Very First Time Husband Feelings

I think the first time watching them was easier than the first time she went with him alone. There were a lot more feelings for me….probably because I had more time by myself to think and wonder what was happening.
Well, that is interesting 🤔 It would be interesting to develop the topic further. Why do you think that? What did you experience that made you have that thought?
Anyone else have the same opinion?
 
Thanks! Don't know exactly why, but I think next morning can be mortifying 😅
Want express a little more about it? What did you both do? How long did you feel like that? Was only the "if she thinks I don't love her" feeling or did you think about other things too?

Well I think next morning like any other I showered while in the shower I was thinking about the night before… it was more just the thought of wondering how she was feeling after fucking him about me. Then we had breakfast somewhere I don’t think we really talked about it much
 
When my wife made me a cuckold, I learned after the fact. It was my birthday and she informed me while we were waiting for our food at a restaurant. I think she did it in a public place to help control my reaction.

I had lots of emotions going through me, when she told me. Upset, jealous, denial, surprise and excitement. I had to remind myself that I had asked for this and it was honestly an incredible gift from my wife to fulfill this fantasy. I wanted to ask her a lot of questions, but all I asked was if she had enjoyed herself.

Later we talked and I told her it was ok to be with him again, if she wanted too. All I asked was to let me know after the fact that she had been with him. It wasn’t very long before she was with him a couple times a week.

A few months later, on Valentine’s Day, I got to watch the first time. Watching them kiss and when she took his cock into her mouth, I was jealous but mesmerized. When I saw his cock disappear into my wife’s pussy, I was speechless. My wife gave a low grunt as it disappeared into her. Then as he slide it in and out of her, the way she squirmed and moaned and groaned, it was incredible. In order to watch, I had to be caged, and my cock was straining and crying ‘tears of joy’ as she enjoyed his cock. I was euphoric when I heard him grunt and I knew he was depositing himself inside her. It was one the best things I had every watched.
Really amazing experience!! You described in a very immersive way the feelings you felt! Would love know more about it.

How long has it been since she was with him and told you the truth? Do you think you fucked her the day she was with him?

Why do you think she caged you at the first time you watch? What do you feel about it?
 
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Well I think next morning like any other I showered while in the shower I was thinking about the night before… it was more just the thought of wondering how she was feeling after fucking him about me. Then we had breakfast somewhere I don’t think we really talked about it much
And what do you think your wife think about you after fuck with him?

Btw, very interesting question too!!
What do wifes think about their husbands after start fuck other guys?
 
Our first time was with a friend at his home, Sure when she seems more into the new cock you may get a touch of jealousy but the horny certainly takes over this. Was more mfm then cuck though. We both enjoyed her all night and all 3 of us came a lot. We didn't ...... and had a long walk home in the morning. We creapt out of his house at around 6am ISH without showering. She left her knickers under his pillow. We talked about what had just happened all the way home obviously stopping to play on the way. Our friend avoided us for over a year after and still says he was ...... and doesn't remember. Needless to say he will never join us again. Maybe he was embarrassed because he's always bragged about his size and skil in the sack. He was definitely medium and she said he was below average in bed. I don't get it. Most people love a good 3sum it's a huge buzz. Usually 3rd person messages all the time requesting another meet.
 
Well, that is interesting 🤔 It would be interesting to develop the topic further. Why do you think that? What did you experience that made you have that thought?
Anyone else have the same opinion?
My experience was similar.
The first time that I knew that my wife was with another man was due to several reasons:
1) I had health issues (temporary, but not sure how long it would last) and I encouraged it.
2) Her best GF is a bit slutty and always talking up scenarios
3) My wife’s GF picked up my wife for an “afternoon winery visit.” Both we’re dressed to .......

Knowing, or strongly suspecting, that my wife was with another man was gut-wrenching. I didn’t know if it was sex, love or some combination.
When I saw her again, she confessed everything and admitted that it was just sex.

They met a few more times and recently, I was invited to see for myself.

That experience was VERY erotic and I am now excited that my wife has this level of joy from another man.

