, outdoor, sex toys... she was a fantasy for me. But let’s get back to that evening. I came home sooner... and there she was... but not alone. She was with her ex. He was naked, and she was just in a thong. I flew into a blind rage and tried to beat him up, scaring him half to death. I even broke down the bathroom door he had locked himself behind, pounding it with my fists until it gave way. He ended up fleeing naked in the street after taking a few hits, held back only by my wife. It took me hours to calm down after unleashing a torrent of insults on her, even calling her friends to expose and humiliate her. Once I had settled down, I needed to know every detail of what had happened that evening. It turned out that it had been planned, and she had never actually gone out with her friends. She hadn’t intended for things to go that far with her ex, but he was persistent. When he exposed himself, she couldn’t resist and gave him oral, then it gone further with her dildos. Throughout her story, I kept insisting that she not leave out any details, no matter how painful or humiliating for me. It was strange, despite the agony of hearing her recount it, I found myself aroused like never before. She admitted that she no longer had feelings for him, but he still turned her on and was a good lover. She assured me she truly loved me, but she love sex too and had desires beyond what I could offer, in ways she couldn’t fully articulate. It took me a long time to process everything and think about how to react. I was clearly in love with her and terrified of losing her. I realized I was the only one at a disadvantage. She seemed to love me sincerely (she told me that very morning that I was her soulmate). So, somewhat incredulously, I suggested we find a solution together, something fair. We decided to visit a swingers club. We went a few weeks later, but the tension between us was still too raw, so nothing happened. We talked it over and agreed that from then on, we would be completely honest with each other for the sake of our relationship’s future. She admitted she would like to participated at the club, but my presence held her back because she felt I wasn’t open enough. We agreed she would have carte blanche next time because she was eager to explore. It reminded me of something she had mentioned before, which I hadn’t really taken in : in life, you can’t judge without experience. She don’t want to miss out on anything. We must not have prejudices, set limits or close doors. Better to have remorse than regret. And i knew at this moment that it extended to sex. When we returned to the club, I still felt uneasy. She reminded me that we had agreed she was free... and she went to enjoy herself. That night, she had her first bisexual encounter with a couple. I watched but too shy to participate. She was stunning, so beautiful, and...slutty. Since then, I’ve accepted this lifestyle, and sometimes I even take part in it. However, her open-mindedness and curiosity aren’t always to my taste, so for over 20 years now, she’s had practices I disapprove of but that she continues on her own. We are happy...i guess.
I felt intense shame, I couldn't look them in the eyes and I wanted to run away or turn back time
And the hardest part is now when my wife told me what you will do you can no longer feel that you were not a cuckold even if you stop it so you better get used to it
And the hardest part is now when my wife told me what you will do you can no longer feel that you were not a cuckold even if you stop it so you better get used to it
Yes, my wife shared the events of the evening, in what I would say was riveting detail.
To back up, the way that I knew that she was with someone else was because my wife left the house to go to a winery with her sexy GF. And hour later, I got a credit card alert that a room had been charged at a local hotel. The next morning, my wife invited me to said hotel and as I willingly licked her clean, she described all of the details.
So yes, she shared the details and my reaction was one of a very excited man!
The most difficult words to hear, out of her mouth was “in the beginning, as I stood there naked and he passionately kissed me, I almost came right there in his arms from his kisses.” That was a total shock and gut-punch.
Yes, my wife shared the events of the evening, in what I would say was riveting detail.
To back up, the way that I knew that she was with someone else was because my wife left the house to go to a winery with her sexy GF. And hour later, I got a credit card alert that a room had been charged at a local hotel. The next morning, my wife invited me to said hotel and as I willingly licked her clean, she described all of the details.
So yes, she shared the details and my reaction was one of a very excited man!
The most difficult words to hear out of her mouth that morning was “in the first 30 minutes, as I stood there totally naked and wrapped in his arms as he touched my body, he passionately kissed me. And I swear that I almost came right there, his strong arms around me and his lips on mine. Just from his passingly kisses. I definitely felt my pussy drip!”
That was a total shock and gut-punch.
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Love proud of my wife. I love seeing her confidence in her self when she's getting so much attention. The emotional ride is impossible to describe until you've been through it. While the first time was intense so was every other time. That was all years ago. She hasn't played in years but even now something from that past will remind me of some adventure in the past and I'll casually hint about it and she gets that cat that ate the canary look. I just love her.
For me the first time was like i was pretty certain i knew what i wanted but had a tiny bit of me that was like well what if it turns out bad and i do not want it and then i would have regret and it would be too late.
So luckily things worked out slowly and on the first night it started out with me watching her making out with another guy for a good bit of time while i stood there waiting and watching and when all i could feel was excitement with alot of arrousal that is when i knew i was good and ready for more. We spent alot of time talking things out and discussing everything and pre planning as much as possible.
The 2nd time was more of a group thing so i participated quite a bit. Other guy started off and we switch back and forth when someone got tired or whatever so this lasted quite some time. I spent alot of time watching, taking photos and just enjoying seeing her satisfaction and excitement.
3rd time she went to his place alone while i was at work, sent me photos and videos and gave every detail while later on ne and her spent alot of time cgatting about it, watching video togeather and enjoying the excitement togeather.
So i would say i felt very good about every part of it with no regrets or bad feelings about it one bit. There was no jelousy at all i would say because i was not ignored or left out of anything so she kept me involved with every bit of it. Overall i found it to be very hot and erotic, extremely exciting and arousing with the best orgasms either of us have ever had. I was never worried or concerned at all mostly because the other guy was a descent person and respected our wishes otherwise i could see it turning out worse if that were not the case. It was all a great experience and much fun would not hessitate to do again with the right people.
So luckily things worked out slowly and on the first night it started out with me watching her making out with another guy for a good bit of time while i stood there waiting and watching and when all i could feel was excitement with alot of arrousal that is when i knew i was good and ready for more. We spent alot of time talking things out and discussing everything and pre planning as much as possible.
The 2nd time was more of a group thing so i participated quite a bit. Other guy started off and we switch back and forth when someone got tired or whatever so this lasted quite some time. I spent alot of time watching, taking photos and just enjoying seeing her satisfaction and excitement.
3rd time she went to his place alone while i was at work, sent me photos and videos and gave every detail while later on ne and her spent alot of time cgatting about it, watching video togeather and enjoying the excitement togeather.
So i would say i felt very good about every part of it with no regrets or bad feelings about it one bit. There was no jelousy at all i would say because i was not ignored or left out of anything so she kept me involved with every bit of it. Overall i found it to be very hot and erotic, extremely exciting and arousing with the best orgasms either of us have ever had. I was never worried or concerned at all mostly because the other guy was a descent person and respected our wishes otherwise i could see it turning out worse if that were not the case. It was all a great experience and much fun would not hessitate to do again with the right people.
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