She is really excited about it. I’m not sure how I feel about it
UPDATE: First solo dates
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I enjoy watching my wife for sure. Need to find her a huge cock to watch her with though.
It doesn't matter how you feel. It's her call.. It's probably best if you don't like it.. My wife wants me jealous and insecure
That’s not really how we operate. It is 100% her call but I have veto power as does she. This doesn’t replace our sexlife; it enhances it.
Because some people will suggest that NO MATTER what YOU feel you should just take it and accept it. Some people get their thrill from being jealous and insecure. It seems common that people believe that their attitude fits everyone's situation. In truth what works for them and what drives them is unique to them and not everyone. They aren't in your shoes. They don't have the same dynamic you and your wife have.
Bottom line is if you don't like it then it doesn't enhance anything. It causes more anxiety than it causes excitement or enhancement. If your wife is dead set on having this then she's got to put in the effort to make it happen. SHE has to recognize that if she wants you to want this with her then she needs to something about it. The ball is in her court. You've accommodated her. You let her have experience. Now it's on her to make sure you come out of it with a good experience.
Too many people will tell you to just "deal with it". They will expect you to just ignore your feelings and let her enjoy herself. That sounds great for her. That in turn means they don't think your reaction and feelings don't matter. They are wrong! You will have feelings about it, you already do. When she finally returns to you emotions will be running high. You'll be challenged to be honest and how you share that honesty will have major impact going forward from here. You are definitely in a delicate position here but I give you great credit for having tried your best to make things work.
Because the lifestyle is to benefit you both, if one person or the other loose sight of their partners needs and feelings in the end the relationship will be negatively effected and or permanently damaged. Regardless whether a cuckold or Stag relationship. I'm for a Win/ Win outcome. Enjoy your wife solo night out, and do enjoy sloppy 2nds. An amazing experience btw..
Tonight was just a play date. While she was gone, I did my best not to think about it because the process still turns me on. But I do get jealous, which I know is part of this whole thing and so I’ve learned to deal with that aspect of it. I really want her to take on a more dominant role (with me) while she’s out with others; i.e.: be vocally dominant, cage me, maybe some verbal humiliation (all in fun). Sadly she is not interested in that stuff at all. I honestly don’t know that I am but in theory it sounds super hot so I want to try it.
If you’ve followed our story at all, you’ll know that I am not allowed to play at all, except obviously with her, and she is allowed. It’s kind of like one-sided polyamory. We’ve had some discussions and explorations on that topic and we’ve come to some neutral ground I believe. But it is still one-sided, so I’m hoping that if 1) im not involved in the dates, 2) i dont get to watch, and 3) I dont get to have any extracurricular fun of my own, then at least maybe she will attempt to go a little dominant so that I at least get something out of the whole situation.
She’s home now and she loved the date, after the initial awkwardness because of such a long break between the last time they met. We fucked and it was good and she was a little more vocal but nothing out of the ordinary for us. Who knows what will come of it.
I’m not even sure what I am hoping will happen.
Oh yes. They fucked. He came inside her. Then he fingered her on and off all night and she blew him later in the evening and swallowed.
So did you enjoy eating her cum filled pussy out and retaking her body in hot lusty passionate sex? This is what I enjoy best about reclaiming my wife. Tell us about how you reclaimed her and your feelings and emotions.... Did her pussy feel like a creamy hot tight glove... do tell...
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It isn’t my first time, but it’s always hot for sure. She loves it. I fuck her hard. I’ve never had issues pleasing her and I know her body like the back of my hand. I went down on her from behind and licked her asshole for good measure. Flipped her over, pounded her for a while. Grabbed a wand and put it on her clit and made her cum multiple times while I fucked her. Then I flipped her over and railed her until I came inside her.
Then this morning, I made her cum with my fingers, and as she was grinding back into me (we were spooning), she asked me to fuck her in the ass (I never ask for this but she does). I filled her ass this morning with my cum.
husbands - focus on doing anything to make her happy and always lick her pussy clean after she has been fucked by others.
It was a full event!
Did she tell you this before or after she got home?
How did you feel about it?
she told me all of this after. It always turns me on, if I’m being honest. At least in the moment.
You mentioned "At least in the moment". And after you fuck her, after you cum?
And the day after that, how do you feel?
I'm pretty sure Anonymousrob HAS been a "good boy", maybe not in the same way as robbiewilsucku. Everybody has their own way of doing things. If being a "good boy" is fun then hell yeah! If being a "good boy" isn't fun then why be good?
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