In hindsight, I wish that I had been physically included from the start.
 
I have read this forum for a long time but had to join tonight to respond to this.

We met at 17 years old, married in 1985, although we were always a good partnership our sex life was not great, Jane never seemed to enjoy my roll on roll off quick dip of my skinny 5, never made a single noise, certainly never cum, I knew I was rubbish but always thought I got away with it as she was so nice about it.

Fast forward to 2007 I questioned why she never wanted sex and she said it just didn't excite her and she wasn't that bothered. At the time I was perving online and came across a site called Swingingheaven. I loved the chat rooms and live cams, reading the cuckold stories etc. One night after a few drinks I showed Jane and she sat down at the cam and chatted to people, She then started staying up late after I had gone to bed and seemed to enjoy it.

One morning I playfully asked if anyone had caught her eye, she shocked me, she said yes a guy called James from Birmingham and they chatted most nights, they had a lot in common and she enjoyed chatting with him. I asked if she wanted to meet him and she said yes definitely if I was ok with it.

She suggested I chat with him, so one morning after the kids had gone to school I signed in and found him on cam in chat. There sat a really good looking black guy which I was surprised at tbh, a really nice person to chat to, giving me lots of compliments about Jane etc.

To cut a long story short he came up to our house to meet us. I ended up sitting in the corner of the room watching my, up to now, faithful wife embrace and snog this lovely guy, ignoring me totally like I wasn't in the room.

They got naked, he licked her to orgasm, she sucked his bloody big cock, her hand didn't even close around it, about 9" too... then he slid into her. I had honestly never heard noises like that before, she was in heaven, it was better than any porn I had ever seen. She squirted which panicked her a little, she didn't know what had just happened, in fact neither of us were aware of a woman squirting, he reassured her. She came hard, he moved her from one position to another making her come over and over, then it hit me................I was witnessing the loss of my wife of 22 years sexually to a much better man.

I honestly could of cried, it hurt so bad, I knew there was no going back. My excitement had disappeared and was replaced by panic. He was relentless. Even in between fucks they just kissed and cuddled, whispering sweet nothings to each other, then back to fucking,

She actually wept as she cuddled me after he had gone and said sorry. She was actually apologising for having the best sex she had ever had in her life, apologising for coming from penetration for the first time ever, it was a crazy situation and messed my head up so much!

That evening in bed we were kissing, my skinny little 5 was hard and I took for granted I could roll on, WRONG, she said where do you think you are going with that little thing....... I don't think so Mr and laughed. That was the first time in 22+ years she had actually commented on my size.

That was me pretty much finished sexually, we have met lots of black guys over the years and she has loved every one. Very rarely was I allowed inside her again and about 8 years ago she cut me off altogether, but we are still in love and great friends.

Has anything happened like this to anyone else?
 
My experience was similar.
The first time that I knew that my wife was with another man was due to several reasons:
1) I had health issues (temporary, but not sure how long it would last) and I encouraged it.
2) Her best GF is a bit slutty and always talking up scenarios
3) My wife’s GF picked up my wife for an “afternoon winery visit.” Both we’re dressed to .......

Knowing, or strongly suspecting, that my wife was with another man was gut-wrenching. I didn’t know if it was sex, love or some combination.
When I saw her again, she confessed everything and admitted that it was just sex.

They met a few more times and recently, I was invited to see for myself.

That experience was VERY erotic and I am now excited that my wife has this level of joy from another man.

In hindsight, I wish that I had been physically included from the start.
Did she tell you all the details about that very first time? How did you feel while she told you? What were the most difficult words you heard from her mouth?
 
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I have read this forum for a long time but had to join tonight to respond to this.

We met at 17 years old, married in 1985, although we were always a good partnership our sex life was not great, Jane never seemed to enjoy my roll on roll off quick dip of my skinny 5, never made a single noise, certainly never cum, I knew I was rubbish but always thought I got away with it as she was so nice about it.

Fast forward to 2007 I questioned why she never wanted sex and she said it just didn't excite her and she wasn't that bothered. At the time I was perving online and came across a site called Swingingheaven. I loved the chat rooms and live cams, reading the cuckold stories etc. One night after a few drinks I showed Jane and she sat down at the cam and chatted to people, She then started staying up late after I had gone to bed and seemed to enjoy it.

One morning I playfully asked if anyone had caught her eye, she shocked me, she said yes a guy called James from Birmingham and they chatted most nights, they had a lot in common and she enjoyed chatting with him. I asked if she wanted to meet him and she said yes definitely if I was ok with it.

She suggested I chat with him, so one morning after the kids had gone to school I signed in and found him on cam in chat. There sat a really good looking black guy which I was surprised at tbh, a really nice person to chat to, giving me lots of compliments about Jane etc.

To cut a long story short he came up to our house to meet us. I ended up sitting in the corner of the room watching my, up to now, faithful wife embrace and snog this lovely guy, ignoring me totally like I wasn't in the room.

They got naked, he licked her to orgasm, she sucked his bloody big cock, her hand didn't even close around it, about 9" too... then he slid into her. I had honestly never heard noises like that before, she was in heaven, it was better than any porn I had ever seen. She squirted which panicked her a little, she didn't know what had just happened, in fact neither of us were aware of a woman squirting, he reassured her. She came hard, he moved her from one position to another making her come over and over, then it hit me................I was witnessing the loss of my wife of 22 years sexually to a much better man.

I honestly could of cried, it hurt so bad, I knew there was no going back. My excitement had disappeared and was replaced by panic. He was relentless. Even in between fucks they just kissed and cuddled, whispering sweet nothings to each other, then back to fucking,

She actually wept as she cuddled me after he had gone and said sorry. She was actually apologising for having the best sex she had ever had in her life, apologising for coming from penetration for the first time ever, it was a crazy situation and messed my head up so much!

That evening in bed we were kissing, my skinny little 5 was hard and I took for granted I could roll on, WRONG, she said where do you think you are going with that little thing....... I don't think so Mr and laughed. That was the first time in 22+ years she had actually commented on my size.

That was me pretty much finished sexually, we have met lots of black guys over the years and she has loved every one. Very rarely was I allowed inside her again and about 8 years ago she cut me off altogether, but we are still in love and great friends.

Has anything happened like this to anyone else?
WOW! Here's something all should read!
How do you feel about it?

First of all, how did you feel that very first time when she denied you sex and made fun about your size?
 
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The first time, I could never forget it; the impact was so profound that it still affects me today. I was out with a friend, for a ride. She told me she’d be going out too, in Paris, with some girlfriends to a restaurant. She even gave me the name of the place. To give you some context, we had been together for barely a year, and I had already moved in with her. We were in love, everything was going great, including our sex life (especially for me, since I had no experience before her despite being 25, she was 27). Photos, videos, anal, double dildos, outdoor, sex toys... she was a fantasy for me. But let’s get back to that evening. I came home sooner... and there she was... but not alone. She was with her ex. He was naked, and she was just in a thong. I flew into a blind rage and tried to beat him up, scaring him half to death. I even broke down the bathroom door he had locked himself behind, pounding it with my fists until it gave way. He ended up fleeing naked in the street after taking a few hits, held back only by my wife. It took me hours to calm down after unleashing a torrent of insults on her, even calling her friends to expose and humiliate her. Once I had settled down, I needed to know every detail of what had happened that evening. It turned out that it had been planned, and she had never actually gone out with her friends. She hadn’t intended for things to go that far with her ex, but he was persistent. When he exposed himself, she couldn’t resist and gave him oral, then it gone further with her dildos. Throughout her story, I kept insisting that she not leave out any details, no matter how painful or humiliating for me. It was strange, despite the agony of hearing her recount it, I found myself aroused like never before. She admitted that she no longer had feelings for him, but he still turned her on and was a good lover. She assured me she truly loved me, but she love sex too and had desires beyond what I could offer, in ways she couldn’t fully articulate. It took me a long time to process everything and think about how to react. I was clearly in love with her and terrified of losing her. I realized I was the only one at a disadvantage. She seemed to love me sincerely (she told me that very morning that I was her soulmate). So, somewhat incredulously, I suggested we find a solution together, something fair. We decided to visit a swingers club. We went a few weeks later, but the tension between us was still too raw, so nothing happened. We talked it over and agreed that from then on, we would be completely honest with each other for the sake of our relationship’s future. She admitted she would like to participated at the club, but my presence held her back because she felt I wasn’t open enough. We agreed she would have carte blanche next time because she was eager to explore. It reminded me of something she had mentioned before, which I hadn’t really taken in : in life, you can’t judge without experience. She don’t want to miss out on anything. We must not have prejudices, set limits or close doors. Better to have remorse than regret. And i knew at this moment that it extended to sex. When we returned to the club, I still felt uneasy. She reminded me that we had agreed she was free... and she went to enjoy herself. That night, she had her first bisexual encounter with a couple. I watched but too shy to participate. She was stunning, so beautiful, and...slutty. Since then, I’ve accepted this lifestyle, and sometimes I even take part in it. However, her open-mindedness and curiosity aren’t always to my taste, so for over 20 years now, she’s had practices I disapprove of but that she continues on her own. We are happy...i guess.
 
Did she tell you all the details about that very first time? How did you feel while she told you? What were the most difficult words you heard from her mouth?
Yes, my wife shared the events of the evening, in what I would say was riveting detail.
To back up, the way that I knew that she was with someone else was because my wife left the house to go to a winery with her sexy GF. And hour later, I got a credit card alert that a room had been charged at a local hotel. The next morning, my wife invited me to said hotel and as I willingly licked her clean, she described all of the details.
So yes, she shared the details and my reaction was one of a very excited man!

The most difficult words to hear, out of her mouth was “in the beginning, as I stood there naked and he passionately kissed me, I almost came right there in his arms from his kisses.” That was a total shock and gut-punch.
 
Did she tell you all the details about that very first time? How did you feel while she told you? What were the most difficult words you heard from her mouth?
Yes, my wife shared the events of the evening, in what I would say was riveting detail.
To back up, the way that I knew that she was with someone else was because my wife left the house to go to a winery with her sexy GF. And hour later, I got a credit card alert that a room had been charged at a local hotel. The next morning, my wife invited me to said hotel and as I willingly licked her clean, she described all of the details.
So yes, she shared the details and my reaction was one of a very excited man!

The most difficult words to hear out of her mouth that morning was “in the first 30 minutes, as I stood there totally naked and wrapped in his arms as he touched my body, he passionately kissed me. And I swear that I almost came right there, his strong arms around me and his lips on mine. Just from his passingly kisses. I definitely felt my pussy drip!”

That was a total shock and gut-punch.
 
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I don’t think you can ever forget the first time. My first time (and every other time) I was not present with my wife and her bf.

I agree with most of the previous respondents where it truly is a mix of some of the most opposite feelings. Excitement, shame, time flying by and seeming standing still.

For us, my wife and her now bf spent a good amount of time over the course of a couple months reconnecting as friends so the fact that she was gone wasn’t anything new for me. When we knew that they were going to try to move beyond a platonic friendship, the angst and the knot in my stomach during their first night together was unavoidable for me. My wife did check in a couple of times thought the night and offered me a couple last chances to veto anything from moving forward. I’d be lying if I told you all that I didn’t consider pulling the plug early just to alleviate some anxiety, but obviously I’m glad I didn’t and they went through with it.

After knowing that she’d spend the night, that was probably the longest night of my life. I couldn’t really ...... partially due to excitement, partially due to worry about opening Pandora’s box, but mainly I was proud of my wife for putting herself out there and trying something new.
Love proud of my wife. I love seeing her confidence in her self when she's getting so much attention. The emotional ride is impossible to describe until you've been through it. While the first time was intense so was every other time. That was all years ago. She hasn't played in years but even now something from that past will remind me of some adventure in the past and I'll casually hint about it and she gets that cat that ate the canary look. I just love her.
 
For me the first time was like i was pretty certain i knew what i wanted but had a tiny bit of me that was like well what if it turns out bad and i do not want it and then i would have regret and it would be too late.

So luckily things worked out slowly and on the first night it started out with me watching her making out with another guy for a good bit of time while i stood there waiting and watching and when all i could feel was excitement with alot of arrousal that is when i knew i was good and ready for more. We spent alot of time talking things out and discussing everything and pre planning as much as possible.
The 2nd time was more of a group thing so i participated quite a bit. Other guy started off and we switch back and forth when someone got tired or whatever so this lasted quite some time. I spent alot of time watching, taking photos and just enjoying seeing her satisfaction and excitement.
3rd time she went to his place alone while i was at work, sent me photos and videos and gave every detail while later on ne and her spent alot of time cgatting about it, watching video togeather and enjoying the excitement togeather.
So i would say i felt very good about every part of it with no regrets or bad feelings about it one bit. There was no jelousy at all i would say because i was not ignored or left out of anything so she kept me involved with every bit of it. Overall i found it to be very hot and erotic, extremely exciting and arousing with the best orgasms either of us have ever had. I was never worried or concerned at all mostly because the other guy was a descent person and respected our wishes otherwise i could see it turning out worse if that were not the case. It was all a great experience and much fun would not hessitate to do again with the right people.
 
My wife, Candy, got fucked by another man in front of me for the first time at Club Trapeze in Atlanta Georgia.

The anticipation of that night, watching my beautiful sexy wife prepare herself for a night of sexual desire and adventure was such a turn on. I’d fantasized about watching her kissing and being fondled by another man for years. Going out to a swinger club had super charged our sex drives!!
We went with another experienced swinger couple we had met online, Frank and Linda.
We had booked rooms at the same hotel, met earlier that evening for drinks and then dinner at the Club. We all felt a sexy connection with each other. Rare, but it does happen.

Fast forward to after dinner and a few more drinks at the club.

I looked across the crowd and there she was, my sexy hot wife on the dance floor! My heart was pounding out of my chest. She was rubbing and grinding her ass against our new friend’s bulging crotch. Frank had his hands on her hips pulling her tight and grinding back. She glanced in my direction, stared into my eyes, licked her lips, winked at me, and turned to face Frank. She was teasing me!

Oh DAMN! I could hardly stand it! I was flush with emotions; excitement, jealously, passion, desire, fear, lust, all at once!!
I watched as she locked her arms around Franks neck and started French-kissing him. I could see their tongues touching and teasing each other. He had his hands under her tight skirt firmly gripping her ass cheeks. I watched as he felt his way to her pussy. I was breathing hard, my mouth was dry, I could feel my blood boiling. I felt excited, angry with fear and lust at the same time. I felt so very alive.

My cock was rock hard thinking about her pussy being fingered by him, knowing how wet and turned on she was.
I watched as my wife looked deep in his eyes then closed them as pleasure washed over her.
She backed up against his body. Opened her legs allowing him easier access to her wet pussy. I watched, mesmerized, and saw her rocking and rolling her hips as he fingered her. Candy opened her eyes to see me staring at her. She mouthed the words, “Lets Fuck, "Lets Fuck N.O.W.”

Linda, Franks wife, turned to me and felt my hard dick straining to be free. Linda announced; “ Lets go get a private play room!”

We got naked in a flash in the locker room, grabbed some towels and found a empty play room. My wife got down on her knees and deep throated my cock! Linda and Frank came in the room and Linda joined Candy sucking my balls !

My wife, Candy, took that as a que and went to Frank. Linda continued to suck me and in no time I felt my dick start to pulse. I stopped her, helped her up on the bed, and went down licking her sweet pussy.

I looked up and saw my wife on the bed next to us. She was on her hands and knees and backed her pussy up against Franks hard cock. The look of lust on her face and hearing her call out, “ Fuck me Frank, fill my pussy!”

Knowing my wife wanted another man was an excited high feeling. Frank grabbed her hips and thrust his cock into her. My wife gasped and started bucking, working Frank in deep. I watched her big tits violently jolt with each smacking thrust of his cock. It was a gut wrenching experience watching my wife enjoy being fucked like a whore. It felt like she was being rapped. No caressing no sensuous love making like we did together, just pure animal lust! She was being FUCKED! and Fucked Good and Hard!

I heard my wife's distinct moans and cries of pleasure and that excited me. I was completely mesmerized and ignoring Linda who was now just watching them with me.
I felt sad, horny, jealous, excited, depressed, angry, full of lust, all at the same time.
Linda, Franks wife, whispered into my ear, “Watch your wife fuck him, watch your wife fuck him good”. Candy, my loyal monogamous wife did just that. Frank remained still and Candy rocked back and forth violently empaling herself on his fat cock. In and out of her pussy she forced his cock. In and out of her wet, creaming swollen pussy lips she worked Franks big cock. The wet, sloppy, sucking sounds her pussy made fucking him were grotesque to my ears, yet I wanted her so strongly right then for myself!

My wife cried out “Oh god damn, fuck, me you ...... fucker!” as she climaxed. Frank, balls deep inside my wife called out “Oh Fuck!” He gripped her hips hard, pulled her onto his cock, thrust with all his might emptied his balls into my wife. Quivering and shaking he spurted again and again into my wife!

Time stood still for me at that moment.

I felt sick, like I was going to throw up!
I could not believe my wife had just let another man cum inside her. She more than just let him, she wanted it, desired it, loved it, had a big full body orgasm from it.

My wife cooed in pleasure “Oooooo Yesss” . She clamped her pussy down and was milking Franks cock of every drop like she had milked mine thousands of times before. I felt sick and angry.

Watching my wife orgasm pushed me over the edge. I got on top of Franks wife, Linda, and pounded my cock deep into her wet pussy. I lifted her legs onto my shoulders and thrust as deep and hard as I could.

Linda climaxed quickly in a great shuddering orgasm. It felt so good. I grabbed her ass, pulled her onto my cock even deeper.

My own wife cheered me on; “ Fuck Her Baby! Fuck Her Good!” Hearing that I let loose a terrific spurt of cum deep into Linda. Again and again I pumped load after load into her.

I couldn’t wait to get my slutty wife alone in our hotel room! We thanked Frank and Linda, got dressed and headed back to the hotel. Candy and I fucked each other like animals in heat like never before. We fucked each other for hours until we collapsed, exhausted, totally spent, in each other’s arms.
 
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Oh wow, if i think about it, the first time i was very excited, afraid, anxious, and still is to tell you the truth. the feeling i get knowing that my wife is enjoying another man's penis is incredible, especially knowing that he is much larger than i am. After i cum at the beginning i used to be thinkish, asking my self if i should let her again, days afterwards sometimes i used to be very Jealous, however when i used to know that she will be meeting him again i used to feel the same excitement. Nowadays i am no longer jealous as long as i know when and where she is meeting him.
 
I don’t think you can ever forget the first time. My first time (and every other time) I was not present with my wife and her bf.

I agree with most of the previous respondents where it truly is a mix of some of the most opposite feelings. Excitement, shame, time flying by and seeming standing still.

For us, my wife and her now bf spent a good amount of time over the course of a couple months reconnecting as friends so the fact that she was gone wasn’t anything new for me. When we knew that they were going to try to move beyond a platonic friendship, the angst and the knot in my stomach during their first night together was unavoidable for me. My wife did check in a couple of times thought the night and offered me a couple last chances to veto anything from moving forward. I’d be lying if I told you all that I didn’t consider pulling the plug early just to alleviate some anxiety, but obviously I’m glad I didn’t and they went through with it.

After knowing that she’d spend the night, that was probably the longest night of my life. I couldn’t really ...... partially due to excitement, partially due to worry about opening Pandora’s box, but mainly I was proud of my wife for putting herself out there and trying something new.
Really love your last line, confessing that you mainly were proud of your wife for putting herself out there and trying something new. Those are wonderful sentaments.